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Dr. Carla Marie Manly
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  • Imperfect Love

    Optimize Your Brain Power & Vitality: The Ultimate Biohacks

    09/18/2026 | 57 mins.
    We often expect our bodies and brains to operate at peak performance throughout our lives. Yet what fuels us--and what we can get away with--in our first few decades of life doesn't cut it as we get older. In fact, I've discovered that optimal mental and physical health require greater focus and effort with each passing year. So whether you are looking to heal an injury, increase your brain power, train your nervous system for weight loss, boost your resilience, or foster healthy longevity, today's interview with Dr. Scott Sherr, a leading board-certified internal medicine physician who is certified in Health Optimization Medicine, offers empowering news for you. Get the clear, actionable, and research-backed information you need to improve your mental and physical health.

    Topics discussed include health optimization, brain health, energy, resilience, science, longevity, parasympathetic nervous system, sympathetic nervous system, brain fog, hormones, perimenopause, menopause, testosterone, mitochondria, methylene blue, HBOT, PTSD, healing, and fight-flight response.

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/ and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:
    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/
    Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love
    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:
    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend
    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly
    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond
    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:
    Etsy
    Amazon

    Connect with Dr. Scott Sherr:
    Website: https://troscriptions.com/pages/team/dr-scott-sherr
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drsherr
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drscottsherr/

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  • Imperfect Love

    How to Ignite Your Awesomeness!

    09/11/2026 | 43 mins.
    We often expect ourselves to know our true purpose or mission in life. Yet, for even those who know their genuine calling early on, distractions, expectations, and life necessities can get in the way. But sometimes that deep yearning--a strong knowing in the soul--just can't be ignored. Yet it's not always easy to break out of the mold, listen to your inner voice, and set out on a journey of your own. So today, we're joined by Dr. Victoria Rader, healer, guide, and spiritual coach, who will help you discover the love, joy, passion, and infinite possibilities that are waiting just for you. They keys to igniting your soul's calling are just a step away!

    Topics discussed include love, power, purpose, life's calling, destiny, soul mission, compromise, entropy, self-limiting beliefs, disappointment, expectations, quantum physics, emotional freedom, opportunity, fear, change, potential, expansion, contraction, and self-discovery.

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/ and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:
    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/
    Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love
    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:
    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend
    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly
    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond
    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:
    Etsy
    Amazon

    Connect with Dr. Victoria Rader:
    Website: YU2Shine.com
    LinkedIn: Dr. Victoria Rader on LinkedIn
    Instagram: Dr. Victoria Rader on Instagram
    YouTube: Dr. Victoria Rader on YouTube
    Facebook: Dr. Victoria Rader on Facebook

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  • Imperfect Love

    Micro-Moments: Small Habits for Lasting Love

    09/04/2026 | 1h
    Are you constantly yearning for a deeper connection with your partner? Do you tend to feel that your mate is disinterested in what's going on in your inner or outer world? Common issues like these leave many romantic partners feeling dissatisfied with the quality of their intimate relationships. And when parenting, family, and work issues arise, the sense of disconnection can get far worse--and even lead partners into going their separate ways. Yet I've found that many relationships can be resuscitated--and made stronger than ever--when partners invest in mindful emotional connection. Today, we're joined by a top relationship expert, Dr. Laura Gambrel, who will guide us into powerful world of EFT, Emotionally Focused Therapy, to help you get the loving connection you crave!

    Topics discussed include love, relationships, marriage, children, stress, societal messages, emotional availability, emotional connection, secure attachment, attachment style, insecure attachment, avoidant attachment, anxious attachment, compliments, positive reinforcement, shame, curiosity, suffering, individual therapy, self-growth, and couples therapy.

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/
    and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:
    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/
    Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love
    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:
    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend
    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly
    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond
    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:
    Etsy
    Amazon

    Connect with Dr. Laura Gambrel:
    Website: http://www.relational-mindfulness.org/
    LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/gambrel

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  • Imperfect Love

    The Secret to Unshakable Inner Confidence and Self-Worth

    08/28/2026 | 54 mins.
    Are you exhausted from over-giving and over-doing? Do you tend to look to others for validation or lean into people-pleasing behaviors? If so, you're in solid company. From childhood forward, many of us learn to tend to others' needs to feel valuable and worthy. And from my experience, these hardwired habits can foster perfectionism, enmeshment, and dependency--and even open the door to being exploited by thoughtless or self-serving people. Yet I've found that small changes over time can foster the awareness and inner strength you need to create healthy habits and set yourself free. Today, we're joined by a fabulous guest who specializes in helping others gain self-worth from within--instead of from others.

    Topics discussed include emotional outsourcing, perfectionism, self-care, self-love, habit change, midlife crisis, perimenopause, menopause, life changes, role changes, codependency, red flags, neurolinguistics, GABA, boundaries, marriage, children, parenting, healthy relationships, reciprocity, mutuality, and grief.

