SoberFitGirl

In this episode, Kat and Ewa continue the conversation about sober dating and what happens when “I don’t really drink” slowly turns into a very different reality.

We’re talking about the insecurity that can come up when someone who drinks dates a sober woman, why your sobriety can sometimes become a mirror for someone else’s relationship with alcohol, and the ways that insecurity can show up through defensiveness, jokes, minimizing, or over-explaining.

We also break down the red flags and green flags we’ve learned to pay attention to while dating sober: from getting cagey about how often they drink to being completely honest about their lifestyle from the start. Plus, we talk about asking better questions early on, trusting what someone’s actions are showing you, and remembering that you don’t need someone to live exactly like you do — but you do deserve honesty and respect around something that is such a big part of your life.

And yes, we want your stories. Has a guy ever told you he “barely drinks” only for you to find out that was definitely not the case? DM us because we know we’re not the only ones.

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An Everyday Guide to a Sober Curious Lifestyle

Coming January 19, 2027

Real stories, tough love, and simple next steps to help you stop the moderation cycle, rebuild confidence and fitness, and build a sober life that lasts.

It's about finding the woman alcohol has been keeping from you.

⬇️SOBERFITGIRL LINKS⬇️

📞 Sober Curious? Join the SoberFitGirl Community & Mentorship

What’s Included:

📱 Daily 1:1 Chat with Your Mentors

💬 6 Weekly Live Group Calls

💪 Custom Workout & Nutrition Plans

💖 A Supportive Sober Curious Fitness Community

🎯 ⁠⁠Book a free call ⁠⁠with the SoberFitGirl team to explore 1:1 mentorship.

In this episode, Kat and Ewa are back with another sober dating conversation, and this time we’re talking about the classic line: “I don’t really drink.” You know, until you actually start dating him and realize his definition of “not really drinking” is very different from yours.

We’re getting into the little lies and half-truths people tell about their drinking early on, from “I only drink socially” to “I’m basically sober” to ordering water on the first date just to seem more compatible with you. We talk about why some men feel the need to downplay their drinking when dating a sober woman, what happens when the image they created starts to fall apart, and why the dishonesty can become a bigger issue than the drinking itself.

We also talk about the difference between someone who genuinely respects your sobriety and someone who is simply saying what they think you want to hear. Because we’re not asking every person we date to be sober. We’re asking them to be honest about who they are from the beginning.

⁠📖 PREORDER SOBER FIT GIRL (Click here to preorder⁠⁠)

An Everyday Guide to a Sober Curious Lifestyle

Coming January 19, 2027

Real stories, tough love, and simple next steps to help you stop the moderation cycle, rebuild confidence and fitness, and build a sober life that lasts.

It's about finding the woman alcohol has been keeping from you.

⬇️SOBERFITGIRL LINKS⬇️

📞 Sober Curious? Join the SoberFitGirl Community & Mentorship

What’s Included:

📱 Daily 1:1 Chat with Your Mentors

💬 6 Weekly Live Group Calls

💪 Custom Workout & Nutrition Plans

💖 A Supportive Sober Curious Fitness Community

🎯 ⁠⁠Book a free call ⁠⁠with the SoberFitGirl team to explore 1:1 mentorship.

In this episode, Kat and Ewa welcome the newest SoberFitGirl coach, Claire, to the podcast!

Claire is 29 years old, almost one year alcohol-free, and has been part of SoberFitGirl since day one of her sobriety journey. Now, almost a year later, she’s stepping into a completely new role as a SoberFitGirl coach and hosting Sunday community calls.

Claire shares what her first year without alcohol has really looked like, from navigating anxiety and future-tripping to setting boundaries, living alone sober, building confidence, and working through her relationship with food and binge eating.

They also talk about finding new routines and hobbies without drinking, learning to enjoy the little things again, and why personal growth doesn’t suddenly end when you stop drinking.

It’s a full-circle conversation about what can change in a year when you keep showing up for yourself — even when you’re still figuring things out along the way.

