Sisters In Sobriety

Creativity isn’t just a hobby—it can be a sobriety tool, a self-care practice, and a way back to the parts of ourselves we forgot. In this episode of Sisters in Sobriety, Sonia and Kathleen explore how play, journaling, memory keeping, and hands-on creativity can help women rebuild identity and joy after alcohol. Sonia is joined by Amy Tangerine, a designer, author, creative director, memory keeper, and founder of a colorful creative brand that has inspired hundreds of thousands of people to reconnect with imagination, craft, and permission to play.

The conversation opens up the question of what happens when drinking used to be the “play hard” part of life—and what it means to redefine fun in sobriety. Sonia and Amy talk about childhood creativity, cozy hobbies, scrapbooking, junk journaling, reading, Legos, collecting, and why many adults dismiss the very activities that once made them feel alive. They also explore how high-achieving women can struggle to do something without measuring it, monetizing it, or turning it into another task.

Amy shares how creative flow can become a grounding practice, especially for people who feel anxious, overworked, disconnected, or unsure of who they are without alcohol. The episode covers memory keeping, analog journaling, vision boards, tactile creativity, pen-to-paper reflection, creative self-care, inner child work, and the difference between creating for an outcome versus creating for the process. Amy also talks about “taking your rage out on the page,” using journaling to process emotions, and building small systems that make creativity possible in 10- to 15-minute pockets.

In the personal story segment, Amy opens up about being raised by immigrant parents, her early love of stickers, crayons, journals, and magazines, her transition from fashion into scrapbooking, and the burnout that pushed her to rethink success. She also shares the deeply personal role vision boards played during her miscarriages, how creativity helped her imagine and accept a different version of family, and how manifesting, aligned action, and self-belief shaped her life.

This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our substack for extra tips, tricks and resources.

 

Highlights

00:00 Welcome to Sisters in Sobriety with Amy Tangerine
01:00 Amy’s earliest creative sparks: crayons, stickers, journals, and crafts
02:00 From fashion design to scrapbooking and memory keeping
03:00 The Hello Kitty journal that started Amy’s diary practice
04:00 Why Amy blended memoir and guidance in Craft a Life You Love
05:00 Why hobbies matter more than people think
06:00 Taking 15 minutes for creativity without explaining it to anyone
07:00 Amy’s immigrant parents and the freedom to follow what made her happy
09:00 Creativity as a way to design a more intentional life
10:00 Creative flow, harmony, and coming back to yourself
11:00 Collage as comfort during family stress and grief
13:00 Redefining play when drinking used to be the recreational hobby
14:00 Returning to the activities that brought joy in childhood
15:00 Sonia on rediscovering reading in sobriety
16:00 Legos, collecting, and childhood hobbies as adult comfort
18:00 Junk journaling and the return to analog creativity
20:00 What happens emotionally when people enter a playful state
21:00 Giving yourself permission to create in small pockets of time
23:00 Letting go of metrics, productivity, and the pressure of an end product
25:00 Pen-to-paper journaling versus digital memory keeping
27:00 Balancing AI tools, metrics, and the need for handwriting
30:00 What memory keeping really means
31:00 “Take your rage out on the page” as emotional release
34:00 Pickleball, anger, and accessing different parts of the self
35:00 Simple ways to incorporate photos, planners, and everyday memories
37:00 Why memory keeping does not have to be chronological
39:00 Vision boards, self-belief, and “what I desire is what I deserve”
42:00 Manifesting, higher power, and aligned action
47:00 Amy’s products, printables, stickers, and ways to get started creatively

Amy's Links
 
http://www.amytangerine.com/
https://www.instagram.com/amytangerine/
 

SIS Links

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Sonia sits down with psychiatrist Dr. Daniel Hochman for a candid, nuanced conversation on addiction, recovery, and what actually works in the real world in this episode of Sisters in Sobriety. Daniel Hochman, is a board-certified psychiatrist and creator of Self Recovery, an online program helping people address substance and behavioral addictions through a science-based, psychologically informed approach that prioritizes privacy, agency, and emotional understanding.

