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Tuesday Talks: How to Shoot Your Shot with Dan and Lacy | Episode 131
Ever wondered what the best way is to approach Dan and Lacy about playing together at a lifestyle event? This week on Tuesday Talks, a listener writes in with that exact question!
Dan and Lacy share what it's really like balancing their roles as event hosts with their personal lifestyle experiences. When they're hosting an event, their schedules are packed, making it difficult to find time to play. But when they're attending someone else's event, the odds might be a little better!
They also offer advice on how to approach them in person, why face-to-face connections are often the best way to get their attention, and why you probably won't find them spending much time chatting on lifestyle apps.
Whether you're hoping to connect with Dan and Lacy or simply want tips on approaching other couples in the lifestyle, this episode is all about making connections, reading the room, and understanding that timing is everything!
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A Weekend of Remembrance: Honoring Brandon of iCandy Events | Episode 267
In this heartfelt episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan reflects on a weekend dedicated to honoring the life and legacy of Brandon from iCandy Events, a beloved member of the lifestyle community whose unexpected passing sent shockwaves through the people who knew and loved him.
While Lacy was unable to attend the celebration of life at Secrets Hideaway due to her son's homecoming, both Dan and Lacy felt it was important that one of them be there to pay their respects and show support for Brandon's family and the community.
Despite organizing similar events within the lifestyle, Brandon and his wife had always welcomed Dan and Lacy with open arms. Rather than viewing them as competition, they offered friendship, encouragement, and even mentorship, demonstrating the kind of unity and support that makes the lifestyle community so special.
Dan shares his experience attending the celebration of life, reconnecting with familiar faces, and coming together with others in the lifestyle to share memories, celebrate Brandon's impact, and honor the connections he built throughout his life.
This episode is a reminder that the lifestyle is about so much more than parties and events. It's about genuine friendships, lasting relationships, and a community that comes together when it matters most.
Join Dan and Lacy as they remember Brandon, reflect on his legacy, and celebrate a life that touched so many.
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- Swinger Society -
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Swinger Society Discord
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Kasadie 90 day free trial
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Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing
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Tuesday Talks: Anal Sex — Pleasure Without the Pressure | Episode 130
This week on Tuesday Talks, a listener writes in with a question for Lacy about her newfound love of anal sex! While she's interested in exploring it herself, she admits that concerns about pain, cleanliness, and simply getting out of her own head have made it difficult to fully relax and enjoy the experience.
Lacy opens up about her own journey from hesitation to enjoyment, sharing what helped her feel more comfortable, confident, and excited about exploring anal play. From preparation and communication to finding the right mindset, Dan and Lacy discuss how to take the pressure off and make the experience more pleasurable.
Plus, Lacy explains why she believes anal pleasure is something worth exploring if you're curious and comfortable giving it a try!
Tune in for an honest, playful, and educational conversation about overcoming fears, discovering new pleasures, and exploring what feels good for YOU!
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- The Swing Nation -
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Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!)
- Swinger Society -
Our Website to meet, connect & events
Swinger Society Discord
Our Facebook Group
- Swinger Websites -
Kasadie 90 day free trial
Username: TheSwingNation
SDC 14 day free trial
Username: TheSwingNation
** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **
SLS
Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl
- Merch & More -
Order Your Merch Here!
- Lacy’s Fun Links -
VIP OnlyFans
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-- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS --
Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone
Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder!
Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing
Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order!
Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex
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From the Pulpit to the Playroom: A Pastor & His Wife Tell All | Episode 266
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy welcome back a former pastor who previously shared his journey into the swinging lifestyle. But this time, he's bringing his wife along to share her side of the story!
Together, the couple opens up about what happened when their involvement in the lifestyle was exposed within their church and eventually to their families. They discuss the emotional fallout, the challenges of navigating judgment and rejection, and what it took to begin rebuilding their lives on their own terms.
In an unexpected twist, they reveal how the swinging lifestyle introduced them to the very things they had always hoped to find within the church: genuine acceptance, unconditional support, and a strong sense of community.
They also discuss their journey into creating content on OnlyFans, the important role therapy has played in their healing and personal growth, and how embracing the lifestyle has helped them become more confident, connected, and comfortable with who they truly are.
This episode goes far beyond swinging. It's a powerful conversation about breaking free from expectations, reclaiming your identity, and discovering that sometimes the most meaningful connections are found in the places you least expect.
Tune in for an honest conversation about faith, relationships, vulnerability, self-discovery, and finding the freedom to live life authentically.
Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures
- The Swing Nation -
Main Website
Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!)
- Swinger Society -
Our Website to meet, connect & events
Swinger Society Discord
Our Facebook Group
- Swinger Websites -
Kasadie 90 day free trial
Username: TheSwingNation
SDC 14 day free trial
Username: TheSwingNation
** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **
SLS
Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl
- Merch & More -
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- Lacy’s Fun Links -
VIP OnlyFans
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-- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS --
Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone
Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder!
Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing
Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order!
Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex
Use Code SwingNation for 5% off!
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Tuesday Talks: Squirting Without the Stress | Episode 129
This week on Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy are answering a listener question about something that can be exciting, unpredictable… and occasionally a little messy: squirting.
The listener explains that she has squirted during sexual experiences before, but she doesn’t feel like it’s something she can completely control. At some lifestyle events, she’s noticed designated play areas specifically for people who squirt in an effort to keep other play spaces a little drier. That leaves her wondering: Can you actually learn to control when you squirt? And if you know you might squirt, are you expected to only play in those designated areas?
Dan and Lacy share their thoughts on navigating squirting in lifestyle spaces, from communicating with play partners and being prepared to understanding your own body and respecting the rules of the venue you’re visiting. They also offer practical tips for making play more comfortable without feeling embarrassed or like you have to avoid certain experiences altogether.
Because sometimes the best way to handle a potentially messy situation is with a little preparation, communication…and a towel nearby.
Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures
- The Swing Nation -
Main Website
Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!)
- Swinger Society -
Our Website to meet, connect & events
Swinger Society Discord
Our Facebook Group
- Swinger Websites -
Kasadie 90 day free trial
Username: TheSwingNation
SDC 14 day free trial
Username: TheSwingNation
** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **
SLS
Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl
- Merch & More -
Order Your Merch Here!
- Lacy’s Fun Links -
VIP OnlyFans
PREMIUM OnlyFans
-- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS --
Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone
Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder!
Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing
Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order!
Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex
Use Code SwingNation for 5% off!
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About The Swing Nation - A Sex Positive Swingers Podcast
The Swing Nation is a podcast by swingers, for swingers, where we look to shed a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like to be a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century. Follow along with this top rated lifestyle podcast on our pineapple journey!
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