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Sonia Kahlon and Kathleen Killen
Sisters In Sobriety
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  • My Sober Dating Diary Pt2 - Bath Bombs To Boundaries
    We're diving into part two of my sober dating diary—a real-life story that involves a cute date, an unexpected trip to a cannabis shop, and a bath bomb that turned into a major wake-up call.Dating after divorce is awkward enough. But when you're sober—and your date casually suggests a relaxing soak in a "CBD" bath—you learn pretty quickly who respects your boundaries and who treats your sobriety like a buzzkill. I also share:The truth about "California sober" and why it doesn't work for meHow people-pleasing and old patterns can sneak back in, even after years of sobrietyWhy I walked away and what it taught me about owning my sobriety, unapologeticallyThis story is for anyone who's ever compromised a little too much to seem “chill,” or needed a reminder that you're allowed to have boundaries—and you're allowed to walk away when someone crosses them.✨ Your sobriety isn’t just “okay”—it’s powerful, it’s valid, and it deserves to be honored.🔔 Like, comment, and subscribe for more stories from the sober dating trenches, plus tips, real talk, and radical honesty every week.📬 Want more? Head to sistersinsobriety.substack.com for behind-the-scenes content, journal prompts, and community support.Highlights[00:00] First dates after divorce—applying mascara for the first time in years and meeting someone who doesn’t drink [01:10] When a park stroll turns into a casual detour to a cannabis shop (um, red flag?) [01:55] What “California sober” really means—and why it’s not part of my recovery [02:50] The power of “playing the tape forward” and how it helps me avoid old traps [04:00] He says it’s just a CBD bath bomb. I ask (repeatedly) if it has THC. He says no. [05:10] Ten minutes into the tub and I’m feeling like a human gummy bear [06:00] The bold print truth: Delta-8 THC. And a sinking feeling—literally. [06:45] Why I ignored my instincts to be the “cool girl”—and what it cost me [07:45] The moment I knew I’d never see him again (and why that mattered) [08:20] Sober dating isn’t just about tolerance—it’s about respect, celebration, and self-trustLinks💌 Sisters In Sobriety Substack – where the magic (and the mocktail recipes) happen📬 Sisters In Sobriety Email📸 Sisters In Sobriety Instagram🌐 Kathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcast📸 Kathleen’s InstagramSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sisters-in-sobriety/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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  • The Truth About Sober Dating, Sex, and Love - WE TURN THE TABLES
    This week on Sisters in Sobriety, Sonia and Kathleen turn the tables on their popular mini-series about sober dating, sex, and relationships. After hearing from past guests on what dating without alcohol looks like, the sisters are sitting down to answer the same ten questions themselves. From green flags and red flags to playlist picks and sober date ideas, they’re bringing personal reflections, and honest takes.How do you navigate dating someone who drinks when you don’t? What’s the go-to answer when someone asks why you’re not drinking? And how do you build connection without the lubrication of alcohol? Sonia and Kathleen unpack the real-life challenges and unexpected joys of dating while sober.Find out why communication and emotional regulation are the new sexy, how to set boundaries around alcohol in relationships, and how to create connection without compromising sobriety. The episode also explores cultural norms around drinking, coping strategies for first sober dates, and what "choosing each other" really means in long-term partnerships.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks and resources.Episode Highlights[00:01:10] Sonia’s power washer as a symbol of freedom post-divorce[00:02:30] Setting the scene for the mini-series wrap-up: 10 questions revisited[00:04:00] Kathleen's first sober date: a nuanced look at alcohol vs. drug sobriety[00:05:45] Dating someone who drinks—how Kathleen navigated early discomfort[00:07:15] Caitlin’s story: being 90 days sober and her date ordering her favorite drink[00:08:45] NA beer and whether it fits into Sonia’s sober lifestyle[00:09:30] Food and body issues on early dates—what Ally Shapiro shared[00:10:25] What do you say when someone asks why you don’t drink?[00:11:15] The challenge of drinking cultures within a partner’s family[00:12:45] Green flags: emotional regulation, curiosity, and thoughtful check-ins[00:15:00] Red flags: love addiction, criticism, and white lies[00:17:50] Favorite sober date ideas: hiking, kayaking, concerts, and coffee[00:19:30] Advice for your first sober date: have a plan, tell someone, and stay present[00:21:00] How much drinking is too much in a partner? Setting comfort levels[00:22:15] Alcohol in the house—yes, no, or it depends?