We're Going There with Bianca Juarez

Is the fear of damaging a relationship stopping you from having a difficult conversation? I’ve been there, and I know how isolating that tension can feel. But here is the truth: wounds from a friend can be trusted, and real growth only happens when we’re willing to go there.

In this episode, Amy and I are pulling back the curtain on what it really looks like to lead, mentor, and disciple in the messy reality of ministry. We’re talking about the "relational collateral" required to speak truth into someone’s life and how to correct in love without crushing their spirit. Whether you’re navigating past trauma that’s showing up in your leadership or learning how to handle a tough sermon critique, this conversation is for you. It’s time we stop settling for surface-level peace and start pursuing the spiritual maturity that comes through honest, grace-filled accountability.

If this episode challenged or encouraged you, tag @biancajuarezofficial and @amylynnettee on social media. Don’t forget to subscribe and drop a comment sharing one way you’re choosing growth over comfort this week.

Let’s keep going there together!

Love you,

B

Keywords: mentorship, discipleship, ministry leadership, conflict resolution, spiritual formation.

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Chapter Timestamps

00:00 Introduction to the importance of tough conversations

02:02 The theology of correction and trust

02:27 Personal stories of tension and disappointment

04:13 Roots of disappointment and past trauma

07:25 The process of spiritual maturity and circumcision

08:14 Handling hard conversations with love and grace

12:07 Time management and respect in ministry

13:31 Correcting in love versus control

17:46 The military mindset in leadership and correction

20:24 Gender, opportunity, and development in ministry

24:54 Handling feedback and sermon critique

28:29 The importance of honesty and growth in preaching

32:02 Walking through seasons of change and transition

37:41 Ending well and honoring relationships

38:03 Encouragement for wounded mentees

41:44 Closing thoughts and next steps for listeners

Resources & Links

Follow Amy Ayala: https://www.instagram.com/amylynnettee/?hl=en

Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq

All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources

Support

Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

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Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial

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Finding a mentor often brings immense pressure, especially when you realize you have no idea what you’re actually looking for - or worse, who to trust with your growth. If you’ve ever felt the tension of wanting to grow as a leader but feeling stuck, this episode is for you.

In Day 2 of our mentoring series, Amy Ayala and I went deep into the "heart" of mentorship. It’s not just about who has the biggest platform or the most followers on social media; it’s about character, resilience, and that prophetic "X-factor" that you can't teach. Amy and I talked openly about the importance of being "seen" by a mentor and why loyalty, honor, and the willingness to put in the "reps" are what actually prepare you for your next season.

Whether you are looking to be mentored or you are ready to start pouring into someone else, we’re breaking down what it actually looks like to lead well. You cannot be what you don’t see, so let’s talk about how to open your eyes to the right potential.

Tag us @biancajuarezofficial and @amylynnettee on social and tell me your biggest takeaway. I love hearing how these episodes are impacting your journey! If you enjoyed this talk, please make sure to like and subscribe so you never miss an episode.

Love you,

B

Chapter Timestamps

00:00 Introduction to Mentoring Series

00:26 What to Look for in a Mentee

02:02 The Heart of a Mentee: Loyalty and Love for the Church

03:04 The Prophetic Edge in Mentoring

04:26 The Danger of Building Platforms Without Substance

06:18 Resilience and Making Things Happen

07:16 Transitioning to New Seasons of Leadership

08:44 The Impact of Social Media and Public Presence

11:12 The Power of Being Seen and Mentored by Influential Leaders

14:24 The Significance of Women Leaders and Role Models

17:36 The Value of Mentorship and Being Seen

20:46 Practical Hallmarks for Mentorship

22:11 The Importance of Honor and Self-Awareness

23:39 Developing Skills and Reps in Ministry

27:16 Next Steps for Aspiring Leaders

30:01 The Power of Preparation and Repetition

32:03 The Role of Spirit-Led Preaching and Communication

33:32 The Joy of Smiling and Connecting in Ministry

Resources & Links

Follow Amy Ayala: https://www.instagram.com/amylynnettee/?hl=en

Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq

All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources

Support

Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/

Thank You to Our Sponsors! We’re Going There is Sponsored by:

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Ever wonder what it really takes to walk through seven years of mentorship? In this episode, Amy Ayala and I are pulling back the curtain on our own journey—the real, raw, and often unspoken costs of discipleship. We’re talking about the spiritual, emotional, and practical realities that come with leading well.

