Why Cohabitation Destroys Intimacy (And How To Bring It Back)
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily and producer Erica dive into your questions about sex and relationships.
A woman who's been living with her partner for over a year and can't stand his unsexy pecks on the lips anymore—why moving in together kills sexual tension and the surprising move she needs to make instead of waiting for him to change.
The listener who ended a relationship because their partner refused to give oral sex—why sexual dealbreakers are valid and the one question Dr. Emily wishes she'd asked before walking away.
A man in England with a specific fetish whose girlfriend gets "nasty and defensive" every time he tries to talk about sex—the cultural shame around sex talk that's blocking exploration and whether therapy books can replace actual therapy.
Why "I don't want to seem pushy" is code for "we have a communication problem"—and the difference between a fantasy you'd like to explore and a fetish that's a requirement for arousal.
The real reason your partner gets defensive when you bring up sex (spoiler: it's not about you).
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
3:14 - Why Living Together Kills Sexual Tension (And How to Fix It)
8:43 - Dating Someone with Herpes: What You Need to Know
10:32 - The Truth About Herpes Transmission and Risk
15:00 - My Partner Won't Give Oral: Should I Break Up?
17:43 - How to Have the Difficult Oral Sex Conversation
21:56 - When Your Partner Won't Explore Your Fetish
23:15 - Defensiveness in Sex Talks: Red Flag or Fixable?
25:54 - When Sexual Incompatibility Becomes a Deal Breaker
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Why I Opened My Marriage After 20 Years
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Why Your Partner Refuses Intimacy (And What To Do)
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Why Couples Never Talk About Sex (And How to Start)
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily tackles why starting intimate conversations early matters more than waiting for the "right time"—and how your sex life begins long before you get to the bedroom.
A 51-year-old in Spain has been dating someone gorgeous for six weeks with incredible chemistry but zero penetrative sex—discover why having the "are we ready?" conversation over dinner (not after making out) prevents months of unnecessary confusion.
Someone married for years realizes they're bisexual but fears coming out will end everything—learn the gradual approach that starts with general sex conversations, not dropping identity bombshells.
A long-term couple has never discussed desires or fantasies despite years together—find out why waiting until there's a problem to talk about sex means you've already waited too long.
Timestamps:
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily tackles why starting intimate conversations early matters more than waiting for the "right time"—and how your sex life begins long before you get to the bedroom.
A 51-year-old in Spain has been dating someone gorgeous for six weeks with incredible chemistry but zero penetrative sex—discover why having the "are we ready?" conversation over dinner (not after making out) prevents months of unnecessary confusion.
Someone married for years realizes they're bisexual but fears coming out will end everything—learn the gradual approach that starts with general sex conversations, not dropping identity bombshells.
A long-term couple has never discussed desires or fantasies despite years together—find out why waiting until there's a problem to talk about sex means you've already waited too long.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
1:17 - When to Have "The Sex Talk" in a New Relationship
3:26 - Building Sexual Anticipation vs. Rushing Into Sex
5:25 - How to Talk About Sex Before You've Had Sex
8:14 - Faking Orgasms: Why It Hurts Both Partners
11:31 - Reader Question: Navigating Painful Sex & Communication
16:42 - Creating Safety When Past Experiences Were Painful
20:38 - The Importance of Lube and Going Slow
24:16 - Reader Question: Coming Out as Bisexual in Marriage
28:36 - Starting Conversations About Desires & Fantasies
30:38 - Living Your Sexual Truth at Any Age
32:24 - Practical Steps for Difficult Conversations
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Why She's Uncomfortable Being on Top (And How to Fix It)
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily breaks down why the sex positions everyone asks about aren't actually the secret to great sex—but learning to move your body intentionally might be.
A 21-year-old people pleaser can't stop until her boyfriend finishes (even when exhausted) but worries constantly when he's pleasuring her—discover why treating sex like a finish line kills orgasms. Someone's uncomfortable being on top because she feels exposed and on display—learn the slow-motion approach that makes cowgirl about grinding pleasure, not bouncing performance.
A woman's boyfriend has a strongly curved penis causing discomfort, plus he can't orgasm during sex despite being fine alone—find out why curved penises are actually G-spot advantages and why sex lasting "too long" damages vulva owners.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
1:04 - People Pleaser Advice: Breaking Sexual Double Standards
2:46 - The Importance of Being Present During Sex
3:40 - Reframing Sex as a Dance, Not a Finish Line
5:04 - The 69 Position: Practical Tips & Variations
6:25 - Side-by-Side 69: The Game Changer Position
11:42 - Doggy Style Deep Dive: Angles & Modifications
18:09 - Missionary Reimagined: Why It's Underrated
25:07 - Cowgirl Position: Taking Control of Your Pleasure
28:02 - Debunking the Coconut TikTok Trend
29:15 - The Lotus Position: Intimacy & Tantric Connection
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