Not Your Average Autism Mom

• 229. Stuck on Repeat: Understanding Perseveration in Autism

  In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mompodcast, Shannon opens up about a challenge that hits close to home — perseveration. If you’ve ever felt like you’re answering the same questiondozens (or hundreds!) of times a day, or watching your child get stuck on worries, routines, or reminders, you’re not alone. This is part of everyday life for many autistic children, teens, and adults — including Shannon’s son Jordan, who still struggles daily with perseveration even in adulthood.Together, we’ll unpack what perseveration really lookslike at different ages and why it happens — from slow processing and sensory overload to anxiety and the need for predictability. Shannon shares specific real-life examples you’ll relate to, like constant questioning about schedulesor getting “stuck” on worries from the past, and offers simple, practical strategies to help support your child when they can’t move on easily.If perseveration is a regular visitor in your home, thisepisode will help you feel less alone and give you tools to make it just a little bit easier.Because progress is always possible — even when it showsup one small moment at a time.🌟 Leave a Review: If this episode resonates with you, share your thoughts and experiences by leaving a review. Your feedback supports the podcast and createsa space for other parents to find inspiration and connection.Together, we can overcome challenges and create abrighter future for our families.P.S. Feeling overwhelmed and ready for a change? Whenyou're ready to take control and see different results, check out our private membership.Access exclusive support, training and resources to saveyou a ton of time, and a community that truly understands. Join us and discover how amazing this journey can be!  Get Details HEREAdditional Resources:Join ⁠The Not Your Average Autism Mom Movement⁠ group on FBIf there is a specific topic that you would like us totalk about on the podcast, email us directly at ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠Have you listened to these episodes yet?217. Your Words Matter; Raising Resilient Kids110. Have You Ever Secretly Hated Autism?

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• 228. The Real-World Classroom: Preparing Our Kids for Life, Not Just School

  In today’s episode, we’re diving into the essential (andoften overlooked) world of functional skills—the real-life abilities our kids need to navigate the world with confidence and independence.I’ll walk you through what a functional curriculum really means, why it's non-negotiable for our children on the spectrum, and how to start building these skills right now—at any age and stage.From early routines like brushing teeth and packinglunches, to teen goals like budgeting, cooking, and using public transportation, we’ll cover how everyday life can become the most powerful classroom.Plus, I’ll share strategies for breaking prompt dependence, teaching self-awareness, and building real-world communication skills that matter more than perfect report cards ever will.Real progress isn’t about perfection—it’s about practicing real life, one small step at a time. Tune in, breathe deep, and let’s keep building their bright, independent futures together!🌟 Leave a Review:If this episode resonates with you, share your thoughtsand experiences by leaving a review. Your feedback supports the podcast and creates a space for other parents to find inspiration and connection.We can overcome challenges and create a brighter futurefor our families.P.S.Feeling overwhelmed and ready for a change? Whenyou're ready to take control and see different results, check out our Not Your Average Autism Mom private membership.Access exclusive support, training, and resources tosave you a ton of time, and a community that truly understands.Join us and discover how amazing this journey can be!⁠⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠Get Details HERE⁠⁠ ⁠ Additional Resources:Join ⁠⁠⁠The Not Your Average Autism Mom Movement⁠⁠⁠ group on FBIf there is a specific topic that you would like us totalk about on the podcast, email us directly at ⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠Have you listened to these episodes yet? 222. Locked Pantries and Naked Kids; Autism Parenting Chronicles124. What to do When They Say No (Special Education Edition)⁠ 

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• 227. They're Not Ignoring You; It's a Skill Gap