If you’ve ever felt the weight of leadership or the fear of being surpassed, this conversation is for you. We’re getting honest about building future generations, the power of vulnerability, and why faithfulness is about the long haul.

In this episode, we cover:

Our origin story: How Amy and I started this journey.

The real talk: Risks, fears, and honest realities of mentorship.

The theology of "iron sharpening iron."

How to create space for the next generation in ministry.

Whether you're a mentor, a mentee, or somewhere in between, I hope this challenges you to embrace the refining process of leadership. Loved this episode? Like, follow, and subscribe so you never miss a conversation. Tag @biancajuarezofficial and @amyayala on social and tell me your biggest takeaway—I want to hear from you!

Love you,

B

Chapter Timestamps

00:00 Introduction to the Mentoring Series and Personal Stories

01:07 The Vision and Origins of Mentorship

04:25 How Bianca and Amy Met and Their First Interactions

07:50 The Challenges of Leading as a Woman and Latina in Ministry

14:39 Reconnecting During COVID and Deepening the Mentorship

17:51 The Commitment and Sacrifice of Mentoring

24:14 The Spiritual and Emotional Costs of Mentorship

32:22 Moments of Doubt and the Desire to Walk Away

36:34 The Legacy of Mentorship and Building Future Leaders

Resources & Links

Proverbs 27:17

2 Timothy 4:6

Follow Bianca: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/?hl=en

Follow Amy: https://www.instagram.com/amylynnettee/?hl=en

Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq

All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources

Support

Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/

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Have you ever been walking in obedience—serving, tithing, leading—but felt like your soul was parched? Maybe you’re feeling overwhelmed, drowning, or just stuck in a lackluster season of faith.

Friend, I have a promise for you: You don’t have to live there anymore.

In this bonus episode, I’m getting real about the power of the Holy Spirit. We’re moving past just knowing the doctrine to actually living the life of power that God intended for us. From the history of revival to the promises in Joel 2, we’re looking at how God breathes life into dry places.

If you are hungry for an encounter that goes beyond the surface, this is for you. We’re tearing down the fear of being "labeled" and stepping into the Naturally Supernatural life.

Join the movement! I want to set the table for you to encounter God in a radical way. I’m inviting you to join us for our upcoming gathering: The Suddenly Experience.

Inspired by the "suddenly" move of God in Acts 2, we are gathering teachers, worship leaders, and hungry believers on October 3rd to wait on God and expect Him to move.

Mark your calendars for October 3rd. Get all the details and secure your spot at:⁠ suddenlyexperience.com⁠. Follow ⁠@revere.church⁠ to stay in the know.

You were made for more than just going through the motions.

Love you,

⁠B
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Ever feel like gossip spreads faster than you can stop it? In today’s episode, I am diving deep into the destructive nature of gossip. It’s more than just idle talk—it’s a heart issue that affects our spiritual health and community harmony.

I also break down the biblical warnings found in Proverbs and James, helping us understand why our words carry such weight. I’m not just talking about the problem; I’m giving you practical, faith-filled tools to guard your ears, close your mouth, and protect your peace.

In this episode, I cover:

The Anatomy of Gossip: Understanding the different roles people play (power trippers, lightning rods, and more).

Biblical Wisdom: What Proverbs and James have to say about the power of our speech.

Practical Filters: Two questions you must ask before engaging in a conversation that feels like gossip.

Heart Health: Why our mouths usually reveal what’s going on in our hearts.

Guarding Your Temple: Practical steps to maintain unity and spiritual health.

If this episode spoke to your heart, please like this video, subscribe to our channel, and share this with a friend who needs a little encouragement today. Tag me @biancajuarezofficial to show your support and help us continue to grow this space together.

Love you guys!

B

Resources & Links

Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq

All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources

Chapter Timestamps

00:00 Introduction: The Reality of Gossip

00:30 Understanding Gossip and Its Dangers

01:28 The Visual Analogy of Feathers and Pillows

02:27 Biblical Warnings About Gossip

03:23 The Power of Words and Their Impact

04:48 Types of Gossip: Power Trippers, Haters, Processors, Lightning Rods

08:33 The Heart Issue Behind Gossip

14:22 Why Gossip Matters: Spiritual and Community Consequences

17:39 Practical Steps to Stop Gossip: Guard Your Ears and Mouth

20:30 Biblical Approach to Addressing Gossip and Conflict

Support

Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/

Thank You to Our Sponsors! We’re Going There is Sponsored by:

HomeChef: Go to HomeChef.com/WGT for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef

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