The Egg Whisperer Show

I am talking to the incredible Victoria Nino, author of Our Hearts Match, donor conception advocate, and mom of two about one of the most vulnerable moments in a fertility journey: what happens after IVF fails.
 
Victoria has lived through multiple failed IVF cycles, stage three endometriosis, years of heartbreak, and ultimately became a mother twice over through donor egg conception via two very different paths. Her story is raw, honest, and full of the kind of hard-won wisdom that only comes from truly living it.
 
We dive deep into the emotional rollercoaster of failed IVF cycles, the grief that so often goes unacknowledged, and what it really takes to open the door to donor eggs, not out of defeat, but out of empowerment. Victoria shares how education, community, and even a spiritual trip to Thailand helped her find her footing, and why she believes you don't have to be 100% emotionally ready, you just have to be willing to take a peek.
 
In this episode, we cover:
 
The grief of failed IVF cycles and why it deserves to be treated like any other profound loss
The emotional tipping point between exhaustion and openness when considering donor eggs
The difference between fresh and frozen donor eggs including cost, timeline, and access
What an open donor relationship looks like and why Victoria wishes she'd had it from the start
How epigenetics and bonding science can help shift your perspective on the mother-child relationship
Overcoming shame, fear of judgment, and the "am I the real mom?" question
Why Victoria's one regret is that she didn't do it sooner and what she'd tell anyone in the "what now" moment right now
 
Resources:
 
Victoria Nino on Instagram: @expectinganything
Victoria's website: expectinganything.com
Victoria's support groups & classes: Infertility Unfiltered | @infertilityunfiltered
Donor Nexus (frozen & fresh egg donation with open relationship options): https://www.instagram.com/donor.nexus/
Book: Our Hearts Match by Victoria Nino
Book: What Makes a Baby by Cory Silverberg
The Egg Whisperer Show on YouTube and Spotify
 
My Book, The Egg Whisperer Way comes out in Spring of 2027. Click here to order your copy.
Do you have questions about IVF?
Click here to join Dr. Aimee for The IVF Class.
The next live class call is on Monday, September 14, 2026 at 4pm PST, where Dr. Aimee will explain IVF and there will be time to ask her your questions live on Zoom.

Click to find The Egg Whisperer Show podcast on your favorite podcasting app.
 
Watch videos of Dr. Aimee answer Ask the Egg Whisperer Questions on YouTube.
 
Sign up for The Egg Whisperer newsletter to get updates
 
Dr. Aimee Eyvazzadeh is one of America's most well known fertility doctors. Her success rate at baby-making is what gives future parents hope when all hope is lost. She pioneered the TUSHY Method and BALLS Method to decrease your time to pregnancy. Learn more about the TUSHY Method and find a wealth of fertility resources at www.draimee.org.

Read the full show notes: https://www.draimee.org/from-patient-connection-to-policy-change-advancing-fertility-amp-ivf-care-in-the-u-s-with-guest-kaylen-silverberg-md
 
In this episode of The Egg Whisperer Show, I'm thrilled to welcome Dr. Kaylen Silverberg, medical director and managing partner at Texas Fertility Center, co-founder of Ovation Fertility, and a leading advocate for patients navigating IVF and reproductive medicine in the United States. Dr. Silverberg shares his journey from aspiring heart surgeon to passionate fertility specialist, and how his deep connections with patients inspired him to bridge the gap between clinical care and national policy change.
 
Watch this episode on YouTube.
 
In this episode, we cover:
 
Dr. Silverberg's personal journey from heart surgery to reproductive medicine
The power of patient stories in influencing national policy and lawmakers
The mission and current legislative efforts of Americans for IVF
Recent changes and proposals to make fertility medications and IVF more affordable
The impact of bipartisan advocacy and the importance of building relationships with representatives
Advances in endometriosis research and its effect on fertility
The promise and limitations of genetic testing in IVF
How listeners can get involved in advocacy and make their voices heard
 
Resources:
 
Texas Fertility Center: https://www.txfertility.com
Americans for IVF: https://americansforivf.org
Resolve: The National Infertility Association: https://resolve.org
American Society for Reproductive Medicine: https://asrm.org
Dr. Silverberg's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lets_talk_about_fertility/
Subscribe to The Egg Whisperer Show on YouTube and Spotify
Join Dr. Aimee's IVF Class at The Egg Whisperer School
Learn About Dr. Aimee's Fertility Essentials
🎓 Curious about IVF or egg freezing?
 Join me for The IVF Class on September 14 to get a clear understanding of the process and your options.
Other ways to stay connected:
Subscribe to my YouTube channel
Sign up for my newsletter
Join Egg Whisperer School
Book a consultation
 
Dr. Aimee Eyvazzadeh is one of America's most well-known fertility doctors. Her success rate at baby-making gives future parents hope when all hope is lost. She pioneered the TUSHY Method and BALLS Method to decrease your time to pregnancy. Learn more about the TUSHY Method and find a wealth of fertility resources at www.draimee.org.

