'Outwitting the Manipulator’ Authors Robin Golinski & Dennis Becker
Evan is joined by communication experts Dr. Dennis Becker and Robin Golinski, co-authors of 'Outwitting the Manipulator.' The episode delves into recognizing and responding to manipulation in real-time, particularly within the context of high-conflict divorces and everyday relationships. Topics include common manipulation tactics such as gaslighting and love bombing, managing post-divorce parenting, and the significance of premarital counseling. The podcast also features a discussion on handling manipulation from leadership in the workplace and offers practical advice for those dealing with manipulators. The episode concludes with the fun segment 'They Said It,' where Evan and guests analyze famous quotes related to manipulation.
More on Robin & Dennis at https://www.outwitinrealtime.com/
Find Outwitting the Manipulator: The Podcast at https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/outwitting-the-manipulator/id1644706232
Topics
02:39 Holiday Struggles During Divorce
05:48 Co-Parenting During the Holidays
11:18 Life After Divorce: Remarriage and Moving On
13:06 Overrated or Underrated: Fun and Legal Topics
24:06 Interview with Dr. Dennis Becker and Robin Golinski
36:51 Understanding Manipulative Personalities
37:34 Can Manipulators Change?
38:15 Manipulation Tactics in the Workplace
39:29 Mastering Skills to Handle Manipulation
43:11 Manipulation in High Conflict Divorces
44:17 Communicating with a Manipulative Ex
47:06 Spotting Manipulation in Legal Cases
59:09 Quotes on Manipulation
01:04:32 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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‘Strung Out’ Author Erin Khar
Evan dives into the complexities of divorce and addiction with featured guest Erin Khar, author of 'Strung Out'. The episode covers Erin's personal journey through a 15-year heroin addiction, her approach to recovery, and her advice on navigating relationships plagued by substance abuse. The conversation also touches on broader societal issues, such as the stigma around addiction and the flawed family court system. Listeners will find practical advice on handling the holiday season amidst divorce, the nuances of parental alienation claims, and thoughts on cultural phenomena like Taylor Swift. The episode concludes with an engaging segment featuring quotes from notable figures and a lively discussion on the underrated cranberry sauce.
Topics
00:15 Divorce and the Holiday Season
05:26 AI Relationships and Legal Challenges
12:04 Overrated or Underrated: Pop Culture Edition
23:14 Interview with Erin Khar: Addiction and Recovery
36:15 Addressing Skeptical Senators on Harm Reduction
36:47 The Economic Argument for Medicated Assisted Treatment
39:05 Personal Reflections on Writing a Memoir
40:40 The Dichotomy of Heroin Use
43:39 The Unwinnable War on Drugs
45:41 Advocating for Harm Reduction and Community Support
50:51 Balancing Advice and Personal Experience
52:51 Lessons from Beverly Hills 90210
54:40 Changing the Language Around Addiction
56:31 Parenting and Personal Accountability
01:14:05 The Importance of Sharing Your Story
01:19:36 Final Thoughts and Reflections
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'You, Your Husband & His Mother' Author Dr. Tracey Dalgleish
In Episode 93 of The Schein On Podcast, Evan talks to Dr. Tracey Dalgleish, a clinical psychologist and relationship expert, to discuss her latest book, 'You, Your Husband and His Mother.' The conversation delves into the intricacies of the relationship triangle between husbands, their wives, and mother-in-laws. Tracey provides actionable advice for couples aiming to strengthen their marriage while managing familial boundaries. The episode also touches on significant issues such as the current state of divorce law, the value of farmers' markets, and the communal joy of fantasy sports leagues. Additionally, listeners get treated to the engaging 'Overrated/Underrated' and 'They Said It' segments, making for a well-rounded and insightful episode.
Topics
00:33 Exploring Divorce Dynamics with Dr. Tracey Dalgleish
02:47 The Impact of Equal Custody Laws
08:42 Overrated or Underrated
25:08 Navigating Boundaries with Family
26:26 Practical Tools for Tough Moments
28:25 Personal Struggles and Professional Insights
30:12 The Power of Vulnerability in Therapy
34:01 Shifting Perspectives on Marriage and Divorce
35:27 Balancing Professional and Personal Life
38:53 Advice for Couples in Therapy
42:58 Co-Parenting After Divorce
44:42 Reflecting on the New Book
46:48 Fun Segment: They Said It
52:34 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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'A Soulful Marriage' Author Rachel Glik
Evan welcomes Dr. Rachel Glik, a relationship specialist and author of 'A Soulful Marriage.' Dr. Glik shares insights on maintaining healthy marriages, the misconceptions about love, and her personal experiences that inspired her book. The episode also includes fun segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It,' where the hosts debate pumpkin spice lattes, reality dating shows, and the wisdom of quotes from famous personalities.
Topics
00:30 Fall Season and Football Talk
01:52 Birthday Wishes and Aging Secrets
02:33 Exciting Episode Preview
03:33 Diving into the Docket: Trophy Husband
04:03 Discussion on Income Disparity in Marriages
10:29 Overrated or Underrated: Rebound Relationships
12:51 Overrated or Underrated: Co-Parenting Apps
15:03 Overrated or Underrated: Board Games
16:33 Overrated or Underrated: Reality TV Dating Shows
20:15 Overrated or Underrated: Pumpkin Spice Everything
23:34 Introduction to Dr. Rachel Glik
24:10 Inspiration Behind 'A Soulful Marriage'
25:42 Challenges in Relationships
28:16 The Importance of Physical Intimacy
29:43 Misconceptions About Love
31:24 Early Marriage Counseling
39:21 The Role of Quantum Physics in Relationships
40:49 The Relevance of Marriage Today
44:15 Impact of 'A Soulful Marriage'
46:58 Fun Segment: They Said It
52:19 Conclusion and Where to Find the Book
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Decoding Modern Romance with Bela Gandhi
Evan concludes the summer with a compelling episode featuring Bela Gandhi, founder of the Smart Dating Academy. They explore themes around modern dating, the impact of online dating, and the process of finding love post-divorce. Bela shares her journey from a career in business to becoming a renowned dating coach, offering invaluable insights on dating logistics, recognizing red flags, and debunking common myths. The episode also features discussions on the financial and emotional tolls of divorce and includes engaging segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It.'
Topics
00:31 Reflecting on the End of Summer
01:31 Exploring Modern Romance with Bela Ghandi
02:33 Diving into Divorce Trends
08:02 Weaponized Incompetence in Relationships
11:12 Overrated or Underrated: Divorce and Beyond
21:55 Interview with Bela Ghandi Journey and Insights
30:18 Blending Love and Compatibility
30:48 Generational Perspectives on Love
31:37 Unexpected Career Paths
32:19 The Role of Chemistry in Relationships
32:48 Modern Dating Challenges
34:20 The Paradox of Choice in Online Dating
35:51 Dating During and After Divorce
39:44 Debunking Dating Myths
44:53 Psychological Insights into Dating
53:14 The Impact of Politics on Relationships
54:27 Final Thoughts and Advice
The podcast that explores high-profile divorces and much more. From Attorney Evan Schein and Berkman Bottger Newman & Schein LLP. Evan Schein is a partner with the firm and leads the firm’s litigation practice. More info at www.berkbot.com. A production of pod617.com, the Boston Podcast Network.