The conversation explores the limits of traditional recovery models, including where 12-step programs can feel outdated or incomplete, and why concepts like “powerlessness” may actually undermine long-term change. Sonia and Dr. Hochman dig into questions around agency vs. external control, whether addiction is a disease or learned behavior, and how approaches like urge surfing, emotional regulation, and behavioral strategies fit into recovery. They also examine the role of medication like Antabuse and naltrexone, the rise of alternative recovery models, and how high-achieving individuals experience addiction differently.

Dr. Hochman reframes addiction as a response to “intolerable emotions,” highlighting how anxiety, dissatisfaction, and internal conflict can quietly drive addictive behaviors. He introduces a practical framework—moving from underlying distress to cravings to action—and explains how different “points of attack” can interrupt that cycle. 

As the conversation unfolds, Sonia shares her own experience navigating sobriety outside of traditional systems, including her curiosity about the 12 steps and her journey into emotional sobriety.

The episode shifts into a more personal exploration of identity—especially for high achievers whose self-worth is tied to performance—and what it looks like to rebuild a sense of self without alcohol. Through this lens, recovery becomes less about restriction and more about rediscovery, experimentation, and learning how to sit with discomfort rather than escape it.

This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our substack for extra tips, tricks and resources.

Highlights

[00:00] Introduction to Dr. Daniel Hochman and Self Recovery
[01:00] Why willpower isn’t enough in addiction recovery
[02:00] What a psychiatrist actually does in addiction treatment
[03:00] Early exposure to rehab systems and gaps in care
[04:00] Problems within the addiction treatment industry
[05:00] The role of untrained providers in recovery spaces
[06:00] Sonia’s experience exploring the 12 steps
[07:00] “Powerlessness” and the problem with vague frameworks
[09:00] Locus of control and reclaiming agency in recovery
[12:00] Why vague advice like “try harder” doesn’t work
[14:00] What traditional recovery models get right—and wrong
[16:00] Why addiction science hasn’t been fully integrated into AA
[18:00] Addiction as a response to underlying emotional distress
[20:00] Trauma, boredom, dissatisfaction, and hidden drivers
[22:00] The “current” model: from pain to craving to action
[24:00] Urge surfing and behavioral tools for early sobriety
[26:00] Why deep emotional work shouldn’t come first
[28:00] Limitations of CBT and surface-level therapy
[30:00] Inside the Self Recovery program framework
[33:00] Sobriety vs. moderation: choosing your own path
[36:00] Medications in recovery: Antabuse vs. naltrexone
[41:00] High achievers, identity, and addiction patterns
[45:00] Rebuilding a sense of self beyond achievement
[49:00] Rediscovering hobbies, curiosity, and joy in sobriety
[51:00] One simple awareness practice to start changing behavior

Dr. Hochman's Links

Self Recovery's Website: https://www.selfrecovery.org/

Self Recovery's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/selfrecoveryhealth/

SIS Links

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Sonia sits down with Jeremy Lipkowitz to unpack addiction, dopamine, and the hidden patterns behind compulsive behaviors—from alcohol to everyday habits.

They dive into the questions most people avoid: What actually drives compulsive behavior? Why does dopamine keep us chasing more instead of feeling satisfied? How do perfectionism, shame, and high achievement intersect with addiction? And what happens when we swap one coping mechanism for another—alcohol for work, porn, social media, or even productivity? They also explore how habits quietly escalate and how identity becomes entangled in addiction.

Jeremy breaks down neuroplasticity and how repeated behaviors wire the brain, reinforcing cycles of craving and avoidance. He reframes dopamine as the chemical of wanting—not pleasure—and explains how this fuels the loop of desire. The conversation introduces tools like urge surfing, mindfulness, and creating space between stimulus and response, alongside a deeper look at emotional avoidance, shame, and the “hungry ghost” cycle of never feeling like enough. They also demystify meditation—what it actually is, and how to practice it without perfection.