Have you ever wondered how much of the conventional wisdom about fertility and pregnancy is actually backed by science, and what myths might be holding you back from making your best decisions on your journey? In this episode, I'm busting fertility myths with Emily Oster, an economist, bestselling author, and professor at Brown University, known for bringing data-driven insights to pregnancy, parenting, and fertility. Emily is the author of Expecting Better, Crib Sheet, The Family Firm, and The Unexpected, and the creator of ParentData.org, a trusted platform that helps readers make informed decisions with clarity and confidence.
In this episode, we cover:
Whether you really need to give up alcohol completely while trying to conceive
What the research actually says about caffeine and fertility
How much room for error there is when it comes to timing sex for conception
The truth about stress and its impact on fertility outcomes
Data-backed guidance on when to see a fertility specialist
Why the "28-day cycle with ovulation on day 14" is a myth and what normal cycle variability looks like
What the data really says about age-related fertility decline  and why you're not falling off a cliff at 30 or 35
Resources:
Read the full show notes on Dr. Aimee's website
ParentData website
Emily Oster on Instagram
Subscribe to The Egg Whisperer Show on YouTube
🎓 Curious about IVF or egg freezing?
 Join me for The IVF Class on September 14 to get a clear understanding of the process and your options.
Other ways to stay connected:
Subscribe to my YouTube channel
Sign up for my newsletter
Join Egg Whisperer School
Book a consultation
Dr. Aimee Eyvazzadeh is one of America's most well-known fertility doctors. Her success rate at baby-making gives future parents hope when all hope is lost. She pioneered the TUSHY Method and BALLS Method to decrease your time to pregnancy. Learn more about the TUSHY Method and find a wealth of fertility resources at www.draimee.org.

In this episode of The Egg Whisperer Show, I'm joined by Dr. Brooke Winner, a board-certified OB/GYN and fellowship-trained minimally invasive gynecologic surgeon. We dig into fibroids and endometriosis—two of the most common conditions that can affect fertility. Dr. Winner sheds light on when these issues need surgical intervention, highlights the benefits of minimally invasive procedures, and discusses how to manage symptoms while supporting reproductive health.
In this episode, we cover:
How fibroids and endometriosis can impact fertility, implantation, and IVF outcomes
The signs, symptoms, and most effective diagnostic approaches for both conditions
When surgery is recommended and the advantages of minimally invasive techniques
What to expect during recovery and how to prepare your mind and body
Patient advocacy tips for navigating care and finding personalized treatment options
Read the full show notes on Dr. Aimee's website

Find Dr. Brooke Winner's website here
Do you have questions about IVF? Click here to join Dr. Aimee for The IVF Class.
The next live class call is on Monday, September 14 at 4 pm PST, where Dr. Aimee will explain IVF and Egg Freezing, and there will be time to ask her your questions live on Zoom.
Other ways to follow Dr. Aimee:
Visit my YouTube channel for more fertility tips
Subscribe to the newsletter to get updates
Join The Egg Whisperer School
Request a Consultation with Dr. Aimee

 
Dr. Aimee Eyvazzadeh is one of America's most well‑known fertility doctors. Her success rate at baby‑making gives future parents hope when all hope is lost. She pioneered the TUSHY Method and BALLS Method to decrease your time to pregnancy. Learn more about the TUSHY Method and find a wealth of fertility resources at www.draimee.org.

In this episode of The Egg Whisperer Show, I'm joined by Dr. Karen Tang, a renowned gynecologist and advocate for women's health. With over 15 years of experience, Dr. Tang specializes in endometriosis, fibroids, chronic pelvic pain, menopause, and gender-affirming care. She is the founder of Thrive Gynecology in Philadelphia, where she provides expert care to patients nationwide.

Dr. Tang shares insights from her new book, It's Not Hysteria: Everything You Need to Know About Your Reproductive Health, which educates and empowers women by dispelling myths and addressing common issues like endometriosis, PCOS, and fibroids. The discussion also delves into systemic barriers in healthcare, the importance of self-advocacy, and practical tips for making the most of your doctor's visits.
Read the full show notes on Dr. Aimee's website.
Get Dr. Tang's book: https://us.macmillan.com/books/9781250894151/itsnothysteria/
Visit Dr. Tang's website: https://thrivegyn.com/
Dr. Aimee's Fertility Essentials: https://www.draimee.org/fertility-essentials
 
Do you have questions about IVF?
Click here to join Dr. Aimee for The IVF Class.
The next live class call is on Monday, September 14 at 4pm PST, where Dr. Aimee will explain IVF and there will be time to ask her your questions live on Zoom.
 
Click to find The Egg Whisperer Show podcast on your favorite podcasting app.
 
Watch videos of Dr. Aimee answer Ask the Egg Whisperer Questions on YouTube.
 
Sign up for The Egg Whisperer newsletter to get updates

 Dr. Aimee Eyvazzadeh is one of America's most well known fertility doctors. Her success rate at baby-making is what gives future parents hope when all hope is lost. She pioneered the TUSHY Method and BALLS Method to decrease your time to pregnancy. Learn more about the TUSHY Method and find a wealth of fertility resources at www.draimee.org.