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Part one of a three-part docuseries deep dive into the best-selling evangelical marriage book, Love & Respect.
THE LOVE & RESPECT DOCUSERIES:
This is a video series, so if you want to watch it in all its glory, head over to https://youtu.be/z3EEAkjwcXA!
To see episodes 2 & 3 when they launch next week, subscribe to the Good Fruit Faith Channel

This podcast delves into the broken logic of Love & Respect, why so many people bought into it, and the truly bizarre nature of what passes for evangelical marriage advice.
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LINKS:
Support Good Fruit Faith
Our paper, Sanctified Sexism
Our one sheet on the problems with Love & Respect

EXPERT INTERVIEWEES INFORMATION:
Chuck DeGroat: https://www.chuckdegroat.net/
Chuck's book, "When Narcissism Comes to Church"
Andrew Bauman: https://andrewjbauman.com/
Andrew's book, "The Sexually Healthy Man" 

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Music Attribution

“In the Dark” performed by BlockBeatz/stock.adobe.com
“Romantic Smooth Rock (O Mundo Gira)” performed by Yummy Tunes/stock.adobe.com
“Gentle Relaxed Smooth Jazz (Soul Power)” performed by Tasty Tunes/stock.adobe.com
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Today I'm talking with Dr. Steven Tracy, author of "To Heal or Harm," about how scripture has been twisted to keep abuse victims trapped. We're diving into passages that discuss things like, "wives submit," "God hates divorce," and "a gentle answer turns away wrath" to show what they actually mean in context. And spoiler alert: none of them tell victims to stay in abuse. If you've ever felt like the Bible was being used against you, or if you're a pastor who wants to understand how to truly help abuse victims, this conversation is essential.

PLUS: A special announcement with Rebecca you won’t want to miss!
TO HEAL OR TO HARM: Get the book here!
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LINKS MENTIONED: 
Mending the Soul website
Reporting on John MacArthur excommunicating Eileen Gray for leaving her abusive husband
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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We're tackling three really problematic things that have happened recently with evangelical leaders that show just how low the bar has gotten for men. From Jonathan Podluka announcing he wants to sleep with multiple beautiful women, to pastors responding to Philip Yancey's affair by saying "it could be any of us," to Tim Challies telling people in miserable marriages to just stick it out until they die—it's all connected to this theology that refuses to hold men accountable and tells women they just need to accept it. The common thread? A theology of male hierarchy that steals intimacy from marriages, justice from victims, and Jesus from people who are hurting.
THE MARRIAGE YOU WANT:
Get our book that corrects this horrible teaching! It's got a study guide and video series too!
Subscribe to the Good Fruit Faith channel for our Love & Respect podcast coming soon!
TO SUPPORT US: 
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
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LINKS MENTIONED: 
Tim Challies' article on if you chose poorly
My article about Philip Yancey
My reel with the clips of Jonathan Pokluda
Sheila's article about Jonathan Podluka’s 2023 sermon, and my new op ed 
Sarah Diefendorf's peer-reviewed article
My recommended books on porn
Our podcast on the
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Today I'm talking with Lydia Grace about her incredible new book, Bible Truth About Women. Lydia grew up in the ultra-conservative IBLP circles and went to seminary to answer her own questions about what the Bible really says about women's roles. What she discovered was shocking: there are ore than 120 misleading tactics that complementarians use to prop up male authority that simply isn't in the original Greek. This is the comprehensive resource we've been waiting for that addresses every major passage about women in one place.
TO SUPPORT US: 
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko Foundation
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LINKS MENTIONED: 
Get Bible Truth about Women by Lydia Kaiser! Kindle available now, or Pre-order the paperback
Bare Marriage podcast playlists for people getting introduced to our podcast

Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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We're kicking off 2026 by teaching you how to think critically about Christian marriage and relationship advice! Rebecca and I walk through some really problematic articles and social media posts - from the Gospel Coalition's piece against therapy to Tilly Dillehay’s tandem bike marriage metaphor - and show you exactly why they make us feel unsafe. We'll teach you how to spot red flags, question who benefits from this advice, and why prioritizing your safety and discernment isn't selfish - it's Biblical.
TO SUPPORT US: 
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko Foundation
Join our email list!
LINKS MENTIONED: 
The Desiring God article on tandem bikes
The Gospel Coalition article on therapy
Our book The Marriage You Want, and the video series that goes with it
The study on followership behaviour

Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.