The Tangle with Kyle Ridley

This week, Kyle sits down with the legendary Dan Savage! The renowned sex columnist, activist, author and podcaster shares insights on sexuality, community, faith, and the evolution of gay culture, non-monogamy, marriage and so much more. Dan also discusses the importance of LGBTQIA history, the intricacies of polyamory, and, of course, pegging! Follow Dan on Instagram and check out his website and podcast. 
Chapters
The birth of pegging
Faith, spirituality and personal beliefs
Coming out experience and challenges
Navigating relationships and finding community
The role of the internet in LGBTQ+ connections
The importance of historical awareness of LGBTQ+ rights
Marriage equality
Building and finding your tribe
Monogamish relationships and communication
The dynamics of event sexuality
Celebrity crushes and evolving tastes
The evolution of non-monogamy 
Power dynamics in relationships
Breaking up with a third
Body image and self-perception
Embracing aging
Hopefulness in chaos 
Current tangles

Comedian and podcaster Rory James joins Kyle to discuss his Boston upbringing, coming out, dating adventures, new comedy special, and much more. Rory also shares insights on vulnerability, authenticity, and the evolving comedy landscape. Check out Rory’s new special, “Acquired Taste,” currently free on Prime Video.  
Chapters
Rory James' upbringing in Boston and its influence on his comedy
Journey to stand-up comedy and honing the craft 
The role of vulnerability and honesty in comedy
Influences including Judy Gold, Sherri Shepherd, and Lisa Kudrow
Thoughts on crowd work, social media, and evolving comedy landscape
Experiences with dating, relationships, and living with exes
Love for women, music, and pop culture icons like Mariah Carey
The importance of authenticity and self-awareness in his craft
Love for "The Comeback" 
Podcasting 
Current tangles

Actor, comedian and podcaster Eric Williams joins Kyle for a deep dive into LBTQIA+ life, pop culture, podcasting, marriage, and much more. Eric hosts the successful “That’s a Gay Ass Podcast,” which is nearing 300 episodes. He’s a bold interviewer and candid interviewee, sharing stories of bullying, coming out, mental health struggles, and living in an open marriage. Make sure to follow Eric on Instagram @ericwillz and wherever you get your podcasts. 
Chapters
The power and influence of “Sister Act 2: Back in the Habit” 
Early influences and childhood
Celebrity crushes
Coming out stories and experiences with bullying
Hairy men
Marriage, open relationships, and personal growth
Growth through community and connection
Self-acceptance and authenticity
Reframing rejection and setbacks as growth opportunities
Podcasting lessons 
Current tangles

In this heartfelt interview, country singer-songwriter Ty Herndon shares his journey of coming out in Nashville, addiction, sexual abuse, and healing. Ty documents his harrowing and inspiring story in his new memoir, 'What Mattered Most.' The pages are packed with authenticity, faith, and resilience from a country music legend who has lived through trauma and transformation.
Chapters
The journey of writing a memoir 
Recording the audiobook
Early life and coming out
Faith and spirituality
Support from family and fans 
The impact of music and advocacy 
Embracing authenticity and overcoming fear
The impact of Chely Wright 
Gay in Nashville
Love, loss and personal growth
Rape, trauma, growth, healing
Addiction, relapse, recovery
Finding hope 
Coming out to Cher
The joys of marriage 
Current tangles

Comedian and author Jordan Carlos joins Kyle to discuss his new book, “Choreplay: The Marriage-Saving Magic of Getting Your Head Out of Your Ass.” Jordan shares his transformative journey toward a healthier, more intentional marriage. From breaking down toxic beliefs to embracing therapy, Jordan reveals how small shifts can lead to deeper intimacy and personal growth.
Chapters 
The marriage-saving power of getting your head out of your ass
Mindset shifts from being a busy “man-child” to an engaged partner
Challenging outdated gender role beliefs about chores and responsibilities
The importance of consistency over grand gestures in relationships
How to recognize and shed the default “she does, I don’t” setting
Modern masculinity and the journey away from ego-driven performance
Practical tips for building trust, boundaries, and emotional availability
The role of therapy, self-reflection, and discipline in personal change
Creating household maps and routines for mutual reliability
Tips for better sleep synchrony and shared bedtime habits
Current tangles 
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