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UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

Kara Loewentheil
UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone
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  • UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

    481. Coaching Hotline: Taking Too Long to Orgasm & Stress About Balancing Work, Kids, & Life

    04/07/2026 | 12 mins.
    Are your thoughts during sex preventing you from reaching orgasm? This is a super common struggle for people socialized as women. We worry about taking too long or our partner getting bored or tired, and those thoughts are exactly what get in the way. In this week’s Coaching Hotline episode, I show you why trying to rush or fix the experience makes it harder, and how to start shifting the thoughts that are creating the pressure in the first place.

    Then I coach someone who feels like there simply isn’t enough time to be a good lawyer, a present parent, and take care of herself. If you’ve ever felt rushed, behind, or like you’re failing to keep up, this episode will help you see how your thoughts about time and productivity are actually creating that pressure. You’ll learn how to question those beliefs and change your experience without needing more time or different circumstances.

    Submit your own question here and it might get answered on a future episode: unfuckyourbrain.com/coachinghotline

    Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: schoolofnewfeministthought.com/481
    Follow along on Instagram: instagram.com/karaloewentheil/
  • UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

    480. Motivation is a Fuckboy - How to Follow Through Without It

    04/02/2026 | 18 mins.
    Have you built your entire life around waiting for motivation to text you back? In this episode, I explain why motivation is a fuckboy and why relying on it is the reason you start and stop, stall out, or never follow through on the things that matter most to you. Motivation feels amazing when it shows up, but it disappears the moment things get hard or uncomfortable, and when you treat it like a prerequisite, you give something unreliable total control over your progress.

    If you’ve been waiting to feel ready, excited, or inspired before you take action, this episode will help you understand why that strategy isn’t working. You’ll learn how to stop organizing your life around motivation and start following through from a place that is far more reliable, so you can actually create results whether motivation shows up or not.

    Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: schoolofnewfeministthought.com/480

    Follow along on Instagram: instagram.com/karaloewentheil
  • UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

    479. Coaching Hotline: How to Say No When You Fear Being Rude & When You Can't Change Your Thoughts Yet

    03/31/2026 | 17 mins.
    Do you worry that saying no makes you rude, selfish, or a bad person? In this Coaching Hotline episode, I break down why what you’ve been taught to call “politeness” is often just people pleasing in disguise, and how that conditioning keeps you stuck in self doubt.

    Then I answer a question I hear all the time in different forms, what do you do when you understand thought work but you still can’t change your thoughts? I explain why you are not missing a tool, why nothing has gone wrong, and why this frustrating in between stage is actually a normal and necessary part of the process.

    Submit your own question here and it might get answered on a future episode: unfuckyourbrain.com/coachinghotline

    Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: schoolofnewfeministthought.com/479
    Follow along on Instagram: instagram.com/karaloewentheil/
  • UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

    Take Back Your Brain!

    03/31/2026 | 3 mins.
    My new book "Take Back Your Brain: How a Sexist Society Gets in Your Head... and How to Get it Out" is officially available as an audiobook and hardcover wherever books and audiobooks are sold!
    Click here to order yours: unfuckyourbrain.com/book
  • UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

    478. From Global CEO to Higher Pay & a Dahlia Farm: Lisa's Mission Impossible Journey

    03/26/2026 | 30 mins.
    Have you ever felt stuck in your career or questioned whether you're on the right path? In this episode, I’m joined by my mastermind student Lisa who made the bold decision to transition from being a global CEO to pursuing her passion for running a dahlia farm. Her journey is a testament to the power of reinvention, and we dive into how she navigated that shift.

    Lisa shares how she was able to tackle the fears and self-doubt that came with stepping away from the corporate world and how she’s now embracing a different version of success. We talk about the importance of setting big goals, overcoming fear, and the emotional challenges of letting go of a well-established career to follow your passion.

    Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: schoolofnewfeministthought.com/478
    To learn more about applying for Mission Impossible Mastermind, send an email to [email protected]

    Follow along on Instagram: instagram.com/karaloewentheil
    Follow Lisa on Instagram: instagram.com/kayabloomstudio

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About UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone breaks down the centuries of sexist socialization that causes us to struggle with self-doubt, burnout, and anxiety. Hosted by Master Feminist Coach Kara Loewentheil, J.D., founder of The School of New Feminist Thought and author of Take Back Your Brain (Penguin 2024), each episode teaches you how to turn down the noise of societal expectations, turn up the volume on what YOU really want in life, and change your thinking to make sure you go get it. This podcast is an essential resource for anyone eager to embrace a life free from limiting beliefs and societal constraints. If you ever find yourself asking questions like… *Why am I so anxious about stuff that isn’t a big deal? *How can I stop overthinking everything? *Am I selfish for wanting my life to look different? *Will I ever feel comfortable in my body? *Am I a bad parent? *How can I ask for more money at work? *Can I stop people-pleasing? *How can my partner and I communicate better? … then you won’t want to miss an episode. Visit schoolofnewfeministthought.com to learn more about The School of New Feminist Thought and more.
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