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WTF - Stories and Advice

Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove
WTF - Stories and Advice
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  • WTF - Stories and Advice

    From Buttholes to Bunkers: Professor Jiang, Game Theory, and Why You Should Probably Buy Some Rice

    04/14/2026 | 57 mins.
    We start where all great podcasts start — glamping, punctured air mattresses (thanks, cat), and a heated debate about what exactly Daryl means when he talks about "reading your ring." 
    From there we somehow end up deep in geopolitics, oil supply crises, and the kind of predictions that make you want to quietly stockpile pasta and rethink your entire life plan. Just a normal Tuesday.
    In this episode:
    We talk about the YouTube rabbit hole that has consumed Caroline's soul: Professor Jiang (technically Xueqin, technically a high school teacher, universally called Professor because he's just that good). His channel Predictive History uses game theory, structural historical analysis, and something borrowed from Isaac Asimov called psychohistory to model where geopolitics is actually heading — not based on what leaders say, but what the incentives force them to do.
    His three big predictions: Trump wins the election ✅, US goes to war with Iran ✅, US loses that war 👀
    We get into The Iron Trap — his argument that the US has structurally locked itself into conflict with Iran regardless of who's in the White House. We also talk about the Peloponnesian War, the fall of empires (spoiler: they always overextend), and why America at 250 years old is basically just following the script every empire before it has followed.
    Then we get into the part that's actually affecting us right now: oil supply, the Strait of Hormuz, and what a diesel shortage actually means. Hint: it's not just expensive petrol. It's food not moving, ambulances not moving, farms stopping. We break down what's actually in the tanks, what's on the water, and what happens when the ships stop coming
     
    Practical things we actually recommend:
    Stock up on basics — rice, canned food, olive oil, powdered milk, oats
    Get your medications in bulk if you can
    Back up your files — don't rely entirely on Google
    Look into Starlink if internet resilience matters to you
    Get an electric bike. Daryl got one. He's very pleased with himself.
    Follow Suzanne Peet (@thesuzannepeet on TikTok) for genuinely sane food security advice that doesn't involve becoming a full survivalist weirdo
    Check out Armstrong Economics and Martin Armstrong's Socrates system if you want more predictive modelling rabbit holes
    And yes, we do also recommend regulating your nervous system, growing microgreens on your windowsill, talking to your neighbours, and remembering that humans are actually mostly good and community is the real prep.
    We're not saying panic. We're saying: know what's coming, make some sensible moves, and maybe don't wait until the shelves are empty to buy rice.
    Helpful links:
    📺 Predictive History on YouTube
    🌐 Armstrong Economics
    🛢️ NZ Fuel Watch: FuelWatch.nz
    📱 @thesuzannepeet on TikTok
    📧 [email protected] — send us your tips, your stories, and your best rice recipes
    To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/

    www.darylgove.com  https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/
    To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out:

    https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com

    Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course

    https://www.ohhellohypnosis.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout
    Timestamps:
    00:00 Glamping, punctured mattresses, and cat chaos
    01:12 Dayvigo vs melatonin — the deep sleep data war
    02:22 The ring joke that got completely out of hand
    03:29 Welcome to WTF Stories and Advice
    04:47 Things therapists probably shouldn't talk about (we do anyway)
    05:42 Meet Professor Jiang — China's Nostradamus
    07:15 The three predictions and what comes next
    09:56 Who actually is this guy?
    15:53 Game theory, psychohistory, and predictive history explained
    19:16 The Iron Trap — why the Iran war was always going to happen
    21:47 Every empire overextends. Every single one.
    26:51 The Strait of Hormuz and what it actually means for us down here
    29:01 How fuel prices really work (and why it's worse than you think)
    30:05 How many days of diesel does NZ actually have?
    31:57 What happens when the supply chain stops
    32:56 The bigger geopolitical picture — who has the oil now
    35:17 Practical prep: what to actually do
    40:24 Suzanne Peet and the food security mindset shift
    47:06 Getting around without petrol (Daryl's electric bike era begins)
    48:40 Managing the anxiety — meditation, gardening, don't doom scroll
    49:44 The Age of Aquarius, old structures collapsing, and why that might actually be okay
    55:40 Wrapping up with a laugh — go watch Red Nose Day Little Britain
    Intro Music By Soul (Vlog Music) by Dj Quads https://soundcloud.com/aka-dj-quads

    Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/m0UBmJLv208
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    AITAH: Boyfriend Demands My Banking Login: "No Secrets Is How Adults Do It..."

