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Join us for this one-time-only recording of our FIRST Latter Day Struggles "Live Fellowship"!  

What is this, you ask?  Valerie has decided to offer a gathering place for those on the LDS and surrounding faith expansion journey wanting consistent (2x/month!) connection with her to go deeper into the mind & heart expanding content on both the Monday and Friday tracks of the Latter Day Struggles podcast.  
In this opening gathering, Valerie explored with those in attendance how both The Family Proclamation to the World and the call of Clark Gilbert to the Q12 are reflections of a historical moment and a choice point that all organizations confront as they grow.  The question? 
  Do we adapt to a more connected and pluralistic world that is experiencing an awakening of light and truth? Or do we double down in fear-based conformity? 
This amazing interactive Fellowship Live episode gives you a taste of how your faith journey can move beyond a passive listening experience and towards active healing and connection with other seekers like yourself.   

Jump in now and you can become a founding shaper of the first cohesive and intentional community of individuals whose LDS faith journey was an entry point into their greatest spiritual growth and evolution.  
If you listened and this is for you, jump into the Latter Day Struggles LIVE FELLOWSHIP by clicking on the link below and enroll.  

Timestamps:
00:00 Welcome: Why Seeing Faces Matters 
00:51 Building a Faith-Expansion Community 
02:33 What a "Sangha" Is 
04:14 How the Fellowship Works 
05:23 What This Space Is (and Isn't) 
07:43 Ground Rules: Staying with Growth 
09:28 Why Context Heals 
10:48 The Family Proclamation & Clark Gilbert 
13:57 America and the LDS Church as Parallel Institutions 
15:52 Master Narratives & Threatened Identity 
19:38 Retrench or Adapt: The Choice Point 
27:00 Discussion: Authoritarian Systems vs. Healthy Communities 
32:54 Pocket Communities Over Polarization 
34:08 Seeing the System with Compassion 
37:50 Why Narrative Change Feels Threatening 
40:00 High-Level Language vs. Real-Life Details 
42:42 Moving Beyond Fixed Rules 
46:45 Transcend & Include 
51:37 Rethinking Prophecy 
56:13 Our Role in the Larger Awakening 
01:00:16 Closing: Breakout Groups & What's Next
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Series Title: What does the Family Proclamation Mean to You? [Episode II of II]

This episode of Latter Day Struggles continues a two-part conversation about the LDS Church's Proclamation on the Family, examining the tension between claims of unchanging doctrine and the historical reality of doctrinal evolution.

Petrey demonstrates through historical analysis that LDS teachings on gender, sexuality, marriage, and family have repeatedly changed over time—from positions on interracial marriage and the priesthood ban, to birth control prohibitions, plural marriage, conversion therapy for LGBTQ individuals, and women wearing pants. 
The conversation highlights how church leaders have consistently taught that their current positions were "unchanging doctrine" until those positions eventually changed, creating a pattern that contradicts claims of doctrinal fixity. Petrey offers a constructive framework for understanding doctrine as historically contingent and evolving—consistent with the LDS concept of continuing revelation—rather than eternally fixed. 
The Family Proclamation
Op Ed by Taylor Petrey
Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction and Welcome 
00:19 - Overview of the Proclamation to the Family 
01:19 - Recap: Last Week's Discussion 
01:31 - Defining Doctrine and Authority 
02:08 - What Does 'Doctrine' Mean to Members? 
03:48 - The Salvational Weight of Doctrine 
05:31 - Elder Rasband's Talk and Proclamation Analysis 
09:40 - Historical Changes in LDS Doctrine 
11:41 - Race, Interracial Marriage, and Doctrinal Change 
13:14 - Birth Control and Plural Marriage 
15:11 - History vs. Faith-Promoting Narratives 
17:34 - Redefining Doctrine: Making Space for Change 
20:06 - Conversion Therapy and Evolving LGBTQ Positions 
22:31 - Holding Contradictory Positions Simultaneously 
25:31 - Challenges of Authoritarianism in the Church 
28:09 - Religious Authority Across Denominations 
32:33 - Who Defines History vs. Who Defines Doctrine? 
34:22 - Doctrine as Continuing Revelation 
35:15 - Concluding Thoughts and Future Directions
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Series Title:  What does the Family Proclamation Mean to You? [Episode I of II]

Welcome to this two-part series where Valerie welcomes returned guest scholar Taylor Petrey to discuss the LDS Church's Family Proclamation to the World as it reaches its 30th anniversary.
The heart of the episode centers on Taylor's controversial Salt Lake Tribune opinion piece in September 2025 (linked below) arguing that The Family Proclamation should be understood as commentary rather than revelation or unchanging doctrine. This characterization sparked significant pushback from conservative church members who insisted the document represents eternal, unchanging truth. 
Taylor and Valerie explore the complex and often inconsistent ways that the LDS Church uses terms like doctrine, revelation, policy, and commentary, noting how these categories shift depending on context and speaker. They discuss how the proclamation itself has been reinterpreted over time and set you up for the second part of their conversation where they dive deeply into the changing interpretations themselves. 

