The Best of You

Dr. Alison Cook
The Best of You
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    How to Be Honest When You’re Angry Without Being Harmful

    06/05/2026 | 8 mins.
    Today's Scripture: Ephesians 4:26–27

    **Today's devotional is in response to listener requests.**

    Anger can be confusing—especially if you were taught it was bad, dangerous, or unspiritual. But Scripture gives us a more nuanced path: anger itself is not automatically sin, but it does need care.Today’s episode looks at Ephesians 4 and the difference between anger as a signal and anger as a force that can harm when left untended. We explore:

    *Why anger is a mobilizing emotion

    *Why “do not let the sun go down” should not be used to force premature reconciliation

    *How to slow your body down before anger takes over

    *What it means to practice honesty without harm

    Go Deeper:

    Episode 83: How to Turn Anger, Sadness, and Fear Into Powerful Allies

    Episode 44: Why Anger Can Become a Surprising Friend

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    211. Is Productivity Ruining Our Mental Health? Why We Need More Play (Piera Gelardi)

    06/04/2026 | 53 mins.
    When did being a responsible adult become synonymous with being serious all the time?

    Somewhere along the way, many of us learned that curiosity, playfulness, imagination, and wonder were things we needed to leave behind in order to grow up. But what if those qualities aren't distractions from a meaningful life?

    What if they're essential to it?

    In this episode, Dr. Alison Cook sits down with entrepreneur, creative visionary, and author Piera Gelardi to explore why playfulness is far more than a luxury—it's a powerful source of resilience, creativity, connection, and emotional well-being. Together, they unpack how stress, perfectionism, and the pressure to "have it all together" disconnect us from our authentic selves, and how reclaiming play can help us feel more alive.

    You'll learn:

    Why playfulness is a sign of emotional health

    How stress, perfectionism, and the "cool police" rob us of joy

    The surprising connection between play and resilience

    How to move from a pressured state into a playful state

    Practical ways to reconnect with curiosity, wonder, and creativity

    Why childlike qualities may actually be your greatest strengths

    This conversation is an invitation to loosen your grip, laugh a little more, and rediscover the parts of yourself that make you feel most alive.

    More Resources:

    Order Piera’s book, The Playful Way: Creativity, Connection, and Joy Through Everyday Moments of Play

    You can now preorder Dr. Alison’s newest book, The Secure Soul, and immediately receive the first 3 chapters as well as early access to the companion guide!

    Connect further with @dralisoncook on Instagram

    Curious what Family Role may have shaped you? Take the Family Role Quiz to learn how you may be showing up in your relationships with others.

    Want to hear more like this? Start here:

    Episode 188: Tiny Joys, Big Healing: Retraining the Brain for Hope with Dr MaryCatherine McDonald

    📖 Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here

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    When You’re Carrying Too Much Responsibility by Yourself

    06/03/2026 | 9 mins.
    Today's Scripture: Numbers 11:10–17There is a kind of exhaustion that comes from feeling responsible for too many people, emotions, needs, and outcomes. Today’s episode looks at Moses’ honest breaking point in Numbers 11 and the mercy of God’s response. God does not shame Moses for being overwhelmed. He gives him support.

    *The hidden exhaustion of over-responsibility*Why capable people often struggle to receive help*How survival strategies become burnout*Why limits are not a failure of love*The mercy of shared burden

    Go Deeper: Take the Family Roles quiz

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    Join 80,000+ Soul Menders in Dr. Alison’s free email community for ongoing reflection and support.

    While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.‍
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    Over-Functioning, the Pressure to Meet Every Need, and What We Can Learn from Jesus

    06/02/2026 | 9 mins.
    Today's Scripture: Mark 1:35–39

    When everyone needs something from you, it can feel loving—even responsible—to respond immediately. But there is a difference between compassion and being controlled by demand. Today’s episode looks at Mark 1 and the surprising way Jesus responds when everyone is looking for him. He withdraws to pray, stays rooted in God, and moves from clarity instead of urgency. We explore:

    *Why over-functioning often starts with anxiety

    *What Jesus models instead

    *The difference between compassion and compulsion

    *Why solitude and prayer help with discernment

    *How to discern what is truly yours to carry today

    Go Deeper: Episode 138: Breaking Free from Over-Functioning: Discover the Hidden Cost of Always Being the Responsible One

    Connect with Dr. Alison on Instagram: @dralisoncook

    Join 80,000+ Soul Menders in Dr. Alison’s free email community for ongoing reflection and support.

    While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.‍
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    When You’re Trying to Control What You Can’t Control

    06/01/2026 | 9 mins.
    Today's Scripture: Psalm 46:1–7

    When life feels unsteady, our bodies often know before our minds do. We tighten, scan, spiral, and reach for control—trying to make uncertainty disappear before we let ourselves rest. Today’s episode walks through Psalm 46 and the promise that God is not our escape from trouble, but our ever-present help in trouble. In this episode, we explore:

    *The difference between spiritual grounding and spiritual bypassing

    *What Psalm 46 teaches us about refuge, strength, and control

    *How to return to God’s presence when life feels unstable

    *One small embodied practice for finding steadiness today

    Go Deeper:

    Start reading about inner attachment, when you preorder The Secure Soul

    Connect with Dr. Alison on Instagram: @dralisoncook

    Join 80,000+ Soul Menders in Dr. Alison’s free email community for ongoing reflection and support.

    While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.‍
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Join therapist and author, Dr. Alison Cook, as she guides you through some of your toughest challenges with wisdom, kindness, and grace. Together with friends and experts we'll unpack the best of psychology from a faith-based perspective. You’ll discover how to break free from painful patterns, mend your past, and discover what brings out the best of you.
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