    03/20/2026 | 25 mins.
    In this episode of WTF Stories and Advice, hosts Daryl Gove and Caroline Cranshaw dive into a Reddit AITAH post from a 27-year-old woman whose boyfriend is demanding full access to her online banking claiming that "no secrets is how adults do it." Is this financial transparency, or a massive red flag?
    Daryl and Caroline break down why handing over your banking login is actually illegal (yes, really Daryl used to work at a bank), why a narcissist's accusation is often a confession, and how controlling behaviour tends to creep in one small demand at a time. They also share why having your own money and your own privacy isn't a trust issue, it's just good sense.
    Timestamps:
    0:00 — Intro banter (Cards Against Humanity and gym stories)
    5:00 — Welcome + a note on making fun of people (five stars though, please)
    7:00 — WTF moment: new students who emigrated to NZ on the same flight 26 years ago
    10:30 — Reddit story: AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend my banking login?
    15:00 — Discussion: why sharing your login is actually illegal + red flag central
    18:00 — Gaslighting, coercive control, and "a narcissist's accusation is a confession"
    22:00 — Wild tangent: YouTuber invited to a very wrong party 
    26:00 — The Epstein files and scat tables (you've been warned)
    29:00 — Black Mirror Season 7 recommendation + wrap up
    Recommendations this episode: Black Mirror, Season 7 (Episode 2 in particular — you'll know the one)
    To find out more about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove or book an appointment:
    🔗 https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/
    🔗 https://www.darylgove.com/#/
    🔗 https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/
    To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out: 🔗 https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com
    Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story: ✉️ [email protected]
    Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course: 🔗 https://www.ohhellohypnosis.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout
    Check out Daryl's Course — Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men: 🔗 https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449
    🎵 Intro Music: Soul (Vlog Music) by DJ Quads https://soundcloud.com/aka-dj-quads Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/m0UBmJLv208
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    Am I the a-hole?

    02/28/2026 | 26 mins.
    WTF Stories & Advice: Covering for Cheaters, Keeping Confidences, and AI Consciousness
    Hosts Daryl Gove and Caroline Cranshaw read a Reddit AITAH post about a husband upset that his wife won't admit her best friend is cheating. They share a personal story about covering for a friend's drunken kiss and discuss when loyalty crosses a line. The episode ends with recommendations including The Bronze Horseman, the Conscious Observers podcast (AI and bots communicating), comparisons of Claude vs ChatGPT reliability and ethics, speculation about AI consciousness and control, and a plug for watching MAFS Australia.
    To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove or book an appointment
    https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/
    https://www.darylgove.com/#/
    https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/
    To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out:
    https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com
    Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story at: [email protected]

    Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course

    https://www.ohhellohypnosis.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout


    00:00 Gates Epstein Rant
    00:50 Questioning Authority
    02:00 AITA Cheating Story
    05:26 Advice Boundaries Trust
    06:29 Therapist Confidentiality
    08:51 Ride Or Die Friend Tale
    12:22 When Not To Tell
    13:02 Friendship Versus Truth
    13:48 When Secrets Must Break
    14:58 Staying Out Of Affairs
    15:48 Trusting Your Gut
    16:38 Book Pick Bronze Horseman
    17:54 Podcast Pick Conscious Observers
    18:51 AI Consciousness Debate
    20:24 ChatGPT Versus Claude
    23:21 MAFS Australia Recap
    Check Daryl's Course Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men

    https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449

    Intro Music By Soul (Vlog Music) by Dj Quads https://soundcloud.com/aka-dj-quads

    Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/m0UBmJLv208
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    I Unintentionally Joined a Cult