[00:23:15] Who do you call after a fight or a great first date? (Hint: it’s not always your sister)[00:24:30] The breakup playlist that kept them going—hello, Florence + the Machine[00:26:15] From "dicked down in Dallas" to Taylor Swift: the love life soundtrack[00:28:00] “I used to think love was a fairytale, now I know it’s a choice.”[00:30:15] Romantic love is conditional—and why that’s actually a good thingLinks💌 Sisters In Sobriety Substack – where the magic (and the mocktail recipes) happen📬 Sisters In Sobriety Email📸 Sisters In Sobriety Instagram🌐 Kathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcast📸 Kathleen’s InstagramSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sisters-in-sobriety/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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  • When Sisters Heal Together With Karin and Patti Clark
    In this episode, Sonia and Kathleen are joined by sisters Patti and Karin Clark for a conversation about breaking the cycle of intergenerational addiction and reclaiming personal identity. Patti is an award-winning author whose books blend emotional sobriety and self-reflection, and Karin is a counselor and educator with decades of experience in trauma and addiction recovery. Together, the sisters reflect on how their upbringing shaped them—and how recovery allowed them to rewrite their own stories.We talk about the roles we unconsciously play in dysfunctional families—hero, rebel, mascot—and how these survival strategies can carry into adulthood, often laying the groundwork for addiction, codependency, and emotional suppression. And we tackle some big questions: How do family dynamics influence substance use? Can breaking generational trauma actually stop the cycle? What happens to sisterhood when sobriety enters the room?Patti and Karin share personal stories of relapse and reconciliation, how their relationship as sisters evolved through recovery, and the beautiful ways their sobriety has rippled through their families. You'll hear about the grief and rage they had to walk through in order to reach forgiveness—not just for others, but for themselves. Their shared journey highlights what happens when we name the truth, do the work, and choose connection over silence.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Episode Highlights (Timestamps)[00:02:00] Patti shares a tribute to Karin’s steady presence after their mother’s death[00:03:45] Karin explains family roles and the origin of the “hero” label[00:05:00] Patti opens up about being the mascot and diffusing family tension with humor[00:07:45] A painful memory of being compared at the dinner table[00:08:30] Food as a first addiction and internalized shame[00:10:15] Karin outlines the family role model (hero, scapegoat, lost child, mascot)[00:11:00] Both sisters share how their roles shifted over time[00:13:30] Roundtable discussion: Which family role is most prone to addiction?[00:15:00] The hidden addiction behaviors that often go overlooked[00:17:30] Patti and Karin reflect on their first experiences with substances[00:20:00] Karin recalls when drinking shifted from fun to fear[00:22:00] Patti describes the subtle but powerful interventions that helped her quit[00:26:00] Tracing addiction and denial through both sides of the family tree[00:29:00] The myth of the “poor Patty and Karen” narrative within the family[00:30:15] How their sisterhood changed through recovery and ACOA work[00:33:30] Relapsing, boundaries, codependency, and coming back together[00:36:30] Karin and Patti explain the emotional dynamics of their old arguments[00:39:00] The cultural addiction of capitalism and constant productivity[00:41:30] When relapse happens: fear, enabling, and permission[00:44:00] “Safe drinking” lies we tell ourselves in the gray area[00:46:00] Did we break the cycle? Parenting, legacy, and sober modeling[00:49:00] Creating a new lineage of openness, healing, and choice[00:51:30] What does forgiveness really look like in recovery?[00:53:00] Patti explains the danger of skipping grief and going straight to forgiveness[00:54:30] Karin shares how compassion helped her process resentment[00:56:00] Forgiveness doesn’t always mean reconciliation[00:57:30] Closing reflections on sisterhood, healing, and sharing the toolsConnect with Patti ClarkWebsite: www.patticlark.orgSubstack: https://patticlarkwriter.substack.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfahpJhfHNNHUqtIjR39OdQConnect with Karin ClarkFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/KarinClarkCommunicationsWebsite: www.karineclark.comEmail: [email protected] Links💌 Sisters In Sobriety Substack – where the magic (and the mocktail recipes) happen📬 Sisters In Sobriety Email📸 Sisters In Sobriety Instagram🌐 Kathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcast📸 Kathleen’s InstagramSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sisters-in-sobriety/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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  • How to Trust Your Intuition With Julie Reisler
