Raising Godly Girls

What should you do when you discover your own daughter is the one hurting someone else? 

No parent wants to receive the phone call, text message, or conversation revealing that their child has been unkind—or worse, has developed a pattern of bullying another girl. While those moments can stir embarrassment, defensiveness, or even shame, they also present a powerful opportunity for discipleship. In this episode, Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose encourage Christian parents to respond with courage, humility, and a heart committed to both truth and restoration. 

Continuing the Raising Godly Girls back-to-school series on bullying, Rachael and Natalie discuss the important distinction between isolated unkindness and repeated bullying behavior, why secrecy allows harmful patterns to grow, and how parents can lovingly guide a daughter toward confession, repentance, and reconciliation. Through a thoughtful Raising Godly Girls Minute from AHG Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, listeners are reminded that telling the truth isn't an act of betrayal—it's often the very first step toward healing for everyone involved. 

The conversation also offers practical, Gospel-centered guidance for parents navigating these difficult situations, including acknowledging the hurt caused, praying for wisdom and discernment, understanding the full scope of the behavior, involving the appropriate adults, and encouraging a daughter to take responsibility for her actions. Rather than minimizing or excusing sinful behavior, Christian parents have the privilege of demonstrating God's mercy by helping their daughters walk the path of genuine repentance and lasting restoration. 

If you've ever wondered how to respond when your daughter makes a poor choice, this episode offers hope-filled encouragement that God doesn't waste our parenting challenges. Even difficult conversations can become opportunities to point our girls toward the transforming grace of Jesus Christ. 

 

Three Things to Consider: 

Address harmful behavior with honesty and grace. Accountability is an act of love that points your daughter toward lasting heart transformation. 


Pray for wisdom before responding. Ask God to help you see the full situation clearly and guide your daughter with both truth and compassion. 


Pursue restoration, not simply consequences. Genuine confession, repentance, forgiveness, and reconciliation often take time, but they reflect the heart of the Gospel. 


 

Scriptures Referenced: 

Genesis 1:27 


Ephesians 4:15 


Ephesians 4:29–32 


Colossians 3:12–14 



James 5:16 


Proverbs 28:13 


Matthew 18:15–17 


Galatians 6:1 


 

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When does unkind behavior cross the line into bullying—and how can Christian parents respond with both wisdom and grace? 

As a new school year begins, many parents wonder how to prepare their daughters for the complex social dynamics they'll inevitably encounter. While every unkind comment isn't bullying, repeated patterns of intimidation, exclusion, or harm can leave lasting wounds if left unaddressed. In this timely episode, Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose equip Christian parents to recognize the difference between everyday conflict and true bullying—and to respond with confidence rooted in a Biblical Worldview. 

Together, Rachael and Natalie explore why every person deserves dignity as an image-bearer of God, how bullying often takes shape through repeated relational patterns, and why middle school girls are especially vulnerable to navigating unhealthy peer dynamics and cyberbullying. Through a thoughtful Raising Godly Girls Minute from AHG Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, parents are also encouraged to recognize the warning signs of unhealthy friendships and help their daughters identify red flags before harmful patterns become deeply rooted. 

The conversation offers practical, Gospel-centered guidance for families walking through bullying, including how to validate a daughter's pain without allowing her to embrace a victim identity, pray for wisdom and discernment, assess the situation carefully, involve trusted adults when necessary, and advocate courageously while still pursuing Biblical forgiveness when appropriate. Throughout the episode, listeners are reminded that protecting a daughter and extending Christlike grace are not opposing ideas—they can faithfully coexist. 

Whether your daughter attends public school, private school, homeschool, or a co-op, this back-to-school conversation will equip you to foster open communication, strengthen her confidence in Christ, and help her build healthy friendships grounded in truth, loyalty, and love. 

 

Three Things to Consider: 

Learn to distinguish between isolated unkindness and ongoing bullying. Patterns of repeated harm require thoughtful, proactive intervention. 


Create a safe place for your daughter to share her experiences. Listen carefully, ask wise questions, and seek God's guidance before responding. 


Advocate for your daughter with courage while modeling biblical forgiveness, trusting that God can bring healing, wisdom, and restoration even after painful experiences. 


 

Scriptures Referenced: 

Genesis 1:27 


Proverbs 17:17 


Ecclesiastes 4:12 


Romans 12:18 



Matthew 5:9 


Ephesians 4:29–32 


Colossians 3:12–14 


 

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Learn how to find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your community at americanheritagegirls.org.

In a culture that constantly asks girls to define themselves on their own terms, the Bible offers a far more hopeful and life-giving truth: every girl has a purposeful place in God's redemptive story. 

In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, Melissa Bearden sits down with author, speaker, and ministry leader Jen Oshman to explore how Scripture answers some of the most important questions girls are asking today about identity, purpose, and belonging. Together, they discuss what it means to understand humanity through a Biblical lens—and why God's design for women is both beautiful and essential to His greater plan. 

Drawing from her years of global ministry experience as a missionary and church planter in Japan and the Czech Republic, Jen shares how the Gospel speaks powerfully across cultures and life circumstances. Now serving in ministry in the United States, she offers thoughtful insight into how parents can help their daughters develop a Biblical Worldview that stands firm even in a rapidly changing culture. 

