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Tuesday Talks: Advice for Trying DP & DVP  | Episode 112
In this week’s Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy are answering a listener question about exploring the fantasies of DVP and DP. They share their best advice from personal experience, including the importance of communication, comfort, chemistry, and making sure everyone involved is relaxed and on the same page.
They also talk about why performance anxiety can make these experiences harder to pull off, especially when both male partners need to feel confident and comfortable. More than anything, Dan and Lacy encourage listeners to be open and honest about their fantasies. You never know who might be curious about the same things — but you won’t find out unless you’re willing to put yourself out there and have the conversation.

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Splash Houston Recap: Dj Booths, Pool Parties, and Dance Floors | Episode 248

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy are recapping their weekend at Splash Houston — and it was one for the books!
Dan spent a big part of the weekend behind the DJ booth for his first official paid DJ gig, which means he’s officially gone pro! While Dan was busy keeping the party going, Lacy found herself navigating parts of the event solo and feeling a little lost at times — but, in true Lacy fashion, she made the best of it and still found plenty of fun along the way.
They talk about the daytime pool parties, the hilarious and sexy games Dan helped host for attendees, and the high-energy nights filled with dancing, connection, and good vibes. From sunshine and swimsuits to music and late-night fun, Splash Houston gave them a weekend full of memories.
Overall, Dan and Lacy had an amazing time and are sharing all the highlights, honest moments, and behind-the-scenes stories from their Splash Houston experience.

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Tuesday Talks: Our Friends Play Without Us...Now What? | Episode 111
In this Tuesday Talks episode, a listener shares that she and her husband have a couple they play with regularly — but when that couple recently played with someone else, she found herself feeling left out, hurt, and unsure how to handle it.
Dan and Lacy unpack why these feelings are completely valid, while also explaining that unless there is a polyamorous or exclusive agreement in place, their friends didn’t do anything wrong. In the lifestyle, couples often build close connections while still having the freedom to explore with others.
This episode offers practical advice on managing jealousy, keeping perspective, protecting the friendship, and having an open, honest conversation without placing blame. Dan and Lacy also share how to approach these moments with curiosity instead of insecurity, so one uncomfortable feeling doesn’t turn into unnecessary drama.

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The Sanctuary SLC: Bass Drops, Buffalo & Bad Decisions | Episode 247

In this special bonus episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap their unforgettable trip to Salt Lake City, Utah for the latest Swinger Society takeover at The Sanctuary — a non-monogamy-friendly church unlike anything they’ve experienced before.
The adventure starts with a massive 30-hour road trip across the country before arriving in Utah to explore everything from the surreal pink waters of the Great Salt Lake to spotting wild buffalo roaming the open landscape. But once the weekend festivities begin, things quickly turn up a notch.
From high-energy DJ sets and packed dance floors to late-night connections, hot play sessions, and unforgettable orgies with friends, Dan and Lacy break down all the wild moments, funny stories, and behind-the-scenes chaos from one of the most unique lifestyle events they’ve attended.
Whether you’re curious about The Sanctuary, lifestyle takeovers in unexpected places, or just love hearing raw and hilarious travel recaps, this is one episode you won’t want to miss.

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Tuesday Talks: How to Make the Move from Chat to Play | Episode 110
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy answer a listener question about one of the most common moments couples face: how do you smoothly transition from normal “get to know you” conversation into play time?
Dan and Lacy share their most practical advice for reading the room, building comfort, and remembering that most of the time, everyone is there for the same reason — they may just be waiting for someone to make the first move. They also talk about how the more experienced couple can help lead the way and offer smooth, respectful ways to shift the vibe without making things awkward.
Whether you’re newer to the lifestyle or just want to feel more confident navigating that transition, this Tuesday Talks episode is full of real-world tips to help couples move from conversation to connection with confidence.

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