Sex and Porn Addiction, Misconceptions That Prevent Healing with Matt Wenger
Host Steve Cuss sits down with Matt Wenger for a candid conversation about addiction, intimacy, and healing. Together, they unpack the complexities of sexual addiction, the ripple effects it has on loved ones, and why recovery is best understood as a "team sport." Matt highlights the power of vulnerability, group support, and true intimacy as antidotes to the false connections addiction promises. Steve and Matt also shine a light on betrayal trauma experienced by partners, offering hope, empathy, and pathways toward healing for everyone impacted.
Episode Resources:
Explore Mattās work at the Begin Again Institute
Understanding the Signs and Causes of Betrayal Trauma
Romans (from the New Testament) - It is mentioned in the context of discussing sin as an infection or condition rather than solely a moral issue.
Read The Great Commandment (in Luke, Matthew, and Markās gospels)
Read Romans 8:38-39Ā
Read Romans 7 (Paul discuss sin struggles)
More about Matt Wenger
Other Media:
Steve & Clarissa Moll discuss the Four Spaces of Anxiety
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Steve Cuss and Clarissa Moll Explore Anxiety, Faith, and the Presence of God
In her monthly visit to Being Human, Clarissa Moll from Christianity Todayās The Bulletin takes the hostās chair and turns the tables on Steve Cuss for another rich exploration of the Four Spaces of Anxiety. Together, they discuss how the frenetic pace of modern life can obscure Godās presenceāand how intentional pauses can restore spiritual clarity and resilience. The conversation dives into rumination, false needs like control and approval, and the role of prayer and journaling in nurturing healthier relationships. Steve and Clarissa offer insights on differentiation, boundaries, over-functioning, and even the rapid rise of artificial intelligence.
Episode Resources:
Listen: The Bulletin
Read: Genesis 28 (NLT)
Read: Tom Hanks' most iconic roles, from Forrest Gump to Toy Story (EW)
Explore: Introduction to Bowen family systems theory
Other Media:
Steve and Clarissaās August episode of Being Human
The Bulletin: Steve and Clarissa on Smart Drugs in the Workplace
Explore Clarissa Mollās website
Read Clarissa Mollās Substack
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Steve and Lisa Cuss Navigate the Four Spaces of Anxiety and Deeper Connectivity
Steve Cuss is joined once again by his wife and fellow counselor, Lisa Cuss, for a practical conversation on the Four Spaces of Anxiety and how these shape our relationships, leadership, and faith. Building on recent Being Human dialogues with Toni Collier and Dr. Les Parrott, Steve and Lisa unpack the hidden assumptions that fuel reactivity, disconnection, and stress. Steve and Lisa explore how faith, vulnerability, and intentional community can break anxietyās grip and create healthier families, churches, and neighborhoods.
Episode Resources:
Steve & Clarissa Moll discuss the Four Spaces of Anxiety
Explore Toni Collierās website
Toni Collierās Don't Try This Alone
Toni Collierās Broken Crayons Still Color
Toni Collierās Brave Enough to Be Broken
Drs. Les & Leslie Parrottās Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts
Dr. Parrott and Judah Smithās Bad Thoughts: A Preacher and a Shrink's Guide to Reclaiming Your Mind and Soul
Drs. Les & Leslie Parrottās website
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Dr. Les Parrott Challenges Empathy Myths in Christian Circles
World-renowned relationship expert Dr. Les Parrott sits down with host Steve Cuss for a raw discussion about reclaiming your mind and soul. Parrott shreds toxic beliefs about empathy, parenting, and vulnerability that have infiltrated Christian culture, replacing them with a vision for emotional and spiritual health that actually works. Together, Steve and Dr. parrott dissect the razor-thin line between empathy and enmeshment, reveal how technology can fuel genuine human connection, and unpack why hearing Godās voice without shame is a game-changer.Ā
Resources mentioned in this episode include:
Drs. Les & Leslie Parrottās Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts
Dr. Parrott and Judah Smithās Bad Thoughts: A Preacher and a Shrink's Guide to Reclaiming Your Mind and Soul
Pastor Judah Smithās instagram
Drs. Les & Leslie Parrottās website
David Brooksā How to Know a Person
Steve & Clarissa Moll discuss the Four Spaces of Anxiety
The Gospel of Mark (ESV)
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Toni Collier Heals from Childhood Wounds and Adult Betrayal
Discover how anxiety weaves its way into every corner of lifeāand how to break free. Host Steve Cuss sits down with Toni Collier, founder of Broken Crayons Still Color, for a raw conversation on her journey from brokenness to healing and redemption. Together, they unpack how faith, authentic community, and radical vulnerability can transform deep woundsālike āparentification,ā betrayal, and infidelityāinto powerful testimonies of hope and resilience. This episode continues Steveās exploration of the Four Spaces of Anxiety and showcases the need to stop the spread of reactivity.
Resources mentioned in this episode include:
Explore Toniās website
Toni Collierās Don't Try This Alone
Toni Collierās Broken Crayons Still Color
Toni Collierās Brave Enough to Be Broken
Explore North Point Ministries
Explore the work of Dr. Curt ThompsonĀ
Timothy Kellerās The Prodigal God: Recovering the Heart of the Christian Faith
Listen to Steve and Clarissa Moll Set up The Four Spaces of Anxiety
Watch Steve explain The Four Spaces of Anxiety
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From Christianity Today, Being Human with Steve Cuss is Christian counseling in podcast form. Steve Cuss, a former trauma and hospice chaplain, pastor, and leadership coach, guides listeners with a gospel-informed journey of discovery into the world of emotional health: everything from anxiety and reactivity, to triangulation, overfunctioning, and the Enneagram.