In this episode of Lilies Among Thorns, we talk honestly about what it’s like to wait—without the filter. We share the quiet insecurities that rise when you feel hidden… the ache of wondering if God’s forgotten you… the doubt that creeps in when His timing doesn’t match your hope. And then there’s the comparison— Not just of who’s “moving forward,” but of beauty, worth, love, calling, purpose. When it seems like everyone else is seen, chosen, flourishing—and you’re still in the silence. This isn’t a pep talk. Not every episode ends on a high note. Sometimes, God invites us to stay in the ache. There are seasons of joy, but also seasons of sorrow—and even that is part of our purification. If you’re in a waiting season where everything feels uncertain… if comparison is stealing your peace… if you’re tired of pretending you’re okay—this episode is for you. We don’t have all the answers. We’re not here to fix it. We’re just here to be with you in it.Find us on instagram : @ liliesamongthornspod Julie's : @ JuliannrvivasZeneth's : @ juliezenethfor more ways to find us click here: https://linktr.ee/liliesamongthornsTimecodes :0:00 - Intro1:00 - Lilies Among Thorns3:26 - Hidden but held8:40 - Struggling with comparison15:27 - Cosmetic surgery & Catholic scrupulosity23:56 - Comparison in your hidden years27:10 - Still waiting after nine days, nine months... years31:55 - False humility & despair 33:50 - Catholic eldest daughter44:48 - The prodigals son's brother47:20 - Praise God when you're in limbo51:00 - Catholics don't know how to discern anymore54:30 - God sees you59:47 - Hard pill to swallow, your vocation is connected to your salvation1:02:26 - Sacred heart of Jesus, i trust in you1:07:39 - Outro#Catholic #ChristianPodcast #FaithJourney
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The Ache For Holy Friendships | Lilies Among Thorns
Todays episode is thanks to "What God is Not" Podcast, our favorite Catholic podcast they have a non-profit "Photina" https://photina.org/A huge thanks to everyone who donated to make this podcast possible!Find More here : https://linktr.ee/liliesamongthornsWe talk about holy friendships and the drought in it. We walk through our own struggles of finding Catholic community. We wanted to call out this problem we have as lay people especially lay women, and also poke fun of ourselves. Hope you all can identify with one of us and find a friend in us. Keep us in your prayers!Instagram: @liliesamongthornspod@juliannarvivas@juliezenethNote : Julie: I truly understand i have my own short comings as a friend, the story i shared about my friendship break up with "c" was to emphisize that friendship break ups are real even in the Catholic space, and how i realized not only do we lack being their for our friends in their sorrows (Everyone talks about friends leaving in their sorrow) But at my most joyful moment when i was going to meet Emmanuel, she could not embrace that joy with me & i realized how a friend should be there in every "mystery" of your life, i needed her in a joyful moment.Timecodes :0:00 - Intro3:10 - Julie’s friendship break up11:43 - Zeneth’s friendship experience 14:50 - Prudence with Catholic friends20:30 - Letting go of secular friends28:22 - What makes a good Catholic friend?34:32 - Catholic young adult groups38:42 - The drought in Catholic female friendships43:15 - Judgement in the Traditional Catholic community47:15 - Outro#catholicchurch #catholic #rosaryinfrench
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