The #1 Thing That Changed Our Marriage for the Better with Mac's Husband
In Part 2 of my convo with Tyler, we’re diving into the number one thing that has completely transformed our marriage. It’s something we’re deeply passionate about—and honestly, it might surprise you. We reflect on how we went from Netflix nights to stepping into something that gave our relationship new purpose and depth. We share the story of how it all began, what we’ve learned along the way, and how it continues to challenge and shape us. Whether you're single, dating, or married, we hope this episode encourages you to think about what it could look like to say “yes” to something bigger—together.
Why Serving Together Matters
Backstory: How We Got the Heart to Serve
The Boredom That Sparked Purpose
Our Call to Young Life and Choosing Butler
A Text, a Taco Spot, and a God Moment
Saying Yes to Something Bigger
The Reality of Doing Ministry Alone
From One Kid to Many: The Power of Showing Up
Marriage, Ministry, and the Trench Moments
When It’s Not Glamorous — But It’s So Worth It
Camp Stories and Catching the Vision
When It’s Not Easy to Keep Going
Why Showing Up Matters More Than Being Perfect
How Ministry Reshaped Our Marriage
What We’d Say to Couples Wanting to Do Ministry Together
A Word for the Girl Who’s Waiting on Her Person
Final Thoughts + The Real Heart Behind It All
Mac’s Closing Prayer
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A Real-Life Rom-Com: Mac & Tyler's Story!
In this hilarious and very transparent episode, Mac invites her husband Tyler onto the podcast to finally share their full love story! From an age-gap romance and a snowstorm to a Zoom dating event with 300 women watching, this episode is packed with all the juicy, awkward, and sweet moments that brought them together. Whether you're single and waiting, dating with questions, or just love a good rom-com plot—this one's for you. We had so much fun recording this one and we hope you love it.
In This Episode
[00:00] Studio Shenanigans – Bare feet and backup co-host vibes
[03:00] Why We’re Sharing This Now – Finally telling the full story
[04:00] Mac’s Backstory – Single, 28, and living in her parents’ basement
[07:00] Tyler’s Backstory – 21, heartbroken, and figuring it out in college
[12:00] Virtual Fate – The Zoom call that changed everything
[17:00] One Hour Before the Call... – Mac ends another relationship
[20:00] The Zoom Date – Tyler’s moment to shine (and Mac takes notice)
[23:00] Group Text Beginnings – Mac makes the first move 👏
[27:00] Talking, Dating & DTRs – Texts, FaceTimes, and visiting Nashville
[35:00] Long-Distance + Big Conversations – What made them say yes
[41:00] From “Too Young” to “This is My Husband” – Letting go of expectations
[46:00] What We’ve Learned in Marriage – Honesty, humor, and God’s faithfulness
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Learning How to Love Your Life Even When You Don't Like It with Rachel Awtrey
This week, we’re joined by the one and only Rachel Awtrey—podcaster, mama, and joy-finder extraordinaire! Rachel is calling in from Birmingham, Alabama and brings such a refreshing perspective on embracing life fully, even when it doesn’t look how you expected. We talk about military life, motherhood, writing her upcoming book, and how she’s learned to chase joy through every season—from grief and moving nine times, to walks in the heat, trampolines, and all the real talk in between.
In This Episode
[02:10] Life Lately: Kids, Podcasting & Military Wife Life
[04:35] Why Rachel Started “Real Talk” and What She’s Learned
[06:00] Thomas’ Career as a Pilot & Navigating Military Transitions
[08:15] The Realities of Solo Parenting and Managing Rhythms
[10:55] What Motherhood Has Taught Her About Joy
[13:45] Slowing Down: The Power of a Walk and a Deep Breath
[15:30] Her New Book: Love Your Life Even When You Don’t Like It
[17:45] Processing the Loss of Her Dad and Holding Space for Grief
[21:15] What It Means to Carry On a Legacy
[22:40] Finding Joy in the Unseen and Undervalued
[24:10] When You Hate Your Bathroom: Practicing Perspective
[25:55] Laughter, Toots, and Trampoline Moments with Her Boys
[27:40] Encouragement for Anyone in a Mundane or Messy Season
[29:00] Closing Words of Wisdom and Prayer for the Listener
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Dating Part 2 - Younger Guys, First Moves & Red Flags
We're are back for Part 2 of their dating deep dive, and this time they're going even deeper into your real-life dating situations. From nostalgic throwbacks about dating memories to giving tough love on "situationships," we are get candid and practical. Kenz shares never-before-revealed details about her early relationship with Josh (yes, including that wild second date!), while Mac opens up about why breaks in relationships can actually be healthy. We tackle everything from age-gap relationships to making the first move, and offer the kind of godly dating advice we wish we'd gotten ourselves. Whether you’re crushing, confused, or totally in love—this episode is for you!
In This Episode
[01:20] Throwbacks: Places That Bring Back Dating Memories
[04:20] The Best Friend’s Brother Saga—Part 2 Recap
[06:45] Why “I Don’t Know How I Feel” Means It’s a No
[07:55] Friends Who Give False Hope (Let’s Talk About It)
[09:25] Mac & Kenz’s Single Brothers: Would You Date Them? 😂
[10:45] Hinge Dating Story: When It Feels Right, But You’re Not Sure
[13:00] Red Flag vs. Yellow Flag vs. Green Flag—A Dating Guide
[14:55] Kenz on Asking the Real Questions Early On
[16:10]Mac'’s Take: Time is Never Wasted If You’re Learning
[17:30] What Does a Refreshing Relationship Feel Like?
[19:40] Kenz’s Couch Makeout Confession
[21:30] Josh’s Redemption Arc (and Why First Impressions Aren’t Everything)
[22:40] When the Guy is Younger: Is That Okay?
[24:05] How to Flirt (When You Want Him to Make the First Move)
[25:30] Final Encouragement: Be Brave, Be Honest, Trust God
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Dating Part 1 – Big Sister Dating Advice, Situationships & Making a Move
This one’s for the single girl in the thick of dating, the girl with the situationship that won’t quit, and the one waiting for the right guy to come along. Mac and Kenz are throwing it back to their iconic "Help You Make a Move" segment—reading YOUR stories, your dating questions, and giving their best big sister advice with lots of laughs and honest truth. They talk about crushing on a guy from campus ministry, dating someone not all in for Jesus, and navigating jealousy in the season of singleness. You’ll walk away with courage, clarity, and some seriously helpful tips for stepping into dating with intentionality and faith.
In This Episode
Flashbacks to Our Single Girl Era
“Help You Make a Move” Is Back!
First DM: The Homework Crush with No Clarity
Practical Tips for Starting a Hard Conversation
Why Rejection Isn’t the End – It’s Growth
When You Like a Guy Who’s Not Fully for Jesus
Hard Truth: You Can’t Date for Potential
The Resentment of Singleness at 26
Radical Honesty with God + Friends
Final Encouragement: Your Story Is Beautiful
Resources Mentioned
The Dating Devo
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Are you looking for your new favorite podcast that's both entertaining and will challenge you in your walk with Jesus? Welcome to the For The Girl podcast, hosted by best friends Mac and Kenz. Together in college, they started a Bible study called Delight that is now on over 200 college campuses. These days, they're busy juggling being moms, wives, and creating Bible studies and resources specifically for girls in a similar season of life. Every Tuesday, they break down everything they wish someone had told them in their 20s. From faith and relationships to wild career transitions, Mac and Kenz are getting real about all of their missteps and the things God has taught them along the way.