You Are Not Broken

This week on You Are Not Broken, I sit down with breast oncologist and historian Dr. Elizabeth Comen to talk about her powerful book All in Her Head and the long, complicated history of how women’s health has been misunderstood, minimized, and medicalized.

If you’ve ever been told your symptoms are anxiety… stress… hormones… or just part of being a woman — this episode is for you.

We explore the historical roots of dismissal in women’s healthcare and how those patterns still show up today, especially in cancer care. Dr. Comen walks us through how breast cancer treatment has evolved, what we’ve gotten right, what we’ve gotten wrong, and why quality of life must be part of the conversation — not an afterthought.

We also talk about:


Why women’s pain has historically been labeled “hysteria”


How medical bias still affects diagnosis and treatment


The real tension between longevity and quality of life


Hormonal therapies in breast cancer — and how nuance gets lost


Why advocacy matters more than ever


The double-edged sword of social media and AI in health information


How understanding medical history helps us build better medicine today

This episode isn’t about blaming the past. It’s about understanding it — so we stop repeating it.

Because when women are dismissed, care suffers.
And when women are informed, everything changes.

If you care about evidence-based medicine, health equity, and empowering women with real information — this is a must-listen.

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If you’ve been waiting for a vibrator that’s anatomy-informed, safety-first, and designed with real female physiology in mind, this is for you.

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Pleasure is not a luxury. It’s part of health care.

What if pleasure wasn’t mysterious, shameful, or something women were expected to “figure out on their own”?

In this episode of You Are Not Broken, Dr. Kelly Casperson is joined by Lara Pack to talk about the launch of their new vibrator, Explorer—and more importantly, the science, safety, and education behind it.

It’s a grounded, evidence-based conversation about female arousal, blood flow, anatomy, consent, and why most women were never taught how their bodies actually work. Kelly and Lara walk listeners through why Explorer was designed the way it was, what makes a vibrator safe (and unsafe), and how pleasure tools can support—not replace—intimacy, connection, and sexual health.

They also tackle common myths around vibrators, including fears about dependency, partner insecurity, and “doing it wrong,” while reframing pleasure as a learnable, normal, and empowering part of healthcare.

If you’ve ever felt confused, embarrassed, or under-educated about pleasure—or wondered how to talk about it with a partner—this episode is for you.

What We Cover


Why Explorer was designed for external pleasure—no penetration required


The role of blood flow and arousal in sexual comfort, desire, and response


Why consent matters in every relationship, no matter how long you’ve been together


How vibrators can support sexual health, healing, and confidence


The importance of anatomical accuracy and comfort in vibrator design


How to talk with a partner about using pleasure tools without shame or defensiveness


Why vibrators are not a “replacement” for partners—but a supplement to connection


Safety, materials, and why quality matters when it comes to intimate products


How sex education gaps leave women blaming themselves instead of the system


Why sexual wellness is a lifelong learning process—not something you’re born knowing

Key Takeaway

Pleasure isn’t frivolous.
It’s physiological.
It’s learnable.
And it belongs to you.

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This week I sit down with Autumn Calabrese to talk about fitness, mindset, and stress management—especially as they relate to women in midlife. We explore how hormonal changes can affect energy, recovery, motivation, and overall health, and why many women find that the fitness strategies that once worked no longer feel effective or sustainable.

We also discuss how women’s fitness culture has evolved over time, shifting away from extremes and toward a more balanced, realistic approach that prioritizes consistency over perfection. This episode highlights why managing stress is just as important as working out, and how nutrition, quality sleep, and community support play foundational roles in long-term wellness.

At its core, this conversation is an invitation to reframe fitness as a tool for resilience, strength, and vitality—not punishment—and to encourage women to embrace change, stay consistent, and prioritize their health through every season of midlife.


Fitness helps support warmth, energy, and resilience, especially during winter


Mindset is a major driver of sustainable fitness and health habits


Stress management is essential for overall health in midlife


Hormonal changes can significantly impact women’s physical and mental well-being


Fitness culture is evolving toward balance rather than extremes


Consistency in workouts leads to better long-term health outcomes


Nutrition is a cornerstone of a healthy lifestyle


Quality sleep is critical for recovery and overall well-being


Embracing change can transform the midlife experience


Community and accountability enhance motivation and long-term commitment

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In this episode of the You Are Not Broken podcast, Dr. Kelly Casperson sits down with Dr. Gabrielle Lyon for a powerful, science-forward conversation about why muscle is the organ of longevity—and why women have been taught to focus on the wrong things for decades.

They unpack how an overemphasis on fat loss has distracted from the far more important goal of preserving and building muscle, especially as we age. Dr. Lyon explains anabolic resistance, protein needs across the lifespan, and why mindset—not willpower—is often the missing link in women’s fitness and health outcomes.

This episode reframes strength training, nutrition, and supplements as essential medical tools—not aesthetic choices—and delivers a clear message: women deserve better education about their bodies and the confidence to train for strength, not shrinkage.


Why muscle is critical for metabolic health, protection, and aging well


How the obsession with fat loss has undermined women’s long-term health


The role of mindset in body recomposition and sustainable fitness


Why protein intake matters more than calorie restriction


What anabolic resistance is—and why protein needs increase with age


How the “fit fat” phenotype challenges outdated health metrics


When continuous glucose monitoring is helpful (and when it’s not)


Why many women over 65 are protein deficient—and why that matters


The role of supplements like creatine and essential amino acids


Why strength training is a non-negotiable for women’s health

Muscle is not about appearance—it’s about independence, resilience, and metabolic health. Women have been under-informed, under-fueled, and under-trained for far too long. Prioritizing strength is one of the most powerful health decisions a woman can make at any age.

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In this episode of the You Are Not Broken, Dr. Kelly Casperson is joined by Joanna Strober, CEO of MIDI Health, for a direct and hopeful conversation about menopause care, hormone therapy, and what women actually need from the healthcare system.

Joanna shares the story behind building MIDI Health and why access, education, and properly trained providers are essential to closing the massive gaps in menopause care. Despite the data, only a small fraction of eligible women are receiving hormone therapy—leaving millions undertreated, dismissed, or told to simply “push through.”

This episode tackles outdated narratives around menopause, reframes hormones as foundational to long-term health and longevity, and makes a strong case for advocacy—by clinicians, companies, and women themselves.


How MIDI Health is delivering hormone therapy to 25,000 women each week


Why only ~5% of women over 40 are currently using hormone therapy


The critical need for education and training in menopause care


How hormone therapy can help prevent downstream health issues


Why menopause care doesn’t end when periods stop


What’s broken in women’s healthcare—and how to fix it


Real patient success stories that show what’s possible


The role of hormones in longevity, vitality, and overall health


Why advocacy is essential for meaningful change


MIDI Health’s vision to become a trusted, national brand for women’s health

Menopause is not the end of care—it’s the beginning of a new phase that deserves attention, education, and evidence-based treatment. Hormone therapy isn’t about vanity or “anti-aging”; it’s about giving women access to the healthcare they’ve always deserved.

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