Come Together with Erin + Abe Lichy

Lindsey Metselaar has been in our lives since before she had a following, a husband, or a sleep schedule. Now she has all three, plus a 2.5-month-old. We reminisce about our extremely unproductive work era together, and then somehow spend the next hour covering postpartum bodies, C-sections, cosmetic work, the filler rabbit hole, sobriety, and why today's weed is genuinely not the same conversation it was fifteen years ago.
Abe makes his case against the filler rabbit hole. Lindsay makes her case for a "beauty broker." We cover the NICU, postpartum resentment, and why watching your husband handle a toddler and a newborn at the same time is, apparently, very attractive.

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We’re officially making sex a recurring topic because clearly, no one’s saying what’s actually happening. We get into the so-called “sex recession,” why Gen Z might be having less sex than anyone expected, and how phones, gaming, and living at home are quietly changing the whole dynamic. Then it turns into a very real debate about one-night stands, sleepover etiquette (or lack thereof), and what actually flies vs. what absolutely does not.
And then we get honest about marriage. Kids, routines, exhaustion — all of it — and how that actually impacts your sex life. We talk about the whole “twice a week” narrative, why it feels a little fake, and what matters more than just checking a box.

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We get into Love Story, the JFK Jr. casting (including the lisp debate), and why the whole thing feels like peak ’90s New York. From there, it turns into a bigger convo about dating before phones, why relationships feel harder now, and the myth of the forever honeymoon phase.
We also talk about how social media has completely warped expectations — and why reality TV might actually be the most honest thing left.

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This week we sit down with Vienna Pharon – couples therapist, boundary queen, and someone who will lovingly call you out (spoiler: she definitely did for us). We talk about how the stories we tell ourselves about childhood (“it didn’t affect me”) usually… did, and how those early dynamics show up in our marriages, our nervous systems, and the way we fight. Vienna breaks down her five “origin wounds” — worthiness, belonging, prioritization, trust, and safety — and why conflict isn’t the problem, it’s what happens after that matters.
We get into real-life examples from our own relationship (including an early Ultra Music Festival spiral), how to regulate instead of react, and why modeling repair is one of the greatest gifts you can give your kids.

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This week we sit down with Captain Jason — yes, that Captain Jason — and talk about what life actually looks like off the yacht. From filming six weeks straight on Below Deck (with basically no sleep) to building a villa in Bali, launching a gender-neutral fragrance, and structuring his entire career around being present for his daughter, there’s a lot more depth than the slow-mo beach shots suggest. We get into production realities, environmental work in Indonesia, dating while nomadic (and not getting into Raya), and why he skipped drinking at BravoCon. It’s equal parts charming, grounded, and unexpectedly thoughtful — with a little chivalry discourse for good measure.

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