    What if the wisdom you’re searching for has been with you all along? In this episode of Sisters in Sobriety, Sonia and Kathleen are joined by master transformational coach Julie Reisler to explore the quiet, powerful force of intuition—and how it can guide your recovery, self-trust, and authentic living. Julie is a TEDx speaker, host of the You-est You® Podcast, and founder of the Life Designer® Coach Academy. Julie helps people around the world reconnect with their higher self.What does it really means to become the You-est You? Why do so many of us feel disconnected from our intuition—and how do we begin to rebuild that trust, especially after life changes like divorce, addiction recovery, or hitting emotional rock bottom?Julie walks listeners through the difference between fear and intuitive guidance, how we can all access our unique “intuition language,” and the power of two-way prayer, evidence tracking, and journaling as tools for emotional healing. With practical tools and real-life examples, this conversation unpacks how to integrate mind-body-spirit wisdom, how intuition supports recovery from addictive patterns (like emotional eating), and how to make decisions that align with your true self—especially when logic tells you otherwise.Julie opens up about her own story—from childhood sensitivity and food addiction to spiritual awakening and leaving a stable corporate job to follow her inner voice.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tools, and resources to support your growth.Time-Stamped Highlights00:01 – Meet Julie Reisler and learn about the You-est You® philosophy00:02 – Julie’s childhood: sensitivity, imagination, and early intuition00:04 – Growing up with a father in addiction and how that shaped her energy awareness00:05 – The early signs of self-loathing and disconnect from intuition00:06 – Her recovery journey begins with sugar and food addiction00:08 – How food became a way to soothe emotions and hide shame00:10 – The pivotal moment that changed everything (and the bag of M&Ms)00:12 – Julie’s exposure to 12-step programs as a child00:14 – How Overeaters Anonymous and spiritual reading reshaped her path00:16 – Returning to school and integrating science and spirituality00:18 – Leaving corporate life and entering Panera Bread: a surprising intuitive detour00:21 – Following the nudges: voiceover classes and synchronicity00:23 – The cost of disconnecting from your voice in marriage and dating00:27 – Defining intuition: is it a voice, a knowing, or a feeling?00:30 – How to tell the difference between fear, anxiety, and real intuition00:33 – Building self-trust through two-way prayer and intuitive journaling00:36 – Evidence tracking: gathering proof that your intuition has been guiding you00:39 – When intuition contradicts logic (and why that’s OK)00:41 – Asking for signs and using muscle testing to check your inner YES00:44 – A real-time example of intuition: how Julie ended up at a film festival00:45 – What to do when your intuitive knowing disrupts your plans00:46 – Julie’s heartfelt advice for women in transition00:47 – The megaphone to your heart—why everything you’re looking for is already withinLinks:Website: juliereisler.comInstagram: @juliereislerMore from Sisters in Sobriety:💌 Sisters In Sobriety Substack – where the magic (and the mocktail recipes) happen📬 Sisters In Sobriety Email📸 Sisters In Sobriety Instagram🌐 Kathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcast📸 Kathleen’s InstagramSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sisters-in-sobriety/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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  • How to Ditch Dating Drama with Carleigh Ferrante
    This week on Sisters in Sobriety, Sonia and Kathleen are diving deep into the wild world of dating—minus the drinks. They're joined by Carleigh Ferrante, host of the Mostly Dating podcast. Carleigh talks about what it really means to date with intention, honesty, and clarity—especially when you're sober. From starting over after a long-term relationship to swiping through the chaos of dating apps, they're talking about it.Together, they explore how to spot emotional availability, navigate red flags, and decode whether your new connection is fueled by real chemistry. They ask big questions like: Can attraction grow? How can you tell if someone’s emotionally mature or just really charming? How long should you “get to know” someone before deciding to be exclusive? And what does flirting even look like when you’re sober?You'll walk away with tangible, empowering insights like how to start meaningful conversations on dating apps, how to plan sober-friendly first dates, and how to protect your peace when things don’t go as planned. Carleigh shares practical tips for setting physical and emotional boundaries, flirting without alcohol, and recognizing when someone just isn’t your person—even if nothing seems “wrong.” You'll also learn how to gauge emotional maturity versus availability and the importance of aligned values in long-term compatibility.On a personal note, Sonia and Kathleen open up about their own dating experiences and reflect on what it felt like to date sober for the first time, and how vulnerability, awkwardness, and self-awareness reshaped their views on intimacy and connection. Carleigh adds her own behind-the-scenes stories from dating app disasters to moments of surprising self-growth.