142. Krista’s Search for a Kidney: A Story of Resilience, Courage and Holding Onto Hope
How do you stay hopeful when your life turns upside down?In this raw, compassionate conversation, sisters Krista Merkley and Laurie Bruce open up about polycystic kidney disease (PKD), stage 5 kidney failure, the search for a living donor, and the real work of holding on to hope.We talk about what resilience really looks like, not the everyday version, but the kind you find when you’re facing 10% kidney function, dialysis waiting in the wings, and learning to ask for help, even when it’s hard to find the courage to do so.Krista shares how she navigates fear, fatigue, grief, and uncertainty…with radical acceptance, gratitude, and humour (yes…including an orange cat who always knows when to cuddle). Her sister, Laurie, shares the emotional side of watching someone you love go through something you can’t fix.This is a story of resilience, not because everything is okay, but because they keep showing up anyway.If you’ve ever faced something you didn’t choose and wondered how to keep hoping, this episode will meet you right where you are.Content Note:This episode includes discussion of chronic illness and kidney failure. It’s a tender, emotional conversation, so please check in with yourself and listen in a way that feels supportive for you.Meet My Guests: Krista Merkley and Laurie BruceKrista Merkley is a South Huron, Ontario resident whose journey with Autosomal Dominant Polycystic Kidney Disease (PKD) has recently progressed to Stage 5 kidney failure. With her kidney function now critically low, she is actively searching for a living donor and sharing her story, not only for herself, but to highlight the many Canadians hoping for the same chance at restored health. Despite the physical and emotional demands of her condition, Krista continues to work in the learning and development field, bringing the same steady resilience into her professional life that she carries through life.At www.Kidney4Krista.com, Krista shares her experience with openness, humility, and a quiet determination that has resonated widely. Her mission extends far beyond finding her own donor - she aims to demystify living kidney donation, foster informed conversation, and help others understand the meaningful impact one donor can make. Krista’s story is ultimately about resilience, community, and the hope that when people are informed, they’re better equipped to take thoughtful, courageous action.Laurie Bruce is Krista’s sister. Unable to donate herself, Laurie has embraced the role of advocate, helping to share Krista’s story, build understanding, and make learning about living kidney donation feel accessible rather than intimidating. Laurie invites others to “be part of the team” by helping to share Krista’s story, learning more about the urgent need for living kidney donors in Canada.Connect with Krista & Learn More:Ask confidential questions or explore becoming a donor: London Health Sciences Center 1-519-663-3552 - no obligation, just information.Learn more about Krista, PKD or Living Kidney Donation:www.kidney4krista.comConnect with Krista on social media: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/kidney4krista.ca/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/p/Kidney4Krista-61555401882150/Watch, Like and Share the short documentary on living donation featuring Krista and anonymous donor Wency:A Big Ask ?Paired exchange kidney donation program: https://www.blood.ca/en/organs-tissues/living-organ-donation/kidney-paired-donation• Register to become a donor or check your registration status: https://beadonor.ca/If this episode touched your heart, please help us to increase awareness and share Krista’s story. Every share helps. 💛Here’s how you can connect with Brenda Jasmin:Email:
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