Melissa and Jen also address an important message for every girl to hear: no life story is too broken for redemption. Whether a girl is navigating cultural confusion, personal struggles, or past mistakes, the grace of Jesus Christ offers restoration, forgiveness, and a new identity rooted in truth. 

This conversation will encourage parents to disciple their daughters with confidence, reminding them that God is actively at work in every life—and that girls who understand His grace can grow into women who walk in courage, humility, and faith. 

 

Scriptures Referenced in This Episode: 

 

Genesis 1:27 


Psalm 139:13–14 


Isaiah 43:1 


Luke 8:1–3 


Romans 8:1 


2 Corinthians 5:17 


Ephesians 2:8–10 


 


To learn more about Jen Oshman, visit jenoshman.com   

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What if one of God's greatest redemption stories is unfolding in your own motherhood? 

Motherhood has a way of exposing both our greatest joys and our deepest weaknesses. From impatience and exhaustion to self-doubt and overwhelm, every season reminds us just how much we need God's grace. But the good news of the Gospel is this: Jesus isn't simply raising our daughters—He's transforming us, too. 

In this encouraging episode, Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden continue the week's conversation on God's redeeming work by turning the focus toward the hearts of Christian moms. Together, they explore how the Lord faithfully meets women in their brokenness, reshapes their priorities, and gently transforms them into mothers who reflect His mercy, patience, and love. Rather than striving for perfection, listeners are reminded that the goal is to become women who continually return to Christ and allow His grace to shape every part of their lives. 

You'll also hear a timely Raising Godly Girls Minute from AHG Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, encouraging parents to build homes marked by redemption rather than shame. As Patti reflects on God's never-ending mercy, Rachael and Melissa offer practical encouragement for mothers to ask for help without guilt, anchor each day in God's Word, and boldly proclaim their identity in Christ when discouragement and the enemy's lies begin to creep in. 

Whether you're navigating sleepless nights with little ones, parenting teenagers, or investing in the next generation as a mentor or volunteer, this episode serves as a beautiful reminder that God's mercies truly are new every morning. He is faithfully redeeming your story—even on the days when you feel like you've fallen short. 

 

Three Things to Consider: 

Don't carry the weight of motherhood alone. Ask God for strength, and don't be afraid to ask your spouse, trusted friends, or your Christian community for help. 


Begin each day anchored in God's Word. His truth provides the wisdom, peace, and perspective needed for every season of motherhood. 


When discouragement comes, speak God's truth over your life. Your identity is found in Christ, and His grace is greater than yesterday's failures. 


 

Scriptures Referenced: 

Lamentations 3:22–23 


Luke 8:2 


Mark 16:9 


Romans 8:1 



2 Corinthians 5:17 


Ephesians 2:10 


John 15:5 


 

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Learn how to find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your community at americanheritagegirls.org.

Is your daughter learning to follow Jesus—or simply learning to follow the rules? 

Many Christian parents long to raise daughters who are kind, obedient, respectful, and wise. But somewhere along the way, it's easy to confuse good behavior with a transformed heart. In this episode, Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden unpack one of Jesus' most familiar parables—the Prodigal Son—and reveal a truth we often overlook: both sons needed the Father's grace. Whether your girl tends to be a rule-follower or a rebel, her greatest need is the same—to know the redeeming love of Jesus Christ. 

As the Raising Godly Girls podcast begins a week focused on God's power to redeem and restore, Rachael and Melissa explore the subtle dangers of legalism, behavior-focused parenting, and placing our worth in performance rather than in the finished work of Christ. They remind parents that true heart transformation doesn't begin with outward obedience—it begins with the Gospel. Through a moving Raising Godly Girls Minute from AHG Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, listeners are also encouraged by the story of Mary Magdalene, whose life beautifully demonstrates God's heart to redeem, restore, and honor those who belong to Him. 

Practical encouragement rounds out the conversation as Rachael and Melissa discuss how parents can lead with both truth and grace: teaching the Gospel before behavior modification, modeling genuine forgiveness in everyday family life, and lovingly addressing the condition of a daughter's heart without labeling her by her successes or failures. It's a timely reminder that God's grace is the foundation upon which lasting character is built. 

Whether you're parenting a daughter who naturally follows every rule or one who frequently tests the boundaries, this episode will encourage you to keep your eyes fixed on the Father's heart—a heart that lovingly pursues, forgives, restores, and invites every child to walk in the freedom of His grace. 

 

Three Things to Consider: 

Teach the Gospel before emphasizing the Fruit of the Spirit. Lasting obedience grows from a transformed heart, not behavior modification alone. 


Model forgiveness in your home. As parents confess, repent, and extend grace, daughters gain a living picture of the Gospel. 


Speak honestly and gently to your daughter's heart. Whether she's a rule-follower or a rebel, she needs both truth and love as she grows in Christ. 


 

Scriptures Referenced in this Episode: 

Luke 15:11–32 


Luke 8:2 


Mark 16:9 


Zephaniah 3:17 



Galatians 5:22–23 


1 John 1:9 


 

Visit raisinggodlygirls.com for more encouragement and faith-based parenting tools.     

Learn how to find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your community at americanheritagegirls.org.