You most likely experienced trauma as a child w/Danica Harris
In this conversation, Nina Caviggiola and Dr. Danica Harris delve into the complexities of trauma, particularly focusing on the concept of complex trauma. They discuss the differences between big T's and little t's, the impact of childhood experiences on emotional development, and the importance of repair in parent-child relationships. Dr. Harris explains how trauma can be trapped in the body and offers insights into recognizing and releasing tension. They also explore the connection between trauma and gut health, the ongoing nature of healing, and the significance of self-compassion in the journey. The conversation concludes with empowering advice for parents on how to navigate their own healing while supporting their children.
00:00 Understanding Trauma: Big T's and Little t's
02:55 Defining Complex Trauma
06:12 The Impact of Childhood Experiences
09:00 Repairing Relationships and Emotional Responses
11:57 Trauma Trapped in the Body
14:55 Recognizing and Releasing Tension
17:57 The Connection Between Trauma and Gut Health
23:54The Importance of Self-Compassion
26:55 Parenting and Trauma Awareness
Dr. Danica Harris is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and complex trauma expert, working internationally as a coach, facilitator, presenter, and educator. Trained as a Counseling Psychologist, Danica prioritizes helping folks heal so they can live more embodied and empowered lives. Danica is the Co-Owner and Executive Director of Empowered Healing Dallas, a group therapy practice where her team provides trauma-informed therapy, using somatic and relational approaches when working with clients. Danica is also passionate about support for therapists and healers and provides mentorship and consultation to providers looking to increase their trauma-informed knowledge and business practices. She considers herself a co-journeyer, and hosts healing focused retreats and intensives for fellow complex trauma survivors. You can find Danica on her Instagram platform, @theempoweredtherapist where she provides education and support to the broader community.
IG: @theempoweredtherapist
www.theempoweredtherapist.com
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FAN FAVORITE: How to nurture BODY LOVE & Neutrality for our young kids w/Dr. Morgan Francis
This week we are re-releasing one my personal favorite conversations and a fan favorite episode! This is a MUST listen (or re-listen!)
Body image and and neutrality is something I didn't really learn about until I was an adult, after struggling for years. Especially after having my own kids I began to wonder, how do we do better for our kids so that they don't have to struggle with the same body image issues like most of us did as kids? On this weeks episode we dive into the topic and address some important questions!
How can we talk to our kids about their body early on & in their teens to promote body neutrality?
What are things we should avoid doing or saying to nurture body positivity in our daughters?
Our kids are growing up surrounded by social media and are consuming damaging content for their views on themselves and their body. How can we help them avoid the comparison cycle of unrealistic body image on the internet?
How can we help empower our daughters to stand up for themselves when their body is being negatively talked about by classmates, friends, family, or strangers?
What are signs that we should be aware of that may indicate our child is struggling with an eating disorder?
Dr. Morgan Francis is a Doctor of Clinical Psychology and a Licensed Mental
Health Therapist. She is the owner of Scottsdale Premier Counseling, in
Scottsdale, Arizona. At her private practice she treats young adults, individuals, couples, and families. Her mission is to break through the mental health shame game. With over 20 years of experience specializing in the treatment of Body Image and Eating Disorders, Dr. Francis can empower you to make peace with your body and food. She is a frequent guest on Fox News Phoenix, she has been featured in local and national publication, she is a public speaker and consultant on mental health helping churches, schools, and community organizations. You can work with Dr. Francis by accessing her online courses or attending her webinars. Dr. Francis lives in Scottsdale, Arizona with her three children and husband.
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Navigating Difficult Conversations in Your Relationship w/ Malina
In this conversation, Nina and psychologist Malina discuss the importance of having difficult conversations in relationships, the patterns that can lead to defensiveness and blame, and how to shift these dynamics towards understanding and effective communication. They explore the significance of awareness, the role of boundaries, and the potential benefits of written communication in navigating emotional discussions. Malina shares practical strategies for fostering a healthier dialogue between partners, emphasizing the need for vulnerability and teamwork.
00:00 Navigating Difficult Conversations in Relationships
02:13 Understanding Patterns and Personal Growth
04:53 Identifying Toxic Patterns in Relationships
06:30 Shifting Blame to Understanding
10:37 Effective Communication Strategies
12:37 Dealing with Defensiveness in Partners
16:38 Setting Boundaries for Healthy Conversations
20:38 Using Written Communication for Clarity
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Puberty...awkward? w/Cara Natterson
In this conversation, Nina Caviggiola and Dr. Kara Natterson explore the complexities and awkwardness surrounding puberty discussions. They emphasize the importance of open communication between parents and children, addressing the emotional and physical changes that occur during puberty. Dr. Natterson shares insights on how to approach these conversations, the role of trusted adults, and the impact of social influences on children's understanding of their bodies. The discussion highlights the need for early education and normalization of these topics to foster a healthy understanding of puberty and sexuality.
05:01 Understanding Puberty: A Pediatrician's Perspective
09:54 The Role of Parents in Discussing Puberty
15:09 Normalizing Conversations About Bodies and Emotions
19:47 Setting Boundaries and Discussing Self-Exploration
24:48 The Importance of Early Conversations About Puberty
30:05 Empowering Kids Through Knowledge and Open Dialogue
Cara Natterson, MD, is a pediatrician and New York Times bestselling author dedicated to demystifying the tween and teen years with science and humor. As the founder of Less Awkward and co-host of the This is So Awkward podcast, Cara empowers kids – and the adults who care about them – with essential knowledge about growing up.
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Why you should not label your kids w/Zara Kadir
In this conversation, Nina and Zara discuss the profound impact of labeling children, both positively and negatively. They explore how labels can limit a child's potential and the importance of fostering a growth mindset. The discussion also delves into the effects of parental venting, sibling comparisons, and gender labels, emphasizing the need for parents to advocate for their children and recognize the internalized effects of labels. Zara provides practical strategies for reframing conversations about children and highlights the importance of acknowledging both challenges and strengths in parenting.
04:32 Understanding Developmental Psychology in Labeling
06:30 The Fine Line of Complimenting Children
09:49 Venting and Its Effects on Parenting
16:27 Sibling Comparisons and Team Dynamics
23:10 The Impact of Child Comparisons
26:43 Understanding Gender Labels in Parenting
30:58 Reframing Shyness and Caution
38:24 Recognizing and Addressing Internalized Labels
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I'll go first: Motherhood is a dang rollercoaster and sometimes I feel like I'm just hanging on. My name is Nina and I am the host of Mama Knows. I truly believe that every mama *knows.* Have you ever held your crying child and just said or thought "I know honey." YOU, mama, know what is best for your family and sometimes it's different than what the other mama knows. This podcast is an ongoing, honest conversation around motherhood, mental health, parenting and relationships...the good, bad and funny. Join in weekly for tips, strategies, tools and conversation that will leave you feeling less alone!