The Family Proclamation
Op Ed by Taylor Petrey

Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome
00:11 Discussing the Family Proclamation
01:48 Cultural and Political Context
04:20 Historical Background of Family Proclamations
07:04 The 1995 Proclamation and Its Impact
13:21 Opinion Piece and Public Reaction
24:43 Controversy and Clarifications
27:57 Historical Changes in Church Teachings
28:33 Modern Reinterpretations of Doctrine
30:42 Balancing Eternal Truths and Continuing Revelation
32:58 The Controversy of Words and Authority
36:15 Revelation vs. Policy: A Case Study
38:10 The Fluidity of Revelation
43:45 The Role of Commentary in Church Doctrine
48:20 Setting Up for the Next Episode
51:36 Final Thoughts and Conclusion
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Have you ever listened to a Latter Day Struggles episode and wanted nothing more than to talk about it but no one is around or would understand?  Have you noticed that while your heart is growing faster than ever, your relationships are changing just as fast?  
Val has noticed that this podcast community has served not only to help you make sense of your LDS faith journey but also has created friendship networks that are life enriching in ways no one could have imagined.   
So why not expand our reach and create more places to connect and find healing + community?  

Listen in today for all of the details on the new biweekly LIVE FELLOWSHIP: a place where you go to join live discussions on current podcast topics with Valerie & then make new friends on a healthy LDS faith journey in your own region.  
What could be better?  A few details:  
Join Val for 24 Live Fellowship gatherings a year + recordings if you miss out!
Jump into the FREE Inaugural LIVE Fellowship on 2/18 at 9:30a PST!
All who enroll by 2/28/26 get an extra month tacked onto their annual enrollment, compliments of Val :).  
Already in the Friday Fellowship as an annual member?  Your tuition will be applied towards the upgrade (plus an extra discount!) 
New to all Fellowship Opportunities? Friday Fellowship content is INCLUDED with your annual tuition! 
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
01:12 Announcement of Live Fellowship
01:36 Understanding the Faith Crisis
04:12 Overview of Learning Tiers
04:42 Monday Episodes Explained
06:20 Reframing LDS Doctrine & Theology
08:34 Friday Fellowship Deep Dive
12:30 Transcending & Including Mormonism
14:01 Introduction to Live Fellowship
17:12 Growth and Processing Groups
19:27 Individual Consulting Services
20:30 Why Create the Live Fellowship?
23:50 The Importance of Community
26:10 Forming Side Communities
28:30 Regional Breakout Groups
32:10 Differences: Live Fellowship vs. Depth Groups
34:00 Patriarchy Healing Curriculum
36:08 Logistics and Launch Details
37:00 First Session: Proclamation to the Family
38:30 Second Session: Transcendence & Inclusion
40:00 Recordings & Accessibility
41:00 Scholarships & Faith Journey Foundation
41:37 Final Thoughts and Call to Action
45:10 Ken Wilber Quote on Consciousness
47:30 Individual Transformation & Cultural Change
49:00 Closing Remarks
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In this  episode Nathan & I pause to honor the impact that Ken Glenn had on us at this time of his early and tragic passing.  
In this episode we share many examples that prove that the traditionally believing [Ken] and the… shall we say...less traditionally believing…[us!] LDS can co-exist, when vulnerability, love, and curiosity are chosen over judgment.    We love you Ken.  Thank you for showing us Christ-like love even if you did not fully understand our work.  
Timestamps: 
00:00 Welcome and New Beginnings 
00:53 Transition to YouTube 
02:52 Memorializing a Mentor 
06:17 Ken Glynn's Impact 
09:54 Personal Stories of Ken 
13:16 Ken's Humility and Kindness 
14:14 Early Leadership Challenges 
19:29 Parenting and Church Dynamics 
20:10 Parental Decisions and Church Conflicts 
22:53 Podcast Beginnings and Community Reactions 
24:04 A Touching Tennis Meet Encounter 
29:32 Mission Preparation and Temple Challenges 
40:31 A Heartfelt Tribute to Bishop Ken
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