The Egg Whisperer Show

"Is it possible to become emotionally resilient, so that you can handle all of the things that you face as a fertility patient without feeling overwhelmed and triggered constantly?" I get this question all. the. time, and today I'm excited to have Abbe Feder of Incircle Fertility on to share tips, tricks, and mindset shifts with us!

Tip 1: Be kind to yourself, and know that things like baby announcements, or nosy questions from family members are triggering to many fertility patients. That doesn't make it easier, but it might help to know you're not alone in the feelings. Some of these triggers can come from unexpected places.

Tip 2: To work through triggers: talk about the trigger, acknowledge the trigger, become aware of what triggers you, and then "figure out what works best for you to get past the trigger" when they do come up.

Tip 3: Allow yourself to feel your emotions. Don't push them aside. Find a trusted friend, family member, spouse, partner or coach to help you. They don't have to understand what you're going through, the key is that they are able to listen to you and let you talk.

Abbe Feder is a fertility coach and the founder and CEO of InCircle Fertility. She and her husband host the podcast Maculate Conception, and she is the creator of the (In)Fertility Cards of Affirmation.

We had the pleasure of meeting at a panel with Fertility Rally and I could not be more excited to have her on the show to talk about how to be emotionally resilient during fertility treatment. Today, we're talking about what it means to be a fertility coach, how to find support for your journey, and how to develop more resiliency when facing the ups and downs of being a fertility patient.

You can find Abbe's site for InCircle Fertility here:
https://www.incirclefertility.com/

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The next live class call is on Monday, August 17th at 4pm PST, where Dr. Aimee will explain IVF and there will be time to ask her your questions live on Zoom.
 
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Dr. Aimee Eyvazzadeh is one of America's most well known fertility doctors. Her success rate at baby-making is what gives future parents hope when all hope is lost. She pioneered the TUSHY Method and BALLS Method to decrease your time to pregnancy. Learn more about the TUSHY Method and find a wealth of fertility resources at www.draimee.org.

What if a diagnosis of "unexplained infertility" simply means no one's looked closely enough yet? Two Aimees share their views on how "unexplained" may be a lazy diagnosis that actually requires a deeper dive into what is going on. 
In this episode of The Egg Whisper Show, I sit down with Aimee  Raupp  @AimeeRaupp   bestselling author, fertility expert, and longtime women's health advocate,  to talk about her book Yes, You Can Get Pregnant, and why "unexplained infertility" is often just a lazy diagnosis. We cover everything from joy and nervous system regulation to inflammation, immune dysregulation, ovarian PRP, and the daily habits that actually move the needle on fertility outcomes, no matter your age.
✅️In this episode, we cover:
- Why joy, pleasure, and nervous system regulation directly impact hormones and egg quality
- The real reasons behind the diagnosis "unexplained infertility" and why it's rarely actually unexplained
- The four pillars behind PCOS, POI, endometriosis, and repeat implantation failure
- Key labs to request before starting IVF or egg freezing
- Daily lifestyle shifts (sunlight, sleep, nutrition, endocrine disruptors) that support fertility
- Ovarian PRP and rejuvenation: what the research actually shows
- How to build a "no regret" fertility plan with your care team
🎯Resources
Aimee Raupp's website: aimeeraupp.com
Yes, You Can Get Pregnant by Aimee Raupp (revised edition for 2026, now available)
Aimee Raupp on Instagram and TikTok
Dr. Aimee's Fertility Essentials
Join The IVF Class with Dr. Aimee
Read the full show notes on Dr. Aimee's website
Do you have questions about IVF? Click here to join Dr. Aimee for The IVF Class.
The next live class call is on Monday, August 17, at 4 pm PST, where I'll explain IVF and Egg Freezing and answer your questions live on Zoom.
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Dr. Aimee Eyvazzadeh is one of America's most well-known fertility doctors. Her success rate at baby-making gives future parents hope when all hope is lost. She pioneered the TUSHY Method and BALLS Method to decrease your time to pregnancy. Learn more about the TUSHY Method and find a wealth of fertility resources at www.draimee.org.