The episode also traces Jeremy’s personal turning point—from a high-achieving student battling insecurity and compulsive behaviors to discovering meditation and a new definition of fulfillment. As Sonia reflects on her own patterns in real time, the conversation becomes a powerful example of what it looks like to pause, notice, and choose differently.

This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks and resources.

TIME-STAMPED HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 – Introduction to Jeremy Lipkowitz and his work in addiction recovery
01:30 – Jeremy’s early struggles with insecurity and addiction
03:45 – Realizing the path he was on wasn’t leading to happiness
06:15 – Why success didn’t translate into fulfillment
08:00 – Neuroplasticity and how habits shape the brain
10:30 – Dopamine explained: wanting vs. liking
12:45 – How addiction escalates over time
14:30 – Addiction as emotional avoidance
16:10 – Why we struggle with boredom and discomfort
17:45 – Identity and shame in addiction
20:00 – Rationalizing harmful behaviors
21:30 – Addiction as a universal pattern
23:00 – The “dry drunk” concept and root causes
24:30 – Healthier vs. harmful coping mechanisms
26:00 – Recognizing subtle compulsions
28:15 – What urge surfing is
31:00 – Creating space before reacting
34:00 – Building mindfulness as a skill
37:00 – Meditation myths and perfectionism
41:30 – Different types of meditation
45:00 – Mindfulness in everyday life
49:00 – Perfectionism as addiction
52:00 – The “hungry ghost” mindset
55:30 – Sonia’s real-time habit awareness
58:30 – Learning to sit with boredom
01:02:00 – Why abstinence can help moderation
01:06:00 – How subtle habits take hold
01:09:00 – Finding freedom from external validation

Jeremy's Links

Podcast: https://unhooked.buzzsprout.com/
Website: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/
 
SIS Links

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Inflammation is at the root of so many modern health struggles—but what if the way we approach it is completely backwards? In this episode of Sisters in Sobriety, Sonia sits down with Dr. Shivani Gupta—Ayurvedic practitioner, functional health expert, and author of The Inflammation Code—to explore a radically personalized approach to healing. Sonia guides listeners through how inflammation shows up in daily life, how stress and lifestyle habits quietly fuel it, and how Dr. Gupta’s “Elemental Design” framework helps decode each person’s unique health blueprint.

The conversation dives into how different body types respond to stress, food, and alcohol, and why a one-size-fits-all wellness plan often fails. Questions unfold around how mental inflammation contributes to physical disease, how gut health connects to energy and mood, and why sleep, circadian rhythm, and daily rituals may matter more than the latest health trend. The episode also explores the real impact of alcohol on gut permeability and inflammation, and how habits like late-night eating, blue light exposure, and chronic stress quietly disrupt the body’s natural healing processes.

Throughout the episode, Dr. Gupta introduces key concepts like chronic low-grade inflammation, bio-individuality, and the connection between the microbiome and overall health. She explains how ancient Ayurvedic principles align with modern science—from circadian rhythm optimization to the role of super spices like turmeric in reducing inflammation. The discussion weaves in practical insights on improving sleep hygiene, supporting the gut microbiome, managing cortisol, and using simple daily rituals—like tea, breathwork, or structured routines—to regulate the nervous system and reduce inflammation at its source.

As the conversation unfolds, Dr. Gupta shares her deeply personal journey—from growing up between Western medicine and Ayurvedic traditions to a turning point that led her to reject overmedication and seek root-cause healing. That experience sparked decades of study and ultimately shaped her mission to bring ancient healing wisdom into modern life in a practical, accessible way. The episode closes with a powerful reminder that healing doesn’t require perfection—it starts with small, intentional shifts that bring the body back into balance.