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Time-stamped Highlights[00:01:00] Carleigh Ferrante joins the show to talk all things dating [00:02:00] Sonia and Kathleen share their contrasting Bumble experiences [00:04:00] Carleigh’s go-to formula for dating app openers that actually work [00:05:00] First date ideas for sober daters that don’t involve bars [00:06:30] Where to meet people in the wild (yes, even at the Garden Center) [00:08:00] Why small talk with strangers helps your dating life [00:10:00] Sonia’s AA house call—and why she prefers women’s recovery groups [00:11:00] What to ask early on to gauge someone’s dating mindset [00:13:00] How to talk about your ex without trauma-dumping [00:16:00] Should you discuss your values on a first date? Here’s how [00:18:00] Can attraction grow—or does it have to be instant? [00:21:00] Why ‘secure’ might feel boring if you’re used to chaos [00:23:30] Emotional availability: what it looks like and how to spot it [00:25:00] The difference between emotional maturity and availability [00:27:30] Sonia’s boyfriend used to sing through hard conversations—literally [00:29:00] How to talk about the future without scaring someone off [00:31:00] Why the “getting to know you” phase should never really end [00:33:00] Dating rules vs. personal boundaries—what really matters [00:36:30] Love bombing vs. real connection: how to tell the difference [00:39:00] How dating changes when you're sober—and why that's a good thing [00:41:00] Sober dating and physical boundaries: what becomes clearer [00:43:00] Flirting without alcohol: presence, confidence, and compliments [00:47:00] How Kathleen dated for fun—and why that mindset worked [00:48:00] How to protect your peace when someone ghosts you [00:50:00] Your person won’t leave you on read—trust that [00:51:00] Signs it’s not right, even if it’s not “wrong” [00:53:00] Carleigh’s new course and how to find her contentLinksCarleigh's Instagram💌 Sisters In Sobriety Substack – where the magic (and the mocktail recipes) happen📬 Sisters In Sobriety Email📸 Sisters In Sobriety Instagram🌐 Kathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcast📸 Kathleen’s InstagramSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sisters-in-sobriety/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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You know that sinking feeling when you wake up with a hangover and think: “I’m never doing this again”? We’ve all been there. But what happens when you follow through? Sonia Kahlon and Kathleen Killen can tell you, because they did it! They went from sisters-in-law, to Sisters in Sobriety. In this podcast, Sonia and Kathleen invite you into their world, as they navigate the ups and downs of sobriety, explore stories of personal growth and share their journey of wellness and recovery. Get ready for some real, honest conversations about sobriety, addiction, and everything in between. Episodes will cover topics such as: reaching emotional sobriety, how to make the decision to get sober, adopting a more mindful lifestyle, socializing without alcohol, and much more. Whether you’re sober-curious, seeking inspiration and self-care through sobriety, or embracing the alcohol-free lifestyle already… Tune in for a weekly dose of vulnerability, mutual support and much needed comic relief. Together, let’s celebrate the transformative power of sisterhood in substance recovery! Kathleen Killen is a registered psychotherapist and certified coach based in Ontario, Canada. Her practice is centered on relational therapy and she specializes in couples and working with individuals who are navigating their personal relationships. Having been through many life transitions herself, Kathleen has made it her mission to help others find the support and communication they need in their closest relationships. To find out more about Kathleen’s work, check out her website. Sonia Kahlon is a recovery coach and former addict. She grappled with high-functioning alcohol use disorder throughout her life, before getting sober in 2016. Over the last five years, she has appeared on successful sobriety platforms, such as the Story Exchange, the Sobriety Diaries podcast and the Sober Curator, to tell her story of empowerment and addiction recovery, discuss health and midlife sobriety, and share how she is thriving without alcohol. Your sobriety success story starts today, with Kathleen and Sonia. Just press play!
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