Zoom Out Parenting: The Mindset Shift Every Overwhelmed Parent Needs
Is parenting starting to feel like one giant checklist you’re constantly failing?
In this episode, I introduce a powerful mindset shift called Zoom Out Parenting, a way to ditch the guilt, the hyper-tracking, and the unrealistic expectations that make modern parenting feel overwhelming. From picky eating to screen time guilt, wake windows to milestone anxiety, I explore why we spiral into perfectionism and how to step back and focus on what actually matters.
You’ll learn:
What Zoom Out Parenting really means
Why zooming in too closely fuels guilt and anxiety
Real-life examples of how to reframe everyday parenting struggles
The one question that can stop a parenting spiral in its track
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00:00 – Welcome & Episode Intro
01:05 – Why We Need to Zoom Out
02:18 – What Zooming Out Really Means
03:06 – When Tracking Becomes Hypervigilance
04:04 – Guilt, Control, and Letting Go
05:05 – Zoom In vs. Zoom Out: Real Parenting Examples
08:03 – Development Is a Landscape, Not a Checklist
09:20 – The Cost of Always Zooming In
09:56 – Tips to Reframe in Real Time
10:39 – Zooming Out Isn’t Denial—It’s Clarity
11:03 – Intentional Parenting Over Perfect Parenting
11:43 – Final Thoughts & Takeaway
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The Follow-Up: Pelvic Floor Care After Baby
If you’ve ever brushed off leaking when you laugh, pain during sex, or lingering constipation as “just part of being a mom,” this episode is your permission slip to stop normalizing what’s treatable.
I’m joined by a pelvic floor physical therapist who breaks down why your pelvic floor deserves attention—not just after vaginal birth, but after any pregnancy. We talk about how these muscles are essential to everyday life: from pooping and peeing to core strength, intimacy, and even your mental health.
You’ll learn:
Why peeing a little when you sneeze isn’t something to just “deal with”
The truth about C-sections and pelvic floor dysfunction
How scar tissue can impact your recovery—and what to do about it
Simple tricks to improve pooping and peeing posture (yes, even your toddler can benefit!)
Why lifting while holding your breath can be sneaky pelvic floor sabotage
What “power peeing” is—and why you should stop doing it
Whether you’re newly postpartum or years into motherhood, it’s never too late to prioritize this part of your health. This conversation is all about demystifying pelvic floor therapy and empowering you with proactive, shame-free strategies to feel better in your body.
💛 Know better, do better—and let’s break the silence around postpartum recovery.
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Allergy Tests: When It’s Needed and When It’s Not
Have you ever wondered whether your child really needs an allergy test? Or have you been tempted by those flashy direct-to-consumer kits, this conversation is a must-listen. Let’s tackle the rise of at-home “food sensitivity” tests, the difference between IgE and IgG, and why a detailed history matters more than any panel of results.
In this episode, I’m joined once again by pediatric allergist Dr. Dave Stukus to break down what parents really need to know about allergy testing. From food allergies to seasonal sniffles, we dive into when testing is actually helpful—and when it leads to confusion, false positives, and unnecessary food restrictions.
We discuss:
Why most at-home food sensitivity tests are misleading—and what to do instead
When allergy testing is truly helpful (and when it backfires)
How to tell the difference between food allergies, intolerances, and sensitivities
To connect with Dr. Dave Stukus follow him on Instagram @allergykidsdoc, check out all his resources at https://www.nationwidechildrens.org/find-a-doctor/profiles/david-r-stukus
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00:00 – Intro
01:16 – Why History Matters More Than Tests
03:00 – When Should You Test?
05:26 – False Positives and the Limits of Testing
07:03 – Blood vs. Skin Testing: What's the Difference?
09:07 – Eczema in Infants: To Test or Not to Test?
11:01 – Seasonal Allergies and the Right Time to Test
12:08 – Myth: “Allergy Tests Aren’t Reliable in Infants”
14:20 – The Problem with Food Sensitivity Tests
17:13 – The Red Flags of Unvalidated Testing
20:07 – The Real Harm of Over-Testing
22:35 – Final Takeaway: Ask Questions, Follow the Science
23:27 – The Truth About Panel Testing
25:10 – Can You Test for Seasonal Allergies Year-Round?
