Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman

Brandon sits down with Curly Velasquez, co-host of The Super Secret Bestie Club and VP of Development at LatiNation Media, for a funny, spiritual, and deeply messy conversation about grief, sober sex, ancestral rituals, chosen family, and the ways our bodies remember what our mouths are still learning how to say.
The conversation also gets into the idea that messiness is not new — it is inherited. From vulgar grandmas and Bible stories to queer lineage, family lore, and the people who taught us how to survive with humor, desire, and spirit still intact, Curly and Brandon unpack how the mess can be sacred and hilarious.
From altars and grandma stories to intimacy without numbing and the truth that “the only way to get through grief is to grieve,” Curly helps Brandon unpack how messiness can be inheritance, healing, and a practice of staying present.
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Brandon sits down with Curly Velasquez, co-host of The Super Secret Bestie Club and Vice President of Development at LatiNation Media, for a funny, spiritual, and deeply messy conversation about grief, sober sex, ancestral rituals, chosen family, and the ways our bodies remember what our mouths are still learning how to say.
The conversation also gets into the idea that messiness is not new — it is inherited. From vulgar grandmas and Bible stories to queer lineage, family lore, and the people who taught us how to survive with humor, desire, and spirit still intact, Curly and Brandon unpack how the mess can be sacred and hilarious.
From altars and grandma stories to intimacy without numbing and the truth that “the only way to get through grief is to grieve,” Curly helps Brandon unpack how messiness can be inheritance, healing, and a practice of staying present.
Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6Wg
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In this bonus episode of, Brandon reflects on his conversation with best friend Lyo Reneau before diving into Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson breakup discourse and the mental health toll of public scrutiny. Brandon also reacts to Dr. Cheyenne Bryant’s licensing controversy, shares why referrals and trusted support matter, and closes with just a little tax-write-off kiki with Lyo.
Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6Wg
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Brandon sits down with their day-one Lyo Reneau — a talent and culture strategist, master trainer, and certified room-reader — for a conversation about how to pull up for your people. From nightlife lore to surviving hard truths, they unpack how to build healthy friendship when nobody gave you the blueprint — and how to master the art of showing up anyway.
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Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6Wg
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Brandon wanted to share this very pertinent episode about chosen family, discovering your queerness and being okay with just yourself. We'll be back with new episodes next week!
Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com
Comments and suggestions email [email protected]
Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood
Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com

Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6Wg
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.