This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our substack for extra tips, tricks and resources.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Shivani Gupta and The Inflammation Code
02:00 Growing up between Western medicine and Ayurveda
03:00 The breaking point with overmedication and antibiotics
04:30 Discovering Ayurveda and root-cause healing
06:00 Turmeric and the science behind super spices
08:00 What “Elemental Design” means for your health
10:00 Understanding Vata, Pitta, and Kapha body types
12:00 How different constitutions experience inflammation
14:00 Autoimmune conditions and personalized health patterns
17:00 Circadian rhythm and its role in inflammation
18:30 How sleep impacts detoxification and healing
20:00 Building a realistic sleep routine
22:00 Ideal sleep environment and temperature
23:30 Common mistakes with turmeric and anti-inflammatory diets
25:00 Chronic inflammation and modern lifestyle stressors
27:00 Supplements vs. whole foods: what actually works
31:00 What is “mental inflammation”?
33:00 Stress, burnout, and disease connection
35:00 Gut health, microbiome, and daily habits
37:00 Alcohol’s impact on gut health and inflammation
40:00 How different body types respond to alcohol
43:00 Tools for relaxation without alcohol
47:00 The most important first step: prioritizing sleep

 

Dr. Shivani's Links

www.shivanigupta.com
IG: @dr.shivanigupta

SIS Links

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Addiction, astrology, and emotional healing take center stage in this episode of Sisters in Sobriety, as Sonia sits down with humanistic astrologer Jessica Lanyadoo. Together, they unpack how addiction isn’t just about substances—it’s about emotional patterns, coping mechanisms, and the ways we abandon ourselves. Jessica brings a grounded, no-nonsense approach to astrology, helping Sonia explore how tools like astrology, community, and self-awareness can support sobriety and long-term healing.

What role does emotional regulation play in addiction? Can astrology reveal patterns behind compulsive behaviors or anxiety? How do dopamine-driven habits like scrolling or shopping mirror substance use? Sonia and Kathleen guide the conversation through big questions around fate vs. free will, the psychology of addiction, and whether spiritual tools—like astrology—can become coping mechanisms themselves. The discussion also explores the complexities of recovery spaces, including the benefits and challenges of 12-step programs, shame, and accountability.

The conversation weaves together concepts like harm reduction, emotional processing, and the neuroscience of addiction. Jessica introduces the idea that addiction is often rooted in an inability to tolerate feelings, rather than a lack of willpower. She breaks down how different types of anxiety and coping behaviors can manifest, and how misdiagnosis—both psychologically and personally—can keep people stuck. The idea of “momentum” becomes a powerful framework: how addictive behaviors build quickly, while healing and self-connection require slower, intentional practice.

Through personal reflections, Sonia shares moments from her own sobriety journey—navigating divorce, resisting the urge to drink, and recognizing how other behaviors can mimic addiction. The episode shifts into a deeper, more vulnerable space as they explore recovery tools like AA, the concept of “dry drunk” vs. true sobriety, and the emotional weight of making amends. Jessica offers a nuanced take on “living amends,” boundaries, and why healing doesn’t always require direct reconciliation—sometimes it requires protecting yourself while still taking accountability.

This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our substack for extra tips, tricks and resources.

Highlights

00:00 – Introduction to Jessica Lanyadoo and her humanistic approach
01:15 – What humanistic astrology actually means
03:00 – Addiction beyond substances: emotional and behavioral patterns
05:30 – Astrology’s perspective on different types of addiction
08:15 – Dopamine, escapism, and modern-day addictive behaviors
09:30 – Can astrology become a coping mechanism?
10:45 – Is addiction fate or free will?
12:30 – Physiological vs. emotional components of addiction
14:00 – Different types of anxiety and how they show up
16:30 – Misdiagnosis and why some treatments don’t work
17:45 – The concept of momentum in addiction vs. healing
19:00 – “Dry drunk” vs. true sobriety
20:00 – Why AA works (and why it doesn’t for everyone)
22:00 – Shame, community, and healing in recovery spaces
24:00 – The complexity of group dynamics in AA
26:30 – Boundaries, triggers, and navigating recovery communities
28:00 – The truth about making amends
29:30 – What are “living amends”?
31:30 – Trauma, safety, and when not to reconnect
34:00 – Self-abandonment and taking personal accountability

 

Jessica's Links

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SIS Links

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