In this episode of The Egg Whisperer Show, I'm joined by Stefanie Bonnell, a licensed therapist who specializes in perinatal loss and trauma, and Dr. Dana McQueen, a reproductive endocrinologist with a focus on recurrent miscarriage and endometriosis. Together, we dive into one of the most heartbreaking experiences in reproductive health: miscarriage, and talk about how to support healing both emotionally and physically.
Stefanie shares her own personal story and the insights she's gained as a therapist supporting others through loss. Dr. McQueen brings her clinical perspective on the testing and treatment options available after a miscarriage. We discuss how miscarriage can impact mental health, relationships, and decision-making in future fertility care. This conversation is an honest, compassionate, and deeply informative guide for anyone navigating life after pregnancy loss or supporting someone who is.
In this episode, we cover:
What it's like to experience miscarriage—and how to process the grief
When and how to begin testing after miscarriage
The emotional toll of loss and how to find therapeutic support
The importance of validating all forms of grief, including early loss
How to advocate for yourself and build a support team for the journey ahead
Read the full show notes on Dr. Aimee's website

Do you have questions about IVF? Click here to join Dr. Aimee for The IVF Class.
The next live class call is on Monday, August 17, at 4 pm PST, where I'll explain IVF and Egg Freezing and answer your questions live on Zoom.
Other ways to connect with me:
Visit my YouTube channel for more fertility tips
Subscribe to the newsletter to get updates
Join Egg Whisperer School
Request a Consultation with Dr. Aimee

Dr. Aimee Eyvazzadeh is one of America's most well-known fertility doctors. Her success rate at baby-making gives future parents hope when all hope is lost. She pioneered the TUSHY Method and BALLS Method to decrease your time to pregnancy. Learn more about the TUSHY Method and find a wealth of fertility resources at www.draimee.org.

I love sharing the latest studies with you. I'm so excited to interview Dr. Blake Evans on the Egg Whisperer Show podcast today to share his published findings about testicular sperm and IVF outcomes. Testicular sperm (or sperm taken from the testicle as opposed to ejaculated sperm) in some cases may improve the rate of blastocyst development and pregnancy rates for those who have first tried IVF unsuccessfully with ejaculated sperm.
I'm delighted to have Dr. Evans on the podcast to share his findings, and to talk about what you can do to optimize sperm quality and increase your own IVF success rates.
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Dr. Aimee Eyvazzadeh is one of America's most well known fertility doctors. Her success rate at baby-making is what gives future parents hope when all hope is lost. She pioneered the TUSHY Method and BALLS Method to decrease your time to pregnancy. Learn more about the TUSHY Method and find a wealth of fertility resources at www.draimee.org.

In this episode of The Egg Whisperer Show, I explain Preimplantation Genetic Testing for Aneuploidy (PGTA) and share the seven essential steps to help you test your embryos wisely. I outline how to approach PGTA efficiently so you can feel more informed and empowered in your fertility journey. This episode offers practical advice for anyone considering PGTA before embryo transfer.
In this episode, we cover:
Step 1: Plan for multiple retrievals if needed
Step 2: Understand that embryo quality still matters
Step 3: Be prepared for inconclusive results
Step 4: Get clarity on mosaic and segmental embryos
Step 5: Review embryo disposition consent forms carefully before you start
Step 6: Know that PGTA screens only for chromosomes—not all genetic issues
Step 7: Be aware that abnormal pregnancies can still happen
Read the full show notes on Dr. Aimee's website

Do you have questions about IVF? Click here to join Dr. Aimee for The IVF Class.
The next live class call is on Monday, July 13 at 4 pm PT, where I'll explain IVF and Egg Freezing and answer your questions live on Zoom.
Other ways to reach Dr. Aimee:
Visit my YouTube channel for more fertility tips
Subscribe to the newsletter to get updates
Join Egg Whisperer School
Request a Consultation

Dr. Aimee Eyvazzadeh is one of America's most well-known fertility doctors. Her success rate at baby-making gives future parents hope when all hope is lost. She pioneered the TUSHY Method and BALLS Method to decrease your time to pregnancy. Learn more about the TUSHY Method and find a wealth of fertility resources at www.draimee.org.