Finding Peak with Ryan Hanley

While his son was at Marine boot camp, Chris Paradiso left his house around 10 p.m. to cover 48 miles on foot, so his son wouldn't suffer alone.
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Chris, founder of Paradiso Insurance and author of Civilized Savage: The Daily War Against Comfort, made his son a promise before Parris Island: "while you are in the Hurt Locker I want to visit the Hurt Locker with you." No water, no social post. "That was a me and Gianni moment." Full disclosure: Chris and I started an early version of this book together years ago. The finished book is his.
I asked the question this episode answers: if work, family, and health are fine, "why do I have to do hard things?" My answer is rehearsal. Chris's answer is his because. We both hate the word balance. I offer harmony. Chris says the people chasing balance are chasing comfort. His fix for the voice that bargains: "Write it down and you will not negotiate with yourself." That's the Easy Mode idea: Hard Mode is real effort pointed in the wrong direction. Chris picks his hard and aims it at his because.
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Civilized Savage (book ): https://geni.us/civilizedsavage

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Paradiso Insurance: https://www.paradisoinsurance.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christopherparadiso/
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Nick Friedman and Omar Soliman turned a beat-up cargo van into a $300 million brand. When the market dried up, Nick told his team to stop waiting for rain.
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Nick, founder and president of College HUNKS Hauling Junk & Moving, says the brand will do close to $300 million in annual sales this year. He also says the founder's job is to "create a sense of urgency without creating like a sense of frenzy or panic," and he's honest about who brings the frenzy. He'd text the team ideas after conferences until his people were left guessing: "Does Nick want me to drop everything I'm doing and go do this right now?"
We get into the filter that keeps it in check (an integrator, a weekly same page meeting, and a spreadsheet ), the skeptic AI bot I built for my own ideas, which Nick called "almost like an AI integrator," and what AI can't take from you. The question I'd put in front of every owner's outbox: is this an idea or an assignment? Then a mover stuck in an elevator turns himself into a human bench.
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Website: https://www.nickfriedman.com/

College HUNKS Hauling Junk & Moving: https://www.collegehunkshaulingjunk.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/collegehunkshaulingjunk/

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Three months building a new CRM. Then the staff walks into the first live training and asks, "What's this training for?" Nobody told them the agency was even considering a change.
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Mariah Gates, founder of Accelerated Automation, calls that the most common mistake she sees. The people who will use the tool hear about it last. Her fix starts before anyone logs in: build the why, tell people what you want them doing instead, and give their brains time to spiral. With automation and AI in the room, she says, people are legitimately afraid for their jobs.
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Then it gets uncomfortable. Mariah says pushback usually comes from one or two loud people, and the owner who keeps caving is feeding it. Her line: "Everybody's replaceable. The business owner is replaceable." In one husband-and-wife agency, the wife was the parent who treats the rules as the rules, so the wife delivered the message.
I bring the question that got me in trouble on the keynote stage years ago. Are you running a business, or are you the best producer in the building who happens to own the most equity? Mariah's advice for owners who hate running the business is blunt: "Stop fighting it. You will just be miserable."
Hard Mode has a tell. The work drains you and still produces ordinary results. I'm writing the operating system for the alternative.
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Website: https://acceleratedautomation.net

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariah-gates-61459b277/

Accelerated Automation on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realacceleratedautomation/

Accelerated Automation on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AcceleratedAutomation2023
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A CEO search for a big-brand public company. A name comes up, and the chairman of the nominating and governance committee shuts it down. He knew that person 20 years ago, and that person was a jerk. A reputation from two decades back, settled in one sentence, in a room the candidate never saw.
Kelly O. Kay, a partner at Heidrick & Struggles and co-author of Show Up to Win, was working that search. He tells his six kids never to chase money, and he tells executives never to chase a title. Chase the CEO title and you'll get it, at a company you won't want to run.
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We get into why saying yes to a conversation while you're happy isn't disloyal, and why competitive leaders win the process and then can't say whether they want the job. I tell Kelly about the job I took for the title and the money, and hated. His answer: they question your judgment, so call out what you missed. Do that, and a short stint stops being a hole in the résumé. His advice for a role you've never held sounds like weakness and reads as strength: ask for a coach as part of the negotiation.
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Heidrick & Struggles: https://www.heidrick.com/en/people/k/kellyokay

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kokay

Show Up to Win: https://www.heidrick.com/en/pages/show-up-to-win-book
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There is a gap between knowing what good work looks like and paying the price to do it when nobody is handing out applause.

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