How Do You Survive Losing a Child? | Tim & Aileen Challies on the Death of Their 20-Year-Old Son
Today’s episode is one of the most tender and hope-filled conversations we’ve ever had.
We sit down with our dear friends Tim and Aileen Challies, who several years ago walked through every parent’s nightmare—the sudden and unexpected loss of their 20-year-old son, Nick.
In this deeply honest conversation, Tim and Aileen share:
The moment they received the devastating news
How they clung to what they believed about God when everything collapsed
The difference between anger at God and being hurt by God’s providence
How grief affects marriage—and how to survive it together
What it looks like to “deploy your theology” when tragedy hits
Practical ways Christians can comfort the grieving
How the Church became their lifeline
Why the Christian can truly grieve with hope
How losing Nick reshaped their understanding of heaven
Tim also shares the gospel with remarkable clarity and compassion, pointing listeners to the only place where true hope in sorrow can be found.
This episode is for anyone who has experienced loss of any kind—or for those who want to understand how to love the grieving well.We pray this conversation brings comfort, clarity, and hope in Christ.
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DUGGAR TWIN GENDER REVEAL: Jana & Abby Share the Big News!
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There’s huge Duggar family news — Jana & Abby Duggar reveal the genders of their babies!
In this week’s episode, Jinger and Jeremy react to Jana and Abby’s twin gender reveal and share their honest thoughts on the growing Duggar family.
They talk about what it’s like watching their siblings step into new seasons of life, the beauty and challenge of motherhood, and how their own approach to parenting has changed over time.
From nursing struggles to finding balance, they open up about the love, sacrifice, and joy that define family life—and why sometimes, the most “normal” moments are the most meaningful.
00:00:00 - Introduction
00:00:02 - Duggar Family News
00:00:11 - Bible Reading Resource
00:01:46 - Podcast Introduction
00:01:52 - Personal Updates
00:06:36 - Duggar Family Baby News
00:09:02 - Discussion on Gender Dynamics
00:13:25 - Discussion on Duggar Family Size
00:15:39 - Duggar Family Growth Projection
00:18:02 - Family Dynamics and Memory Challenges
00:24:40 - Changing Family Dynamics and Upbringing
00:27:48 - Transition from Large to Small Family Units
00:30:49 - Challenges of Connecting with Grown Children
00:31:40 - Time Spent with Children
00:33:02 - Balancing Parenthood and Personal Time
00:33:22 - The Value of Normal Life
00:33:50 - The Reality of Parenthood
00:34:52 - Discussion on Jana's Motherhood
00:36:28 - Discussion on Abby's Motherhood
00:38:38 - The Sacrifice of Motherhood
00:39:58 - The Struggles of Nursing
00:41:49 - Different Approaches to Motherhood
00:43:25 - The Constant Anxiety in Parenting
00:44:17 - The Sacrificial Love in Parenthood
00:46:25 - Impact of Love in Life and Parenting
00:49:54 - The Importance of Balance and Accepting Help in
Parenthood
00:51:17 - Closing Thoughts and Excitement for Duggar Family
Growth
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Discussing Divorce: What About the Kids? Julia & Jacob Petersen Talk Divorce, Going Viral for Jesus & Dating Like Duggars
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What happens when marriage breaks—and how do kids heal from it?
In this heartfelt conversation, Julia and Jacob Petersen open up about Jacob’s story of growing up in a home torn by divorce, how it shaped his faith, and how God ultimately brought beauty from the pain. They talk about what it means to find hope after heartbreak, how to love your family through brokenness, and how the gospel speaks into our deepest wounds.
They also discuss:
Healing as a child of divorce
Praying for redemption when everything feels lost
Dating with intention (and the Duggars’ surprising influence)
What God is doing in Gen Z through social media and viral faith
🎧 Whether you’ve faced divorce yourself, grown up in it, or just need encouragement for your family—this episode will remind you: God still restores.
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Jinger vs. Modern Medicine: Felicity’s ER Scare & the Crunchy Life
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When our daughter Felicity woke up in tears with ear pain, Jinger faced a tough call: antibiotics or wait it out? In this episode, we unpack her ER story, talk about where to draw the line between natural and modern medicine, and dive into the world of “crunchy living” — from seed oils and sunscreen to NyQuil and non-toxic cleaners.
Can you be crunchy without going crazy?
00:00:43 - Podcast Introduction
00:01:08 - Morning Routine
00:02:12 - Finn's Development
00:03:05 - Car Accident Story
00:08:23 - Crunchy Lifestyle Discussion
00:12:08 - Crunchy Lifestyle Rating
00:12:52 - Felicity's Ear Infection Story
00:15:15 - Ear Infection Treatment Discussion
00:23:08 - Ear Infection Treatment Continued
00:25:00 - Childhood Medical Experiences
00:30:38 - Cooking Discussion and Preferences
00:30:46 - Egg Consumption and Recipes
00:32:12 - Meal Planning and Food Choices
00:35:00 - Cooking Insecurities and Appreciation
00:36:26 - Essential Oils Discussion
00:40:35 - Food Label Awareness and Choices
00:44:33 - Switching to Truly Free Products
00:45:47 - Switching to Natural Cleaning Products
00:46:56 - Christian Perspective on Health and Consumerism
00:47:48 - Biblical Mandate and Misinterpretations
00:48:51 - Misconceptions about Biblical Diets
00:51:54 - Health Consciousness and Fear
00:53:01 - Disagreement on Medicine Usage
00:54:22 - Conclusion and Future Plans
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Jackson Duggar at 21: The Youngest Duggar Son Opens Up
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Jackson Duggar sits down with Jinger & Jeremy for his most in-depth conversation yet. From being literally born on TV to navigating life after reality fame, Jackson shares college life (freshman class president), construction work, a possible call to ministry, and how God used 1 John 2 to reshape his heart. You’ll hear about growing up as the youngest of ten boys, learning who he is outside the cameras, and what’s next.
Watch for:
• “I was born on TV” (Discovery Health flashback)
• Bible college + the “freshman 15” (choir version!)
• Writing on God’s immutability
• Calling vs. career: construction or ministry?
• Making faith his own
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Guest Arrival
00:00:12 Childhood Memories & Growing Up on Camera
00:12:10 Jackson’s Current Life & College Experience
00:15:31 College Caf Food + Freshman 15 (Choir)
00:17:00 Future Plans & Business Goals
00:21:20 Spiritual Growth & Reflections (1 John 2)
00:25:29 Potential Future in Ministry
00:30:37 Youngest Boy Dynamics
00:31:18 Self-Discovery & Imitation
00:32:06 Season of Reflection
00:32:29 Ministry Focus
00:32:54 Time Away From Home
00:33:43 Missing Family
00:34:33 Rapid Fire (Wildest, Funniest, Closest)
00:37:16 Life on TV & “Truman Show” moment
00:38:52 Conclusion
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The Jinger & Jeremy Podcast focuses on discussions surrounding family, faith, Reality TV, and life in general. Having grown up on tv as a part of her families' reality tv shows "19 Kids and Counting" and "Counting On", Jinger "Duggar" Vuolo discusses those experiences and what life looks like for her today with her husband Jeremy. Together, they live in Los Angeles with their two daughters, Felicity and Evangeline.