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In this priceless short series, Val & Carol Lynn delve into Carol Lynn's deepest passion: feminism.  Listen is as she delights us with stories about her unforgettable one-woman play "Mother Wove the Morning" and even moves into her amazing actress role and performs 2 of her characters!  
Then join Val & CLP as they talk about another version of 'baptisms for the dead'...the feminist version. You'll love these episodes and likely want to listen many times...they are vintage CLP! 
Timestamps:
00:00 Series Preview
10:53 Creating the Characters
17:57 Bravery and Backlash
28:40 Audience Impact
37:55 A Timely Renaissance
47:42 Notable Venues
56:43 Myths Rewrite the Feminine
01:05:46 War Erases the Feminine
01:13:24 Rachel and the Teraphim
01:22:41 Elizabeth Cady Stanton Speaks
01:35:45 Work for the Dead Reframed
01:43:51 From Patriarchy to Partnership
01:48:11 Where to Watch and Final Goodbye
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In honor of our very beloved Carol Lynn Pearson (a bold, sassy woman and the dearest of mentors to me) I wanted to share this beautiful two-part conversation that we had early in the podcast. Listen in and take in what true wit, wisdom, courage, healthy personal authority and value of one's community looks like all wrapped up in one glorious woman.  
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro and Re-Release
03:29 Meet Carolyn Pearson
10:38 Writing as Calling
15:37 Goodbye I Love You Impact
23:08 No More Goodbyes and Facing East
42:18 Speaking Truth in the Church
48:46 Chakras Into Kingdoms
56:07 Repentance And Forgiveness
01:04:20 Guts Plus Heart Courage
01:11:37 Staying In The Church
01:21:56 Policy Pain And Testimony
01:31:44 Heavenly Mother And Creation
01:41:34 Paradigm Shift to Partnership
01:47:50 Men Dismantling Patriarchy
01:55:57 Writing and Creative Process
02:01:10 Kind and Brave in Marriage
02:11:14 The Love Map and Farewell
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Join Val as her audience while she does a final run through on a topic that has come to be a passion project for her on Latter Day Struggles.  In short, what can we do as faith-expanding people in and around the LDS church to ease the polarization between the fiery fundamentalist Mormon and the fiery Ex-Mormon?  
Oddly enough, these two "poles" exist as counterpoints to one another on the opposite extreme.  If one pole chooses a "third way" balance is disrupted, and growth becomes more likely.  We on the Mormon faith journey may not be able to impact all aspects on the extreme side of Mormon fundamentalism/ orthodoxy...but how we handle our own growth journeys CAN change a LOT.  Listen in and let us know what you think! 
Timestamps:
00:00 Welcome and Sunstone Preview
01:26 Why Polarization Matters
05:20 The Growth Ladder Model
11:05 Healthy Mormon Fusion
14:55 Differentiation and Faith Crisis
19:55 Integration and Inclusion
26:54 When Growth Gets Stuck
27:56 Fixation in Orthodoxy
33:53 Chronic Differentiation Trap
45:58 Breaking the Polarization Dance
48:47 Processing Wisely in Crisis
58:57 Third Way Closing
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Have you ever done something for the first time and feel that pit in your stomach as it approaches?  Well, here at Latter Day Struggles, pretty much EVERYTHING  that we do is a first!  And it always brings that insecure "what have I gotten myself into?" sensation!  
This episode is Val's candid reflections about an evening shared with over a hundred "in person" and "streaming" loved ones who have experienced growth and healing with her.  
A bottom line?  You might be experiencing growth and healing in some way through this podcast and platform.  But you are also giving this gift of healing to Val and Nathan Hamaker.  They thank you and love you.  
Hoping you enjoy Val's thoughts on the gift that this healing community is to her.  Because of you.  
Timestamps:
00:00 Welcome and Event Recap
01:06 Why Stories of Healing
04:25 Origin Story Artwork
06:08 Sharing Beyond the Room
08:19 Event Day Emotions
08:37 Three Audience Groups
13:04 Grief and Perspective Shift
16:56 Program Highlights and Readings
25:40 What It Meant to Me
29:24 Q&A Next Steps
34:24 Closing Gratitude
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Lately there has been a lot of talk about the LDS disaffiliation crisis in the 21st century. Here at Latter Day Struggles we support open dialogue about what happening in our LDS homes and congregations.  
Please enjoy this special "audiobook" addition of a Latter Day Struggles series unpacking some groundbreaking research done by therapist Liz Macdonald exploring common LDS family dynamics shared by young adults whose disaffiliation experiences were the most challenging.  
We care about people all across the spectrum of faith in and around the LDS church.  Taking research like this seriously could profoundly reshape our community in healthy ways. 
Timestamps:
00:00 Welcome
03:54 Meet Liz and The Study
11:48 Method and Study Limits
22:03 Four Key Findings Overview
28:00 Disconnected From Self
52:20 Fear-Based Theology and Parenting
01:02:38 Conditional Love and Worthiness
01:12:42 False Self and Hidden Struggles
01:22:32 One-Way Communication and Fear
01:31:17 Blaming Outside Influences
01:40:20 New Episode Research Overview
01:57:49 Purity Culture and Shame
02:08:05 Adult Development and Compassion
02:20:19 Fear of Selfhood
02:30:25 High Demand Religion
02:44:22 Research Recap
02:52:12 Eight Stages Walkthrough
03:04:59 Parents Threatened by Growth
03:19:13 Fundamentalism and Safety
03:27:20 From Identity to Intimacy
03:34:37 Recommendations and Repair
03:41:27 Closing and Resources
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