Not Yet Now with Zach Dasher

After a much-needed sabbatical, Zach and Jill return to the Not Yet Now podcast reflecting on rest, family rhythms, and what it means to unplug from the “matrix.” From there, the conversation moves deep into Mark 10:32–45—a passage that radically redefines power, glory, and greatness in the Kingdom of God. As Jesus walks resolutely toward His own suffering and death, James and John ask for seats of honor in His glory. What follows is a stunning collision between the kingdom of man and the kingdom of God. Zach and Jill explore how humanity’s instinct for power and position clashes with Jesus’ vision of dominion through service, authority through sacrifice, and glory through the cross. This episode wrestles honestly with ambition, leadership, discipleship, and the deep longing to live a life that matters—while exposing the lie that fulfillment is found in control or status. Instead, Jesus offers a different way: the cruciform life, where greatness is found in serving, and true dominion looks nothing like domination. A rich, pastoral, and deeply theological conversation about power, suffering, glory, and what it really means to follow Jesus in the way of the Kingdom.

Catching up, a little joking around—before landing in one of Jesus’ most uncomfortable encounters. Zach, Jill, and Brandon step into the story of the rich young ruler, a man who runs to Jesus with sincerity and urgency, asking how to inherit eternal life. What Jesus gives him isn’t a checklist—it’s an invitation. We talk through why wealth so easily becomes a rival kingdom, what Jesus is doing with the image of a camel and a needle, and why “hundredfold now—with persecutions” isn’t fine print but the reality of following Him. Eternal life isn’t something we acquire later; it’s knowing the King and aligning our lives with Him now. And as always, Jesus leaves us with the paradox we can’t escape: the first will be last, and the last first.

In a world brimming with challenges for young men, we invite you to join a heartfelt conversation with my three sons – Max, Bear, and Fred – as we discuss the serious issues they face today, just days before Christmas. This special episode dives deep into important topics such as the dangers of pornography and the pressures of social media, as well as the allure of video game addiction. As Max prepares for his upcoming wedding, we reflect on the profound lessons learned about responsibility and the importance of surrounding oneself with wise influences. Bear shares his thoughts on the challenge of staying true to oneself amidst societal expectations, while Fred – our youngest – provides insight into navigating friendships and the transition from homeschooling to public school. We keep it raw and real, sharing stories and perspectives that emphasize the importance of open communication and the need for young men to stand firm in their faith and values. Our aim is to foster understanding and strength in our sons as they grow into the men God has called them to be. This Christmas special is not just about celebrating the season; it's about connecting through love, reflection, and the lessons we learn as a family. So grab your favorite holiday treat, cozy up with us, and listen in as we share our experiences and insights on raising young men in an ever-changing world. ✨ Merry Christmas and Happy New Year from the Dasher family!

Get ready to feel the magic of the season as we celebrate the unforgettable moments from the Black Mtn Christmas Parade! In this episode, we reflect on our festive entry with a Dolly Parton twist, how traditions foster unity, and what it means to embrace the holiday spirit together.  As we connect these experiences to our faith, we explore the significance of Jesus welcoming children and the lessons they teach us about receiving the Kingdom of God with open hearts. Listen as we share insights on parenting, the challenge of embodying our beliefs in daily life, and the magic of child-like wonder that makes this season truly special. Tune in for laughter, warmth, and a reminder that it’s the simple connections that matter most!

What are the two biggest threats to marital bliss? Sex and money often spark the fiercest conflicts in marriage. In this episode, we delve into these serious issues, exploring how financial stress can impact intimacy and how to navigate covenant fidelity amidst societal pressures and the realities of divorce. But it’s not all serious—get ready to laugh as we recount our wild ride through the chaotic moments of married life! From memorable grocery store altercations over brand-name vs. generic products that humorously escalated into a four-day debate to the realities of wedding expenses, we share personal stories that highlight the rollercoaster of merging lives. Listeners will gain valuable insights into understanding God's design for marriage and the importance of commitment. This episode, filled with humor and heartfelt discussions, is perfect for anyone navigating the early days of marriage or reflecting on their journey. Tune in for a candid conversation that embraces the complexities of married life, anchored in faith and purpose.