26:05 – Where to Follow Dr. Stukus
26:53 – Dr. Mona’s Reflection and Wrap-Up
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The Follow-Up: The Hidden Impact of Poor Sleep
Does your child snore, mouth breathe, or seem “wired” instead of tired? Are they struggling with sleep—or is something bigger going on?
In this follow-up episode with sleep expert Dr. Shelby Harris, we dive deep into the connection between sleep, behavior, and diagnoses like ADHD. If you’ve ever felt unsure whether your child’s sleep issues are causing daytime struggles—or if the behavioral struggles are disrupting sleep—this episode is for you.
We cover:
🧠 How sleep deprivation can mimic ADHD symptoms
😴 When to suspect sleep apnea—and what signs often get missed
👃 Why mouth breathing in babies and toddlers isn’t “just cute”
🕵🏽♀️ The questions to ask before jumping to medication or a diagnosis
💊 A balanced, science-based look at melatonin (when it can help—and when to pause)
🛏️ Real-life stories from Dr. Shelby and Dr. Mona’s parenting journeys
Plus:
💬 How sleep quality impacts everything from emotional regulation to anxiety—and what to look out for at every age.
This episode is all about empowering you with information, not guilt. Because before we assume it’s “just behavior,” we need to explore what’s happening at night.
🎧 Tune in, take notes, and don’t be afraid to advocate for your child’s sleep. It just might be the missing piece.
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Vitamin K Shot: Separating Science from Social Media Myths
Why do newborns get a vitamin K shot—and why has it become the center of so much misinformation online? If you’ve ever hesitated about this newborn standard, this is the episode that brings clarity and calm.
In this episode, I welcome Dr. Jessica Knurick who has a PhD in Nutrition Science to break down the real reason this shot is recommended at birth, the science behind preventing Vitamin K Deficiency Bleeding (VKDB), and where social media gets it wrong. From safety concerns to conspiracy theories, we’re cutting through the noise with evidence, history, and a healthy dose of common sense.
We discuss:
Why the vitamin K shot is critical for preventing dangerous bleeding in newborns.
The science behind VKDB and how misinformation spreads online.
Evidence-based answers to common myths about vitamin K shot ingredients and safety.
To connect with Dr. Jessica Knurick follow her on Instagram @drjessicaknurick, check out all her resources at https://www.jessicaknurick.com/
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00:00 – Intro and Welcome
01:45 – How Dr. Knurick Got Involved in Vitamin K Education
03:00 – “Eyes and Thighs” and What’s Actually in That Bundle
04:10 – What Does the Vitamin K Shot Actually Do?
09:35 – Is VKDB Really That Rare? Let’s Do the Math
12:00 – Real Clinical Cases of VKDB
14:55 – A Pediatrician’s Perspective on Preventable Harm
17:05 – Why Babies Bleed Without Trauma
20:20 – Shot vs. Oral Vitamin K: What the Data Says
23:00 – Compliance, Safety, and Why Simplicity Matters
25:10 – Advice for Parents Feeling Overwhelmed by Conflicting Info
28:00 – Final Thoughts and Where to Find Dr. Knurick
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About The PedsDocTalk Podcast: Child Health, Development & Parenting—From a Pediatrician Mom
The PedsDocTalk Podcast is your go-to parenting resource, hosted by Dr. Mona Amin, a trusted pediatrician, parenting expert, and mom of two. As a top 50 Parenting Podcast in the U.S., this show delivers expert-backed guidance on child development, health, illness, behavior, feeding, and sleep—giving parents the confidence to navigate every stage from baby to teen.
Each episode dives into real-life parenting challenges, featuring conversations with specialists in pediatrics, child psychology, nutrition, and parental well-being. From potty training and sleep training to tackling tantrums, picky eating, discipline, screen time, postpartum recovery, and developmental milestones, Dr. Mona provides practical, science-backed advice that actually works.
Tune in on Mondays and Wednesdays for actionable insights, mindset shifts, and expert interviews that empower you to raise healthy, resilient, and happy kids—while thriving as a parent yourself!
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