Stuck? The Science-Backed Tool To Finally Get What You Want
Have you ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of what you actually want from your life? I sit down with Tara Schuster, top journaling researcher, who is changing the way people use journaling to heal, gain clarity, and build real, lasting self-worth.
Tara shares how she went from the world’s biggest journaling skeptic to a massive advocate after it helped her out of a deep depression. We unpack the surprising science behind why journaling works—and give a step by step guide of how and when to use it for the greatest benefits. This conversation is vulnerable, hilarious, practical, and packed with tips you can use today.
🎧 What you’ll learn:
The 5 research-backed journaling methods that actually work
Why journaling reduces anxiety, trauma symptoms & emotional reactivity
How to find clarity when you genuinely don’t know what you want
How to use her “Values Filter” to attract the right people
The science of “affect labeling” and how it calms your nervous system
The nighttime journaling practice that instantly reduces overthinking
The journaling technique proven to help you heal old wounds
Tara’s tool for turning jealousy into possibility
The neuroscience-backed version of manifestation
For more from Tara Schuster:
Her New Book: This Journal F*cking Works
Her 14-Day Journaling Challenge & Resources at www.TaraSchuster.com/Liz
Her Instagram: @taraschuster
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Formerly the Healthier Together Podcast.
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The Liz Moody Podcast Episode 389
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New Research: Marriage Benefits Men More—But This One Change Can Fix It
I dive into the science of modern heterosexual relationships, and what I found shook me. Men tend to live longer and gain emotional and health support, even in low quality marriages. While women only receive these benefits in very high-quality marriages.
To rebalance invisible labor and create fairer systems for women, I share tools you can use with insights I’ve gained from top experts. I also discuss the possible benefits of an unmarried life path. Whether you're single or partnered, after listening to this episode you'll leave feeling informed and empowered to create nourishing, sustainable relationships that benefit you.
🎧 What you’ll learn:
The Fair Play Method for dividing household responsibilities
The Time-Tracking Method for revealing hidden inequalities
Why rotating career priorities reduces burnout, resentment, and wage gaps
How to identify emotional over-dependence in relationships
Two powerful ways for men to build emotional support systems outside their partners
The 5-minute weekly check-in that can transform connection, communication, and fairness
How to define what a truly good marriage looks like for you
✨ Homework: Choose one task or domain in your home—meals, laundry, scheduling, kids’ activities—and assign FULL ownership to one partner (planning, remembering, doing, follow-up). Or try the 5-minute weekly check-in with the three questions shared in the episode. Notice how shifting just one dynamic lightens your load and deepens mutual support.
Check out the previous episodes of The Liz Moody Podcast discussed today:
New Science: Why Women Are So Exhausted + The Surprising Ways to Feel Better with Dr. Corinne Low
Invisible Labor Is Damaging Your Relationships–But This 6 Minute Exercise Can Change Everything with Eve Rodsky
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Ready to transform every part of your life? Order Liz’s book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success now!
Connect with Liz on Instagram @lizmoody or online at www.lizmoody.com. Shop our conversation cards, cute merch & more at https://shop.lizmoody.com/.
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This podcast and website represents the opinions of Liz Moody and her guests to the show. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for information purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.
The Liz Moody Podcast Episode 388
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The Sneaky Ways You Waste Your Life: Optimize Your Time, Do Less, & Have More Fun
Do you ever feel like you’re behind on the life you’re trying to build, despite constantly being busy? I sat down with Oliver Burkeman, one of the most influential voices on productivity and purpose, to share tools to make more time for the things that genuinely matter so you can do more of what you love to create your dream life.
Oliver unpacks the psychology, sharing a radically different productivity approach: embracing your limitations, choosing what matters, and releasing the pressures holding you back.
🎧 What you’ll learn:
What boredom and discomfort actually signal
How to work on your dreams when you only have 10–20 minutes
A grounding question to decide what’s truly worth your time
How to trust yourself even if you’ve “let yourself down” before
A moment-to-moment practice for choosing what life is asking of you now
Why your brain clings to the fantasy of a “sorted, future version” of yourself
What procrastination is really about (and why it’s not laziness)
A simple tool—the Reverse Golden Rule—for becoming kinder to yourself
How parenting reshaped Oliver’s relationship to time and control
Why daily-ish habits work better than perfect streaks
✨ Homework: Spend 10 minutes doing something you know you want more of in your life—writing, calling someone you love, being outside, reading, creating. Not planning it, not optimizing it. Doing it. This is how change starts.
For more from Oliver Burkeman:
His new book, Meditations for Mortals
His bestselling book, 4,000 Weeks: Time Management for Mortals
His website: www.oliverburkeman.com
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Ready to uplevel every part of your life? Order Liz’s book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success now!
Connect with Liz on Instagram @lizmoody or online at www.lizmoody.com. Buy our cute sweatshirts, conversation cards, and more at https://shop.lizmoody.com/.
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This podcast and website represent the opinions of Liz Moody and her guests. The content is not intended as medical advice. Please consult your healthcare provider for any personal health questions.
