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- Ever wondered what pilots actually go through before stepping into a commercial cockpit? In this episode of the Lovefly podcast, host Paul Tizzard is joined by aviation operations expert and fleet manager Caressa Bray. Together, they pull back the curtain on flight training, demystifying aviation terminology, exploring how pilots handle fear and complex manoeuvres, and explaining why commercial aviation is exceptionally safe.
Caressa Bray is the Co-Founder and COO of Aero Pathways, an aviation student support and mentorship company focused on helping aspiring pilots navigate flight training with confidence. With a background in flight school operations, fleet management, and aviation education, she brings a unique perspective on the challenges students face from their first lesson through certification. Caressa is passionate about improving the student experience, strengthening retention, and helping the next generation of aviation professionals find their path in the industry. What you'll learn: The truth about airplane "stalls" and why they have nothing to do with engine failure How full-motion flight simulators prepare pilots for every scenario The rigorous safety briefings and protocols conducted before every single flight Why understanding aviation mechanics can help put an anxious flyer's mind at ease.
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Intro and outro music 'Fearless' Daniel King
Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising. Ep. 302 - BA Captain Rick and his daughter Melissa who is fighting her fear of flying
10/21/2026 | 59 mins.Welcome to another empowering episode of the Lovefly podcast! In this session, we sit down with Melissa—whose entire family, including her father Rick, worked in aviation for British Airways—to discuss her personal journey overcoming a severe fear of flying. Joined by veteran BA training captain Rick, this episode bridges the gap between technical aviation reality and the emotional psychology of flight anxiety.
What You'll Learn: Why growing up around aviation doesn't automatically immunize you against flight fear. How evolutionary instincts and the need for control fuel aviation anxiety. Practical, hands-on grounding techniques (like the dot-to-dot flight log and sensory blocking). Inside insights on pilot training, redundancies, and why flight crews are just as invested in safety as you are.
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Intro and outro music 'Fearless' Daniel King
Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.- Welcome back to the Lovefly Podcast! In this inspiring episode, we welcome Ashley, who shares her deeply relatable journey of overcoming a 20-year hiatus from flying due to severe phobia, panic attacks, and avoidance. If you've ever felt like your fear has permanently grounded you, this episode is packed with practical, psychologist-informed insights and real-world strategies to help you reclaim your travel freedom. What you'll learn: How childhood experiences and unmanaged sensory triggers can fuel long-term flight anxiety. Why traditional breathing exercises don't work for everyone—and what to do instead. The "game-changing" power of keeping your eyes open during takeoff. How simple tools like ear defenders, squishy toys, and communicating with cabin crew can transform your flight experience. The importance of mentally shifting focus from flight dread to holiday excitement.
Lovefly Courses www.lovefly.co.uk/courses/ FB - Lovefly Insta @loveflyhelp #fearofflying #flyingwithoutfear #anxiety #aviation #lovefly #pilots #turbulence #claustrophobia #cleithrophobia Private Members Group: https://lovefly.podia.com
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Intro and outro music 'Fearless' Daniel King
Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising. - Flyman Simon sharing more of his amazing knowledge and wisdom for the nervous flyer. An absolute gem of an episode and Simon's answers are brilliant.
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Intro and outro music 'Fearless' Daniel King
Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising. Ep. 299 - Suzanne's story - From being unable to board a plane to looking forward to Jamaica…
09/30/2026 | 33 mins.Meet Suzanne...
Suzanne’s fear of flying began suddenly at 21, despite never having experienced a bad flight or aviation incident.
She went through years of avoiding flying, including periods lasting more than a decade.
She tried Flying Without Fear courses, books and other techniques over many years, with varying degrees of success.
A particularly difficult experience saw her refused boarding because she was so distressed about flying.
In 2022, her fear reached its lowest point when she couldn't even leave home to go to the airport for a family holiday.
She then discovered Lovefly and the 30-day programme, returning to the resources and community that had helped her in the past.
She explains how the constant exposure to other fearful flyers successfully boarding flights and arriving safely helped change her mindset.
Her biggest breakthrough came when she decided: she would only allow herself to be afraid if the pilot actually declared an emergency.
She also discovered the value of keeping her brain fully occupied, using puzzle and strategy games during the airport experience and flight.
She successfully flew to Barbados, describing it as a trip of a lifetime—and is now looking forward to Jamaica.
Suzanne now describes herself as someone who “used to be a fearful flyer.”
Her message to other fearful flyers is simple and powerful: if she could overcome a fear that had affected her for decades, change is possible.
Lovefly Courses www.lovefly.co.uk/courses/ FB - Lovefly Insta @loveflyhelp #fearofflying #flyingwithoutfear #anxiety #aviation #lovefly #pilots #turbulence #claustrophobia #cleithrophobia Private Members Group: https://lovefly.podia.com
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Intro and outro music 'Fearless' Daniel King
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