    02/17/2026 | 51 mins.
    Unintentionally Joining a Cult
    Caroline and Daryl and read a listener letter about unintentionally joining a cult after responding to a vague Craigslist job ad offering housing and "purpose." The hosts speculate about what the group's money-making operation might be and discuss other cult-related media and scandals, including Netflix's "Dancing for the Devil," a podcast about Jerry Falwell Jr., and conversation about propaganda, social engineering, and media influence. They share recommendations (the film "Cry-Baby," Netflix's "Him & Her," and the book "Propaganda" by Edward L. Bernays) and close by inviting comments, letters, and ratings.
    To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove 

    https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/

    https://www.darylgove.com/#/

    https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/

    To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out:

    https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com

    
Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story at

    [email protected]

    Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course

    https://www.ohhellohypnosis.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout

    Check Daryl's Course Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men

    https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449


    00:00 Welcome to WTF Stories & Advice 
    00:33 Trigger warnings, dark humor & laughing through trauma
    01:23 Letter begins: Unintentionally joining a cult after college
    02:47 The 'job' interview at the mansion: Tim & Jenna's pitch
    06:17 Moving in: phone control, routines, isolation & 'the fold' rules
    08:34 The shocking discovery in the park (leader + Tim)
    09:37 Gaslighting & sedation: 'it was a dream' and the pill
    11:20 Planning the escape: playing along and getting out via grocery run
    12:45 Aftermath + hosts speculate: cult, trafficking, blackmail?
    14:36 Cult media & parallels: TikTok cult doc and Jerry Falwell Jr. scandal
    17:15 Turning Point/Liberty University rabbit hole & alleged cult connections
    24:02 Handlers, honey traps & political gossip: Patel, Epstein jokes, Greenland
    26:57 Why Greenland Matters: Data Centers, Minerals, and Strategy
    27:54 Can You Just Buy a Country? 
    28:35 Greenland UFO Rumors & the "Forgotten" Underground US Base
    29:44 Government Waste, Audits, and the Price of Incompetence
    30:30 Post-Truth & "Disclosure": Are We Being Primed for Aliens?
    32:04 Desensitization Playbook: From War Talk to Mask Culture
    37:05 Critical Thinking, Changing Your Mind, and How Schools Shape Beliefs
    41:35 Movie & TV Recs (Cry-Baby, Him & Her) + Propaganda Reading List
    47:06 CIA-Hollywood, Blackmail Theories, and Final Sign-off
    Intro Music By Soul (Vlog Music) by Dj Quads https://soundcloud.com/aka-dj-quads

    Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/m0UBmJLv208
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    My fiance wants a threesome

    02/01/2026 | 43 mins.
    In this episode, hosts Caroline and Daryl discuss a variety of topics, starting with a humorous monologue about their pets. They share their backgrounds, sparking a deeper conversation about current geopolitical issues and personal histories linked to military bases. 
    The main focus delves into a Reddit story about a woman whose fiancé pressures her for a threesome, exploring the boundaries of consent, relationship dynamics, and the effects on trust. 
    Other subjects include dealing with coercion, navigating difficult relationships, and the nuances of bisexuality. They close out the episode with TV show recommendations, featuring 'Beauty' on Disney and 'Afterlife' with Ricky Gervais.
    To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove 

    https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/

    https://www.darylgove.com/#/

    https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/

    To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out:

    https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com

    
Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story at

    [email protected]

    Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course

    https://www.ohhellohypnosis.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout

    Check Daryl's Course Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men

    https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449


    00:00 Introduction and Cat Story
    02:05 Welcome to WTF Stories and Advice
    12:45 Reddit Story: Threesome Dilemma
    21:47 Setting Boundaries in Relationships
    22:14 The Pressure of Sexual Expectations
    23:03 Community Feedback and Personal Reflections
    25:23 Confronting the Partner
    27:24 Understanding the Core Issue
    29:51 Deciding the Future of the Relationship
    31:36 Final Thoughts and Moving Forward
    38:05 Recommendations and Closing Remarks
     
    Intro Music By Soul (Vlog Music) by Dj Quads https://soundcloud.com/aka-dj-quads

    Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/m0UBmJLv208

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About WTF - Stories and Advice

Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove, are two expat hypnotherapists living in New Zealand. They love having chats with interesting people, telling crazy stories and giving hopefully good life advice. Listen if you are interested in psychology, tips for improving your mental health, sex life and relationships, WTF news, funny stories, the paranormal, book reviews, shocking listener stories, health tips and advice on how to improve your life... Warning: Adult language. If you are easily offended, this show is not for you.
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