The Liz Moody Podcast Episode 387
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Exhausted? Energy Hacks That Actually Help (According to Science)
If all you want to do by 3 PM is nap... this one’s for you. I share 5 powerful, science-backed hacks I personally use to feel more energized and clear-headed, fast. You won’t hear “get more sleep” or “cut sugar”. These are unique, practical tools you can use today.
I’ll walk you through everything from how your brain’s ultradian rhythm impacts focus and fatigue, to the truth about why most of us don’t get impactful rest during our breaks (and how to fix it). You’ll learn how to close mental loops draining your energy, why peppermint tea works better than a third cup of coffee, and how a simple dose of sunlight can recharge your battery, resetting your entire day.
🎧What you’ll learn:
The 90-minute brain rhythm that boosts productivity and prevents burnout
How to get the quickest re-charge during a break
Why unfinished tasks drain your brain—and how to shut the loop
My favorite natural energy drink
The light hack I swear by to feel more awake, focused, and stable
✨Homework: Schedule in one, 10-minute break to step outside or look far into the distance, and take 2 minutes of this time to exhale longer than you inhale (no phone, no scrolling, no multitasking). Notice how you feel after.
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Ready to uplevel every part of your life? Order Liz’s book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success now!
Connect with Liz on Instagram @lizmoody or online at www.lizmoody.com. Buy our cute sweatshirts, conversation cards, and more at https://shop.lizmoody.com/.
Use our discount codes from our highly vetted and tested brand partners by visiting https://www.lizmoody.com/codes.
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This podcast and website represents the opinions of Liz Moody and her guests to the show. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for information purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.
The Liz Moody Podcast Episode 386
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Your Stress Survival Guide: 6 Experts, One Powerful Playbook
I’ve compiled the best stress-relief tips from the top doctors, psychologists, neuroscientists, and therapists I’ve interviewed. Plus, I share the science-backed tools that have personally changed my life to help you calm your mind, reset your body, and feel better.
They’re doable shifts that actually work—even in your busiest, messiest moments. Whether you’re trying to stay grounded through family drama or just reclaim your energy and clarity, you’ll walk away with real tools—from gut-brain rewiring to the real root of burnout.
If you wake up already stressed, your brain won’t shut off at night, or you’re just feeling emotionally raw from life right now, this episode will help.
🎧What You’ll Learn:
A body scan to achieve psychological rest from clinical psychologist, Dr. Jenny Taitz
How to engage in "mini c creativity" to beat burnout from creative health scientist, Katina Bajaj
How to turn off the noise and focus on what’s in your control from one of the world’s most well-known therapist, Dr. Julie Smith
What and when to eat for balancing your cortisol levels from registered dietitian nutritionist, Lauren Papanos
Why enjoying time with family or friends will improve both your gut health and brain health from renowned neuroscientist and gastroenterologist, Dr. Emeran Mayer
The micro stressor audit, action antidote, and more tried and tested tips from me—longtime journalist & best-selling author, Liz Moody
Check out the full episodes of The Liz Moody Podcast featured in this episode:
9 Hidden Reasons You’re Tired All The Time (+ Easy, Science-Backed Solutions)
Science-Backed Hacks to MAJORLY Reduce Stress When The World Gets Overwhelming
The Real Cure for Burnout Isn’t Rest—It’s Creativity. Here's How Anyone Can Unlock Theirs
I’ve Tried Every Hack To Reduce Stress—These 6 Actually Work To Instantly Feel Better
Your Trickiest Mental Health Questions—Finally Answered (By a World-Renowned Therapist)
Proven Brain Hacks to Get More Done in Less Time: The New Science Of Focus
What Social Media Gets Wrong About Hormones: A Guide To What's Real & What's BS
I've Been Having A Hard Time Lately...
Healthy Gut Brain Habits: How To Reduce Risk Of Dementia, Parkinson’s, Anxiety, Depression, & More
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Ready to uplevel every part of your life? Order Liz’s book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success now!
Connect with Liz on Instagram @lizmoody. Buy our sweatshirts and conversation cards at https://shop.lizmoody.com/.
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This podcast and website represents the opinions of Liz Moody and her guests to the show. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for information purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.
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The Liz Moody Podcast, hosted by bestselling author and longtime journalist Liz Moody, is a research-backed wellness podcast all about helping you live your healthiest, happiest life. Each week, Liz sits down with some of the world's best functional doctors, researchers, authors, journalists and various other leaders in their field to answer all of health and wellness questions you want to know. In a world where wellness information is everywhere, this podcast aims at cutting through the noise and finding out what actually works. Come along with Liz as she uncovers the unknown hacks, tips, and tricks you need to know for making a healthier life easier—topics include what to eat to fight disease, how to take control of your finances, tips for fighting anxiety and depression, productivity and career advice, advice for making friends as an adult, the best skincare routine elements, healthy cooking secrets, and so much more. To get even more info, head to lizmoody.com and come hang out on Instagram @lizmoody to enter giveaways!