Welcome to the SoberFitGirl coaching team, Claire! 💗

⁠📖 PREORDER SOBER FIT GIRL (Click here to preorder⁠⁠)

An Everyday Guide to a Sober Curious Lifestyle

Coming January 19, 2027

Real stories, tough love, and simple next steps to help you stop the moderation cycle, rebuild confidence and fitness, and build a sober life that lasts.

It's about finding the woman alcohol has been keeping from you.

⬇️SOBERFITGIRL LINKS⬇️

📞 Sober Curious? Join the SoberFitGirl Community & Mentorship

What’s Included:

📱 Daily 1:1 Chat with Your Mentors

💬 6 Weekly Live Group Calls

💪 Custom Workout & Nutrition Plans

💖 A Supportive Sober Curious Fitness Community

🎯 ⁠⁠Book a free call ⁠⁠with the SoberFitGirl team to explore 1:1 mentorship.

In this episode, Kat and Ewa get real about the body image struggles that didn’t magically disappear when they got sober. They talk about how their relationships with their bodies have changed over the years, the pressure to look a certain way, comparison, fitness, weight changes, and the disconnect between how we actually look and how we see ourselves.

They also open up about their own experiences with body dysmorphia and how easy it can be to fall into the mindset of always needing to change, fix, or improve something about your body. From learning to appreciate what their bodies can do to recognizing when “healthy” habits start becoming obsessive, this conversation is about working toward a healthier relationship with yourself- not a perfect one.

A little trigger warning before listening: this episode includes conversations around eating disorders, disordered eating, body image, and weight. Please take care of yourself and skip this episode if those topics feel difficult or triggering for you right now.

⁠📖 PREORDER SOBER FIT GIRL (Click here to preorder⁠⁠)

An Everyday Guide to a Sober Curious Lifestyle

Coming January 19, 2027

Real stories, tough love, and simple next steps to help you stop the moderation cycle, rebuild confidence and fitness, and build a sober life that lasts.

It's about finding the woman alcohol has been keeping from you.

⬇️SOBERFITGIRL LINKS⬇️

📞 Sober Curious? Join the SoberFitGirl Community & Mentorship

What’s Included:

📱 Daily 1:1 Chat with Your Mentors

💬 6 Weekly Live Group Calls

💪 Custom Workout & Nutrition Plans

💖 A Supportive Sober Curious Fitness Community

🎯 ⁠⁠Book a free call ⁠⁠with the SoberFitGirl team to explore 1:1 mentorship.

In this episode, Kat and Ewa talk about the career glow-up nobody talks about: getting sober. We’re diving into how sobriety can impact your career in ways you may not expect — from having more energy and mental clarity to becoming more reliable, motivated, and intentional with your time.

We’re sharing our own experiences with how getting sober changed the way we showed up professionally, made decisions, handled stress, communicated with other people, and pursued bigger goals. We’ll talk about the opportunities that can open up when you’re no longer spending your time recovering from hangovers, thinking about your next drink, or second-guessing yourself because of something you said or did while drinking.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re capable of more but something is holding you back, this episode is a reminder to look at where your energy is actually going. Sobriety doesn’t automatically guarantee career success, but it can give you back time, clarity, and the ability to show up consistently for the goals you care about.

📖 PREORDER SOBER FIT GIRL (Click here to preorder⁠)

An Everyday Guide to a Sober Curious Lifestyle

Coming January 19, 2027

Real stories, tough love, and simple next steps to help you stop the moderation cycle, rebuild confidence and fitness, and build a sober life that lasts.

It's about finding the woman alcohol has been keeping from you.

⬇️SOBERFITGIRL LINKS⬇️

📞 Sober Curious? Join the SoberFitGirl Community & Mentorship

What’s Included:

📱 Daily 1:1 Chat with Your Mentors

💬 6 Weekly Live Group Calls

💪 Custom Workout & Nutrition Plans

💖 A Supportive Sober Curious Fitness Community

🎯 ⁠⁠⁠⁠Book a free call ⁠⁠⁠⁠with the SoberFitGirl team to explore 1:1 mentorship.