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Did you use to fly with ease, but now the mere thought of an airplane cabin triggers intense panic and heart palpitations? The problem might not be the flight itself—it could be your hormones. In this episode of the Lovefly Podcast, we sit down with former NHS nurse and specialized Menopause Coach Caroline Milne to pull back the curtain on the hidden biological link between perimenopause and sudden travel anxiety. Discover how fluctuating oestrogen and progesterone levels steal your brain's natural ability to stay calm, why it leads to "catastrophizing" on flights, and how you can take control of your nervous system to travel freely again. What you’ll learn in this episode: The science of how a drop in progesterone directly sparks sudden, midlife anxiety. Why physical symptoms like hot flushes are frequently misidentified by the brain as flight panic. Unusual signs of perimenopause you probably haven't heard of (tinnitus, joint pain, and formication). The exact step-by-step lifestyle changes—from hydration to strategic breathwork—that eliminate brain fog and anxiety. What "postmenopausal zest" is and why there is massive hope for the future.

Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: The Unexpected Link Between Hormones & Fear of Flying 02:15 - Meet Caroline Milne: From NHS Nurse to Menopause Coach 04:45 - The Truth About Perimenopause: 34 to 90 Symptoms Explained 08:20 - The Chemistry of Panic: How Progesterone, GABA, and Estrogen Control Your Calm 12:10 - Brain Fog & The New Onset Fear of Flying and Driving 15:40 - Tools for Relief: Nervous System Regulation & Breathwork 19:15 - Holistic Recovery: Hydration, Diet, and Setting Boundaries 22:30 - What is Postmenopausal Zest? Light at the End of the Tunnel #FearOfFlying #PerimenopauseAnxiety #MenopauseSupport #WomenHealth #FlightAnxiety #Lovefly #NervousSystemRegulation

BIO

Caroline Milne is a former NHS nurse, certified menopause coach and founder of Unmenopaused, supporting people experiencing perimenopause and menopause to navigate the physical and emotional challenges of this life stage with confidence. Drawing on over 20 years in healthcare alongside her own lived experience, Caroline combines evidence-informed menopause education, coaching and breathwork-based nervous system regulation techniques to help people understand the relationship between hormones, the nervous system and emotional wellbeing, so they can feel more like themselves again. She delivers coaching programmes, workplace education and community menopause support, creating welcoming spaces where people feel heard, understood and empowered.

Contact details that can be shared: website: unmenopaused.co.uk email: unmenopaused@gmail.com

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Intro Music 'Fearless' Daniel King

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"Jon Hilton is an award-winning inclusion and belonging leader with 33 years’ experience across the travel and aviation industry, spanning operational roles, corporate sales and, more recently, diversity, equity and inclusion.

At Virgin Atlantic, Jon works across the organisation to help shape a culture where every voice is heard, every experience is valued and inclusion is reflected not only in how people work, but in how customers experience the brand. His role spans LGBTQIA+ inclusion, disability, women in aviation, ethnicity, wellbeing and wider belonging, with a focus on turning lived experience into meaningful and lasting change.

Jon is passionate about moving inclusion beyond statements and policies. His work brings together colleagues, leaders, customers, partners and communities to remove barriers, challenge assumptions and ensure people from all backgrounds have a genuine voice in the decisions that affect them.

He was named Outstanding Network Lead of the Year at the Rainbow Honours 2025 and featured in the 2026 Attitude 101, empowered by Bentley, which celebrates 101 outstanding trailblazers whose work has contributed to the global LGBTQ+ community in a game-changing way. Jon was also included in the prestigious Pride Power List, created by Diversity Umbrella in association with Stonewall and published in The Guardian. The list is regarded as a definitive guide to LGBTQIA+ people and allies working towards true equality and inclusion.  At the heart of Jon’s work is a simple but powerful belief: when people feel seen, heard and valued, they do not just belong - they thrive".

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Intro Music 'Fearless' Daniel King

 

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Dr. Martin M. Antony is Professor and Chair in the Department of Psychology at Toronto Metropolitan University. Previously, he was founding director of both the Anxiety Treatment and Research Clinic and the Psychology Residency Program at St. Joseph’s Healthcare Hamilton.  He was also Clinical and Training Lead for the Ontario Structured Psychotherapy Program. He is a fellow of the Royal Society of Canada and the Canadian Academy of Health Sciences, a member of the Order of Ontario, and he is a past president of the Canadian Psychological Association and the Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies. He has published 34 books and over 330 scientific articles and chapters in areas related to cognitive behavior therapy and anxiety-related disorders. He has given more than 575 invited presentations to audiences across four continents, and has been interviewed, featured, or quoted more than 500 times in various print, radio, television, and online media outlets, including BBC News, CBC, Chatelaine Magazine, CNN, CTV, the Globe and Mail, National Post, New York Times, O (Oprah) Magazine, Prevention Magazine, Reader’s Digest, Scientific American Mind, Toronto Star, USA Today, Washington Post, and many others.

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You are going to love this guy's story telling. A Brit that has moved to Australia and what that means for someone with a fear of flying, heights, claustrophobia.

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Gita Brown has been a member of the Lovefly community for such a long time now. She gives so much with her experience and time. Now, she is sharing her wisdom via a 21 day self care program.

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