Vanilla Swingers - A Swinger Podcast for Newbies, by Newbies in the Lifestyle

• New to Swinging? Here's How Not to Suck

  🗺️ A year ago, we gave you Swinging 101 when we knew absolutely nothing. Now? We know… maybe one and a half things. But hey, that’s progress. So buckle up, because out of the mouths of idiots comes the ultimate newbie guide - why your first club visit will feel like freshman orientation in lingerie, how to avoid crying in the Uber home, and why Viagra belongs in your weekend bag right next to the lube and breath mints and subscription box of condoms. Whether you’re here to watch, play, or just laugh at our mistakes - this is the crash course you didn’t know you needed (and probably shouldn’t take too seriously). Think of us as your horny tour guides… except we still get lost a lot. 🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free! *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*  Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!): 🔥 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! New to Swinging? Here's How Not to Suck https://www.vanillaswingers.com/new-to-swinging-heres-how-not-to-suck/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us  

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• Fair Is Fair... Why Compersion Only Goes So Far

  👀 "You had your threesome, now it’s my turn!"  Let’s talk about the myth of keeping it “even” in the lifestyle. In this spicy episode, Kat and Leo break down how scorekeeping kills the vibe, why selflessness is the ultimate turn-on, and how to show up FOR your partner - even if your night was hotter than theirs. It’s compersion vs. lizard brain. And fair? Well, that’s not always 50/50.   🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free! *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*  Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!): 🔥 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Fair Is Fair... Why Compersion Only Goes So Far https://www.vanillaswingers.com/fair-is-fair-why-compersion-only-goes-so-far/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us      

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• Hot Takes from the Lifestyle: Swinging's Dirty Little Secrets

  🌶️ Join Kat & Leo as they dish some of the hottest takes of the lifestyle. These are the hot, messy, slightly savage truths about the swinger lifestyle - the kind you only admit after 3 tequila shots or mid-cuddle puddle when your guard’s down. Some takes will have you spitting out your champagne. Some will have you nodding so hard your necklace tangles. And some might make you wonder if we’ll still get invited to the next party. But let’s be honest - if you’ve been in the lifestyle long enough, you’ve thought these too. We’re spilling it all. No filters. No apologies. Just the unvarnished, laugh-so-hard-you-snort truth.   🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free! *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*  Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!): 🔥 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Hot Takes from the Lifestyle: Swinging's Dirty Little Secretshttps://www.vanillaswingers.com/hot-takes-from-the-lifestyle-swingings-dirty-little-secrets/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us

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• Dirty Bucket List: Filthy Fantasies We May or May Not Have

  🙈 We’re not talking “have sex in a hot tub” basic. The Ultimate Dirty Bucket List is your filthiest, freakiest, most no-holds-barred wishlist of sexual experiences. Some are fantasies. Some are goals. Some are nope, never. Some... we’ve already checked off. Oops. But don’t worry- this list isn’t just ours. We’re throwing out ideas we've heard, seen, or maybe dreamed up after one too many tequila shots. Things you might’ve never considered… until now. Because once you’re on this wild lifestyle ride 🎢, who knows where it’ll take you? We’re just here to give you food for thought - and share what we may (or may not) want to try ourselves. 💦 Dream big. Squirt harder. Let’s get dirty.   🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free! *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*  Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!): 🔥 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Dirty Bucket List: Filthy Fantasies We May or May Not Have https://www.vanillaswingers.com/dirty-bucket-list-filthy-fantasies-we-may-or-may-not-have/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us

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• Naughty N’awlins F*ck-It List: Go Hard or Go Home - Part 2

  🎺 New to Naughty N’awlins? Or just want to level up your sexy strategy? We’ve got you. In Part 2, Kat & Leo break down the ultimate Naughty checklist - what to pack, where to party, and how to actually get laid (instead of just collecting slut cards and compliments). From Bourbon St bar takeovers, seminars, and theme nights to plus-one rooms, door decorations, and playroom etiquette, we’re spilling our TOP TIPS and hotter takes from one of the wildest weeks in the lifestyle and how to make Naughty the naughtiest!   🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free! *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*  Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!): 🔥 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Naughty N’awlins F*ck-It List: Go Hard or Go Home - Part 2 https://www.vanillaswingers.com/naughty-nawlins-2025-fck-it-list-go-hard-or-go-home-part-2/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us

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