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Steph Thurling

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Raising Spiritually Strong Kids Without Trying to Control the Outcome with Charles Fay
10/13/2026 | 34 mins.In this episode, Steph talks with psychologist, author, and Love and Logic expert Dr. Charles Fay about raising kids whose faith goes deeper than simply knowing how to behave like a Christian.
Charles shares why spiritually strong kids aren't perfect kids, why faith is ultimately a gift from God, and how parents can nurture faith without trying to control the outcome. They talk about allowing kids to make mistakes while the stakes are still small, holding boundaries with empathy, modeling repentance when we get it wrong, and helping kids learn to depend on God through life's struggles.
They also unpack the temptation to believe in a kind of "parenting prosperity gospel": that if we read the right books, follow the right strategies, and work hard enough, our kids are guaranteed to become faithful adults. Instead, Charles encourages parents to focus on what God has actually called us to do and trust him with the results.
Resources Mentioned
About Charles Fay
Love and Logic Institute
Raising Spiritually Strong Kids book
The Word in our Home
Christmas Gift guide
Carpool Conversations with WinShape Camps
NiRV Question & Answer Bible for Kids
Get your copy of our latest prayer journal Faith in Action: Prayers from James for the Next Generation today!
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Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy- For many Christian parents, sending a child to public school can feel intimidating. Questions about faith, culture, religious freedom, and discipleship often create anxiety. In this episode, Steph sits down with Kori Pennypacker, CEO of Bible2School and author of Backpack Faith, to discuss practical ways parents can prepare their children to confidently follow Jesus in public school.
Kori shares why parents remain the primary disciplers of their children regardless of where they attend school, how Christian students can legally live out their faith at school, and why building relationships with teachers and administrators matters. She also explains why biblical literacy benefits children far beyond their spiritual lives and offers simple ways families can build everyday discipleship into their routines.
Resources Mentioned
Website
Backpack Faith book
Bible2School
Alliance Defending Freedom (ADF)
Liberty Counsel
Christian Parenting School Simplified digital download
(with links to school choice series and more!)
Don't Stress Talking Sex
The Word in our Home
Raising Spiritually Strong Kids
GO Bible
Carpool Conversations with WinShape Camps
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The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org
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Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy - In this episode, therapist and author Sissy Goff joins Steph to talk about what kids really need when they're experiencing loss and how their grief can look very different from ours.
Sissy explains why grief isn't linear, how kids often revisit loss as they grow and reach new developmental milestones, and why behaviors like anger, anxiety, or even risk-taking can sometimes be signs of sadness underneath. She also talks about secondary losses, why consistency and boundaries still matter during hard seasons, and the importance of surrounding our kids with safe, steady adults.
If your family is walking through grief, or you simply want to know how to support your kids when loss eventually comes, this conversation offers practical wisdom, permission to grieve, and the reminder that God is still faithful even in the hardest moments.
Resources Mentioned
Raising Boys and Girls
Daystar Counseling
Helping Kids Through Grief book
Carpool Conversations with WinShape Camps
GO Bible
Faith in Action: Prayers from James for the Next Generation
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Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy - What will heaven actually be like, and how do we talk to our kids about it?
In this episode, I’m sharing a conversation from the Faith & Clarity podcast with Dr. Mark Turman and author Randy Alcorn about his children’s book, Heaven on Earth, and the biblical promise of a new heaven and new earth.
We talk about resurrection, grief, losing loved ones, miscarriage, disabilities, animals, and some of the big questions kids ask about eternity.
If your family has ever wondered what happens after we die, this conversation will help you move beyond the “clouds and harps” picture of heaven and toward the incredible hope Scripture gives us for what is to come.
Resources Mentioned
Eternal Perspectives Ministry
Heaven on Earth book
Denison Forum
Faith and Clarity Podcast
Hands on Bible
Get your copy of our latest prayer journal Faith in Action: Prayers from James for the Next Generation today!
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The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org
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Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy - As we wrap up our discipleship series, we're talking about one of the most important—and often overlooked—parts of raising children who continue following Jesus into adulthood: having meaningful spiritual conversations.
In this episode, Steph talks with Katheryn Saunders, author of Having Spiritual Conversations with Your Kids, about how parents can create safe spaces where children ask honest questions, wrestle with their faith, and ultimately build a relationship with Jesus that becomes their own.
This conversation beautifully ties together everything we've explored throughout the discipleship series. Reading Scripture, praying together, worshiping through music, serving others, and practicing everyday discipleship all become even more powerful when they're accompanied by genuine conversations that help our kids process what they believe and why.
Resources Mentioned:
Having Spiritual Conversations With Your Kids book
Hands on Bible
Thanks-Living: Embracing the Power of Gratitude Every Day
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The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org
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As believing parents, we know how important it is to raise our kids with love and intentionality. We want to give our kids a full picture of God’s love for them every day! But some days, it’s really hard! We are stretched thin, tired, and often feel unequipped. The Christian Parenting Podcast gives parents the space and resources to set aside perfection and grow into the perfectly imperfect parents God made them to be. Join host Steph Thurling and her guests as they discuss practical tips and spiritual guidance for your parenting journey.
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