Good Moms Bad Choices

Your 20s are full of lessons—but some don't have to be learned the hard way.
In this bonus episode of Good Moms Bad Choices, the hosts share five things they wish they had known in their 20s. From learning the power of saying "no" and recognizing what low self-esteem really looks like, to rethinking hypersexuality, honoring your body, and understanding that you're already enough, this conversation is packed with honest reflections and hard-earned wisdom.
They also discuss why knowing your HIV status, getting tested regularly, and understanding prevention options are essential acts of self-love—regardless of your relationship status. Whether you're in your 20s or simply reflecting on the journey, this episode is a reminder that healing starts with knowing yourself, trusting your voice, and choosing yourself first.
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It’s hump day and the Good Moms are joined by Winter Blanco and Chy Fontenette, hosts of the Behind the Likes podcast, for a hilarious, unfiltered conversation about friendship breakups, unexpected pregnancy, sex, cheating, boundaries, and why women will fight harder for a man than they will for their female friendships.
The four get into the six-month fallout that almost ended Winter and Chy's relationship, whether men and women can actually be "just friends," pregnancy hormones, porn, Plan B, and what it takes to build a successful business without losing your best friend in the process.
In this episode, you can expect to hear:
The friendship breakup that almost ended Behind the Likes
Why women give men more grace than their female friends
Winter's unexpected pregnancy and the conversations that changed everything
Can men and women ever really be just friends?
Porn, pregnancy hormones, sex, and dating while your life is changing
Building a business with your best friend without ruining the friendship
Trigger: rapid-fire takes on friendship, motherhood, relationships, and more
Bad Choice of the Week + Tarot + Affirmations
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Body count. It's one of the internet's favorite debates—but who actually benefits from the conversation?
In this bonus episode of Good Moms Bad Choices, the hosts unpack the double standards behind "body count" culture, why women continue to be shamed for their sexuality, and how that stigma distracts from what really matters: safe sex, honest conversations, and knowing your status.
They share personal experiences with sexual shame, challenge outdated ideas about purity and worth, and remind listeners that confidence, consent, and sexual wellness will always matter more than a number.
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This week, the Good Moms are joined by Deante' Kyle, creator and host of the Grits & Eggs Podcast, for a conversation that challenges everything we think we know about masculinity, patriarchy, fatherhood, accountability, and modern relationships.
From breaking down why "red pill" content has taken over the internet to discussing why boys are often deprived of affection, Deante offers a perspective that is thoughtful, funny, and guaranteed to spark conversation. The group dives into gender roles, religion, power, emotional intimacy, and what it really means to raise emotionally healthy men in today's world.
In this episode, you can expect to hear:

Why Deante believes patriarchy hurts men just as much as women
A powerful conversation about fatherhood, emotional intimacy, and raising boys
Why accountability feels so rare in modern relationships and society
Religion, power, and the stories we've inherited about gender roles
Red pill culture, dating discourse, and why outrage keeps winning online
The surprising connection between affection, masculinity, and how men learn to love
Trigger: rapid-fire takes on feminism, religion, fatherhood, accountability, and more
Bad Choice of the Week: relationship dilemmas, parenting questions, and navigating difficult conversations
This episode doesn't aim to settle the debate—it invites one. Tune in for an honest, nuanced conversation about modern masculinity, healthy relationships, parenting, and the cultural narratives shaping the way men and women relate to each other.
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Watch this episode and more on YouTube.
Come vibe with us on Patreon for full visual episodes, bonus content, and early releases.
Join our private Facebook group and drop your anonymous advice questions, secrets, or mom vents.
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This week, the Good Moms sit down with creator and liberated baddie, Via, for a raw, hilarious, and deeply healing convo on pick-me culture, sex work, motherhood, and becoming the main character in your own life.

In this episode, you’ll hear:
How Via went from “pick-me” dating advice to empowering women online
The connection between trauma, sex work, and calling dissociation “empowerment”
Why leaving a mentally abusive relationship unlocked her feminine rage
How acupuncture + somatic therapy changed everything!
The truth about performative sex, porn, and what she actually wants now
Why safe female friendships can feel more protective than a man
Reparenting yourself while parenting your child
Via in the Trigger hot seat plus a very on-brand “bad choice” at the spa

Via opens up about growing up without much guidance, entering sex work at 20, and how her journey helped her walk away from toxic love, reparent herself, and choose herself for the first time. The ladies get into safety, patriarchy, friendship, pussy power, and why sometimes your whole life changes after one needle and one breakup. Tune in to hear how this week’s tarot card pull (hello, Nine of Pentacles) affirms the entire conversation!
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