The Impossible Life

What does it actually mean to follow God? Not casually. Not halfway. But fully… as a true disciple. In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach break down the reality that most Christian men are living with partial surrender and missing the life God actually called them to.

The truth is, discipleship isn’t about believing in God… it’s about being all in. Jesus didn’t say “love God a lot.” He said love Him with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind. That’s not a suggestion. That’s the standard.

The Problem Most Christian Men Face Many Christian men:
Believe in God
Read the Bible occasionally
Try to live the right way
…but still feel stuck, inconsistent, or disconnected from their purpose. Why? Because they’re giving effort—but not everything. And according to Scripture, partial surrender produces partial results.

This episode breaks down what true discipleship looks like across three areas: Heart, Soul, and Mind.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
Why most Christian men never fully step into their purpose
The difference between belief and true discipleship
Why “being a good man” isn’t enough
How distraction is silently destroying your faith
What it means to give God everything—not just part of your life
Why God isn’t looking for perfection—but full surrender
How to stop holding back and start following God fully
If you're a Christian man who’s ready to stop living halfway and start following God fully… this episode will challenge everything and change everything.

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Why do so many Christian men struggle to walk in their purpose? It’s not because they don’t care.
It’s not because they don’t believe. It’s because they’re skipping the basics. In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach break down the three daily disciplines that every Christian must follow to grow in faith and step into their God-given purpose.

This isn’t complicated, but it is demanding. Just like elite athletes and special forces units master the fundamentals, Christian men must master the basics of their faith daily if they want to live at a high level.

The 3 Daily Musts for Christian Men
Submit to God - Purpose begins with surrender. If you’re not aligned with God’s will, you’re building your life on the wrong mission. Daily submission puts you under God’s order and positions you to walk in clarity, confidence, and direction.
Seek His Face - This is about relationship not religion. Through prayer, worship, and reading the Bible, Christian men grow in understanding who God is and align their desires with His. This is where faith is built and purpose becomes clear.
Lead Yourself - You can’t live with purpose if you don’t lead yourself. Discipline, vision, and intentional living are required to become the man God created you to be. Without self-leadership, you drift. With it, you grow.
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
Why mastering the basics is the key to unlocking purpose
How daily habits shape the life of a Christian man
Why submission to God creates clarity and confidence
The difference between knowing about God and actually knowing Him
How to build discipline without burnout
Why self-leadership is essential for spiritual growth
How to stop drifting and start living intentionally
This episode is a direct challenge to Christian men: Stop looking for a breakthrough…
and start mastering the basics. Because your purpose isn’t found in a moment. It’s built daily. And the men who commit to these disciplines are the ones who step into everything God has for them.

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What does it actually mean to win when you’re not in control? In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach unpack one of the most important and challenging truths for anyone pursuing purpose, faith, and growth: God is sovereign and you are responsible.

At first, those ideas seem to contradict each other. If God is in control of everything, what role do you actually play? And if you’re responsible, how do you trust God with the outcome? This episode breaks down how understanding both sides is the key to living with confidence, clarity, and a winning mindset even when life doesn’t go the way you expect. Through biblical examples like David, real-life experiences, and practical insight, Nick and Garrett show how winning God’s way isn’t about controlling results, it’s about becoming the kind of person who consistently produces them over time.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
Why you can’t control outcomes—but you can control who you become
How understanding God’s sovereignty actually increases your confidence
The difference between hating to lose vs learning how to win
Why purpose is found in growth, maturity, and faithfulness
How to develop an “inevitable” mindset rooted in faith and principles
Why trusting God leads to peace—even without certainty
Nick and Garrett also break down three things that will keep you from living this way:
Pride – trying to control what only God can control
Lack of intimacy with God – knowing about Him but not truly walking with Him
Wrong timeline – trying to force outcomes instead of trusting God’s timing
This episode is a call to step into a deeper level of purpose and faith where you give everything you have, trust God with everything you can’t control, and walk forward with confidence. Because true winning isn’t about controlling the result, It’s about trusting the One who already holds it. And when you live that way you don’t just win sometimes, you win God’s way.

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Why do so many Christian men struggle in marriage even when they love their wives? In this direct and practical episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach break down the non-negotiables of a Godly marriage and why most men are missing them. This isn’t theory.
This is about principles which are the repeatable forces that govern outcomes whether you’re aware of them or not.

If your marriage isn’t where it should be, it’s not random. It’s the result of what you are or aren’t doing consistently. In this episode, they unpack three core pillars every Christian man must lead in to build a thriving, Godly marriage:

1. Trust — Keep Your Word. If you don’t do what you say, your word loses value. And when your word loses value, your wife loses trust and respect follows. Strong marriages are built on consistent integrity, not occasional effort.

2. Intimacy — Date Your Wife. Most men stop pursuing their wife after they marry her. That’s where the breakdown begins. If you don’t intentionally create time, attention, and connection, your marriage slowly shifts into co-existing instead of thriving. Christian men don’t stop pursuing, they lead in it.

3. Leadership — Have a Plan. A Godly marriage isn’t just about being happy, it’s about building something together. Without vision, your relationship drifts. With purpose, your marriage grows stronger. Leadership means knowing where your family is going and leading them there.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
Why principles not feelings determine your marriage outcomes
How lack of discipline quietly destroys marriages
Why keeping your word builds respect and trust
How to practically date your wife (even with kids and a busy life)
Why many Christian men unintentionally become passive in marriage
How purpose and leadership transform a relationship
The danger of becoming roommates instead of partners
This episode is a wake-up call for Christian men who want a Godly marriage built on faith, discipline, and purpose. Because great marriages don’t happen by accident. They’re built by men who lead. And if you don’t lead your marriage intentionally, you will drift into something you never intended.

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What if understanding the 2nd Coming of Christ completely changed how you live today? In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach sit down with bestselling author John Bevere to discuss one of the most important, and often misunderstood, topics in the Christian faith: the return of Christ and its connection to purpose.

John Bevere shares why he avoided teaching on the 2nd Coming of Christ for over 40 years and how studying it transformed his faith, his urgency, and his purpose. Instead of creating confusion or debate, he discovered that correctly understanding Christ’s return produces passion, clarity, and a renewed commitment to living for eternity.

This conversation challenges Christian men to rethink how they approach faith and purpose. When you understand that Jesus is coming back, today suddenly matters more. Your leadership matters. Your obedience matters. Your influence matters.

John explains that the 2nd Coming of Christ is the second most talked-about subject in the Bible, yet many Christians rarely think about it. But when believers begin to live with eternity in mind, it creates urgency like a runner sprinting toward the finish line.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why the 2nd Coming of Christ should shape your daily life
How faith and purpose become clearer when viewed through eternity
Why Christian men need urgency in leadership and discipleship
The difference between arguing about end times and living with purpose
How understanding Christ’s return increases passion for winning souls
Why today matters when you understand eternity
John Bevere also discusses how focusing on Christ’s return changed his own life by increasing his compassion, strengthening his faith, and deepening his purpose to help others grow spiritually and prepare for eternity.

This episode is a powerful call for Christian men to live with faith, purpose, and urgency not because of fear, but because of hope. Because when you understand the King is coming,
you stop living casually and start living with purpose.

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