  In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mompodcast, host Shannon Urquiola breaks down one of the most misunderstood challenges many moms face—why their autistic child seems to ignore them or tunethem out.Whether your child is a toddler, a teen, or somewhere inbetween, attention to people is a skill that doesn’t always come naturally.Shannon explains why this happens, especially in children with both autism and ADHD, and shares practical, everyday strategies to help your child begin noticing, responding to, and connecting with you more consistently.You’ll learn:Why attention to people is critical for learningWhat to do when your child seems more engaged with objects or screensSimple ways to build attention without pressure or power strugglesHow to meet your child where they are—and build from thereThis episode is full of relatable examples and guidanceto help you feel more equipped and less alone. Because your child isn’t ignoring you on purpose—it’s a skill gap. And together, we’ll work on it.🌟 Leave a Review:If this episode resonates with you, share your thoughts and experiences by leaving a review. Your feedback supports the podcast and creates a space for other parents to find inspiration and connection.We can overcome challenges and create a brighter future for our families.P.S.Feeling overwhelmed and ready for a change? When you're ready to take control and see different results, check out our Not Your Average Autism Mom private membership.Access exclusive support, training, and resources to save you a ton of time, and a community that truly understands.Join us and discover how amazing this journey can be!⁠⁠⁠ Get Details HEREAdditional Resources:Join ⁠⁠The Not Your Average Autism Mom Movement⁠⁠ group on FBIf there is a specific topic that you would like us to talk about on the podcast, email us directly at ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠Have you listened to these episodes yet? ⁠⁠218. Planning for the Unplanned; A Legacy of Care⁠⁠⁠⁠137. Explaining our Children’s Differences

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• 226. Tantrums, Emotional Dysregulation & Meltdowns; What’s Really Going On

  In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mompodcast, Shannon dives into one of the most misunderstood and emotionally charged aspects of raising an autistic child—tantrums, emotional dysregulation, and meltdowns.Although these emotional outbursts may look similar onthe outside, the why behind them couldn’t be more different. Shannon breaks down the crucial differences between each, explains how to recognize what’s really going on, and offers real-life scenarios and simple strategies to help you respond in a way that supports your child and preserves your peace.You’ll learn: The key differences between tantrums, emotional dysregulation, and meltdownsWhat to do (and not do) when your child is in the middle of an outburstHow to create a proactive plan to help prevent future episodesWhy time, patience, and understanding are essential on this journeyThis episode is full of practical advice and heart-centered reminders that you're not alone. Whether you're just beginning to navigate emotional outbursts or need new tools to reset your approach, this conversation is one you won’t want to miss.🌟 Leave a Review: If this episode resonates with you, share your thoughts and experiences by leaving a review. Your feedback supports the podcast and creates a space for other parents to find inspiration and connection.Together, we can overcome challenges and create abrighter future for our families.P.S. Feeling overwhelmed and ready for a change? Whenyou're ready to take control and see different results, check out our private membership.Access exclusive support, training and resources to saveyou a ton of time, and a community that truly understands. Join us and discover how amazing this journey can be!  Get Details HEREAdditional Resources:Join ⁠The Not Your Average Autism Mom Movement⁠ group on FBIf there is a specific topic that you would like us totalk about on the podcast, email us directly at ⁠⁠[email protected] you listened to these episodes yet?Episode 96. Our Parenting Journey is DifferentEpisode 74. You Cannot Fix All the Things All the Time 

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• 225. Autism Isn’t a Bad Word; Unless We Make It One

  In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom Podcast, host Shannon Urquiola dives into a conversation many moms need to hear — the truth that autism isn’t a bad word, and having an autistic child doesn’t mean they are less than.Shannon shares the emotional reality of hearing the word“autism” for the first time, why so many parents fear saying it out loud, and how the label is often misunderstood by those who haven’t been impacted by autism personally. She offers real-life scenarios, encouraging strategies, and powerful mindset shifts to help you speak confidently about your child’s diagnosis.Whether you’re still sitting in fear or just unsure how to explain things to others, this episode will give you perspective, courage, and practical support. Because the more you talk about it, the easier it becomes.And remember — your child isn’t broken. They’re just different. And different isn’t bad.🌟 Leave a Review: If this episode resonates with you, share your thoughts and experiences by leaving a review. Your feedback not only supports the podcast but also creates a space for other parents to find inspiration and connection.Are you registered for our FREE Webinar?Finding Strength & Resilience; A Mom's Guide to Autism ParentingClick HERE for the details⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Together, we can overcome challenges and create a brighter future for our families.P.S. Feeling overwhelmed and ready for a change? When you're ready to take control and see different results, check out our private membership.Access exclusive support, training and resources to save you a ton of time, and a community that truly understands. Join us and discover how amazing this journey can be!  Additional Resources:Join the NYAAM MOVEMENT on FB⁠If there is a specific topic that you would like us to talk about on the podcast, email us directly at ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠Did you miss these episodes?⁠⁠129. Getting a Grip on Escalating Behaviors⁠⁠⁠⁠124. What to do When They Say No (Special Education Edition)

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