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/
    and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships
    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.
    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:
    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/
    Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love
    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:
    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend
    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly
    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond
    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:
    Etsy
    Amazon

    Connect with Beatriz Victoria Albina:
    Website: https://beatrizalbina.com/
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp/?hl=en
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/beatrizvictoriaalbina/

    Additional Resources:
    End Emotional Outsourcing: https://beatrizalbina.com/book/

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  • Imperfect Love

    Beyond Betrayal: Untangling the Post-Infidelity Trauma Loop

    08/21/2026 | 58 mins.
    Betrayal by a loved one--especially sexual infidelity--can be one of the most traumatic events a person experiences. And if you've been betrayed by a romantic partner, you know firsthand how devastating the blow can be. In fact, those who are betrayed often find themselves drowning in a sea of endless questions, overwhelming anxiety, and doubt. Despite the trauma they've endured, the betrayed individual often feels pressured to accept a partner's apology, invest in the relationship, and move on. But what if true recovery requires--first and foremost--rebuilding of the self? Today, we're joined by a renowned betrayal trauma specialist and author, Beth Fischer, who is the creator of The Betrayal Trauma Healing Method and The Integrity Journey. Beth will guide us into the art of healing from the deep pain of betrayal.

    Topics discussed include sexual betrayal, emotional betrayal, financial betrayal, infidelity, loss, grief, pain, trauma, PTSD, shame, marriage, relationship\s, intimacy, trust, self-trust, nervous system, dysregulation, betrayer, betrayed, marriage therapy, relationship therapy, individual therapy, healing, divorce, and self-work.

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/
    and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships


    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:
    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/
    Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love
    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:
    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend
    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly
    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond
    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:
    Etsy
    Amazon

    Connect with Beth Fischer:
    Website: https://www.healingwithbeth.com/
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/betrayaltraumahealingmethod/
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@betrayaltraumahealingmethod
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Coach-Beth-Fischer/100088850988627/
    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@healing.betrayal.trauma

    Additional Resources:
    On the Other Side of Pain: Healing After Betrayal: A Gentle Trauma-Informed Guide to Truly Heal Betrayal Trauma and Rebuild Your Life After Infidelity

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About Imperfect Love
The messy road of life is difficult to navigate alone, and it’s often tough to figure out the next best step. Hosted by psychologist and author Dr. Carla Marie Manly, the Imperfect Love podcast sheds light on the complicated, sensitive problems that affect us all. Dr. Carla responds to listeners’ real-life questions with a mindfulness-based approach. She delivers quality, nourishing advice on finding love and happiness by learning to embrace life's imperfections. In supportive conversations with Dr. Carla, you’ll be inspired to cultivate inner joy and create the loving relationships you deserve. With her unique body-mind-spirit focus, she’ll help you create self-love and transform your challenges into growth opportunities. Each episode is an invitation to explore what does and doesn’t work for you. Collectively, the episodes will help you live the life you were meant to live—the life you want to live—right now. Looking to grow and change for the better? Discover and hone the skills that will bring you fulfillment and success. Explore the shifts that will help you create the life of your dreams. Increase your self-esteem as you let go of the fear and perfectionism that feed everything from anxiety and body image issues to people-pleasing. Get unstuck and gain confidence by turning negative messages into fuel for change. Feel the transformation that comes from loving your wonderful, imperfect self. Tired of unsatisfying love relationships? Learn how to attract “perfectly flawed” love that helps you feel seen and respected. Explore love’s highs and lows as you discover how to avoid pitfalls and build emotionally intimate relationships. Discover effective skills for cultivating boundaries, emotional intelligence (EQ), and communication skills to improve your dating life, marriage, or other romantic relationship. Delve into hot topics including narcissism, red flags, toxic patterns, sexuality, apologies, insecure attachment issues, situationships, conflict, trauma, and more. Looking for genuine, supportive friendships? Get the tools you need to create connections with people who understand, accept, and appreciate you. Learn how to let go of unhealthy friends and discover how to build friendships with people who will respect your boundaries and value you for who you are. Struggling with parenting, in-laws, siblings, or other family issues? Explore challenging family dynamics and attachment problems from multiple angles. Master communication strategies and discover how to shift dysfunctional family patterns with mindful love and empathy. Feeling burned out or unsatisfied at work? Investigate the problems that make work feel like a depressing chore. Discover the power of workplace EQ and the importance of work-life balance. Learn to use self-care to avoid burnout and feel passionate about your job. Yearning for respect, equality, and unconditional love? If you identify as a member of the LGBTQIA2S+ community or other marginalized group and have been rejected because of who you are or who you love, you’ll find inclusivity and affirmation. Dr. Carla's platform is welcoming of all sexual orientations and gender identities. Above all, Imperfect Love creates a warm and accepting space for you to reconnect with your inherent goodness, wisdom, and spirituality. Discover the benefits of self-care and healthy mindset shifts to create positive patterns and internal abundance. Embrace effective stress-reduction techniques such as meditation, journaling, and breathwork to reduce anxiety, calm your mind, and take control of your emotions. Manifest the inner joy that allows you to be the very best version of yourself. Enjoy Imperfect Love at http://DrCarlaManly.com. Disclaimer: This podcast is purely educational and is not a replace for professional psychological support. In case of emergency, contact your nearest hospital or emergency hotline such as “911” (US), “999” (UK), or “112” (EU).
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