Nuance Needed

Why does influencer culture feel so exhausting—for everyone? In this episode, Amanda and Sam get honest about what influencer culture has turned into, why both creators and consumers are burned out, and how algorithms quietly shape our mental health. We get into: How influencer culture shifted from “fun side hustle” to full-blown pressure cooker. Consumer fatigue: when everything starts to feel like an ad and nothing feels real. How constant luxury content messes with expectations, especially during the holidays. The pressure to perform happiness, success, and productivity online—even when real life looks nothing like that. The underrated power of boredom in a world addicted to stimulation. What it looks like to create real boundaries with social media instead of pretending “just logging off” is simple. This isn’t a “delete your apps” episode. It’s a real conversation about balance, authenticity, and how to live a meaningful life in a digital world that’s constantly asking for more of your attention.

In this candid episode, therapists Sam and Amanda discuss Sam's recent experience with a Tiktok going viral. After posting about friendship and flaking culture, Sam faced unexpected backlash leading to a broader conversation about social media, nuance, and connection in today's world. The hosts explore: - How legitimate concerns about accessibility and mental health can sometimes be weaponized to avoid discomfort - The erosion of our collective ability to say "this doesn't apply to me" and keep scrolling - The importance of maintaining friendships despite busy lives and different life stages - Practical ways to maintain connections when you have limited capacity - The difference between genuine barriers to connection and avoidance - How social media has complicated our expectations for socializing - The long-term investment of friendship and why it matters.  If you’d like to support the show one of the best things you can do is leave us a review and share the pod! THANK YOU! We have some incredible BONUS episodes on our SUBSTACK! nuanceneeded.substack.com To learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 42 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area. Want to join the conversation? You can email us [email protected] or LEAVE US A MESSAGE at 813-444-8683. We’d love to hear what you think!

Licensed therapists, Amanda White, LPC and Sam Dalton, LCSW discuss the topic of boundaries and how they are often misconstrued. They explore the difference between boundaries, norms, and expectations, emphasizing the importance of understanding intentions and allowing for mistakes. They highlight the need for nuance and grace in navigating boundaries, both in personal relationships and online interactions. The conversation also touches on the impact versus harm debate and the role of repair in building trust and understanding. In this conversation, Amanda and Sam discuss the importance of flexible boundaries and the dangers of rigid boundaries. They explore the idea that boundaries should be adaptable and considerate of others' boundaries. They emphasize the need for communication and context when setting boundaries, as well as the importance of self-reflection and self-trust. They also discuss the role of vulnerability and the power of articulating why certain boundaries are in place.  If you’d like to support the show one of the best things you can do is leave us a review and share the pod! THANK YOU! We have some incredible BONUS episodes on our SUBSTACK! nuanceneeded.substack.com To learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 42 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area. Want to join the conversation? You can email us [email protected] or LEAVE US A MESSAGE at 813-444-8683. We’d love to hear what you think!

What if estrangement isn't about ungrateful kids—but about parents who can't let go? This week we chat with Whitney Goodman, LMFT to discuss the myths and actual research about estrangement and what all the online discourse is missing. In conversation, we discuss: Why estrangement has become a more common topic in online mental health spaces. The differences between setting boundaries, creating distance, and choosing no contact. How estrangement can bring both relief and grief — sometimes at the same time. How trauma, attachment, and family dynamics influence estrangement decisions. What often gets overlooked when estrangement is discussed in all-or-nothing terms. How to approach these decisions with more clarity, compassion, and flexibility. Whitney is the host of the Calling Home Podcast. You can find more about Calling Home and Whitney on social media @sitwithwhit.  If you’d like to support the show one of the best things you can do is leave us a review and share the pod! THANK YOU! We have some incredible BONUS episodes on our SUBSTACK! nuanceneeded.substack.com To learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 42 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area. Want to join the conversation? You can email us [email protected]. We’d love to hear what you think!

In this Pep Talk with Sam, we're talking about how to actually process your year—without getting swept up in what everyone else says you should feel. In this pep talk, Sam covers: * How collective stress impacts each of us differently (and why groupthink makes us assume we all experienced the same thing) * Permission to admit: some things that devastated others didn't impact you the same way  * Why it's humanly impossible to appropriately process the onslaught of information we get every day * The obsession with making your year either "all good" or "all bad" * How to sit in complexity: multiple realities exist at the same time * Why you can't stay in one emotional state constantly (even if you want to) * The questions to ask yourself: What went well? What surprised you? What challenged you specifically—not what challenged everyone else? This is a Pep Talk with Sam—a shorter solo episode to help you wind down the year with nuance, not pressure. Big thanks to our sponsor Cozy Earth! Use code NUANCE for 40% off your order! If you’d like to support the show one of the best things you can do is leave us a review and share the pod! THANK YOU! We have some incredible BONUS episodes on our SUBSTACK! nuanceneeded.substack.com To learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 42 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area. Want to join the conversation? You can email us [email protected] or LEAVE US A MESSAGE at 813-444-8683. We’d love to hear what you think!