Culture Changers with Allison Hare

Julianna Glasse was a chart topping Christian pop star who sang at Donald Trump's 2017 National Prayer Breakfast and taught tens of thousands of women that their closeness to God ran straight through their husbands. Then her husband found the books she was hiding, threw one on the floor, and told her "this is what happens when you read." She turned his sentence into the title of her new book, lost her marriage, her tours, and her book deal, survived death threats and sexual violence threats from fellow Christians, and became the first single woman ever partnered with Oxford's Saïd Business School. What religion actually teaches women about their own worth, and what it costs to walk away from it.
Notable timestamps:
[02:48] Meeting Julianna Glasse, and the cheeky title of her new book
[04:01] The doctrine of depravity, taught to her at age four
[09:04] Singing at Trump's 2017 National Prayer Breakfast, and what she was taught about women
[12:39] Meeting her gay neighbors in 2015, and the first crack in her belief system
[15:11] Public shaming, death threats, and sexual violence threats after her divorce
[21:18] The night her husband threw her books on the floor
[27:16] Losing everything, then applying to Oxford's Saïd Business School
[33:53] Sexual exploration, non-monogamy, and reclaiming her body
[45:44] Launching This Is What Happens When Women Read, and reaching 4 million women in 67 countries
[51:18] Her relationship to God and a higher power today
Prefer to watch on YouTube? https://youtu.be/VdzeTBUVgaU
Julianna Glasse:
Book (Amazon): https://link.amazon/B058uJc4n
Website: https://www.juliannaglasse.com/
This Is What Happens When Women Read (nonprofit): https://www.thisiswhathappenswhenwomenread.org/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliannaglasse/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juliannaglasse/
Allison:
Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/allison__hare
Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/allisonhare
Free Podcast Clarity Call: https://allisonhare.com/freecall
Weekly email, Thursdays: https://allisonhare.com/email


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Matt Grace grew up with a chef, a housekeeper, and a father who paid for his first prostitute, and by 29 he'd spent a hundred and fifty thousand dollars on sex workers and burned through every drug you can name. Matt spent his career as an interventionist for some of the wealthiest addicts in the country and just released his book, God Doesn't Relapse. We get into the therapist who diagnosed him with an Oedipus complex at nine, the house that became the neighborhood's drug den, the mother who finally changed the locks on him, and a moment where Matt and I go head to head over what actually counts as an addiction. This one's unflinching and important.
Notable timestamps:
02:06 "Holy fuck" is exactly the right way to open this one
04:11 Expelled from two preschools, flagged as a future sociopath at six
06:31 The therapist who diagnosed a nine-year-old's Oedipus complex and let him attack him for years
08:13 The Bloomfield Hills mansion and the house that became a teenage drug den
15:35 His father pays for his first prostitute, leading to $150K spent on sex workers
26:27 Suicidal with a rifle, and choosing God over a bullet
28:24 His mother's ultimatum: "Get out, I'm changing the locks"
41:35 "That's not recovery, it's weakness": Matt on being triggered
44:44 Matt and Allison clash over body dysmorphia versus addiction
51:02 The dream car he bought after his father died, and sold eight months later
Guest links:
Book, God Doesn't Relapse: https://link.amazon/B03ZboAOz
Matt's website: https://mattgrace.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mattsavinggrace/
National Sobriety Tour: https://mattgrace.com/national-sobriety-tour/
Allison's links:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/allison__hare
LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/allisonhare
Free Podcast Clarity Call: https://allisonhare.com/freecall
Weekly email, Thursdays: https://allisonhare.com/email

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JP Miller preached a full sermon less than 24 hours after his wife died - allegedly by suicide - without taking a single question about it. Netflix gave "Death of the Pastor's Wife" three episodes but still left out a lot: the earlier conviction, the first wife whose stories echoed Mica's experience, the third wife already leading worship beside him. I watched the whole thing, went deep into the rabbit hole - and am reporting back here as I noticed some notable patterns that are showing up right now in trad wife culture too. This is a harrowing story whose theological foundations permeate our society across many angles. Trigger warnings on this one.
Rather watch on YouTube? Watch here.
Notable timestamps:
00:00 The documentary, the trigger warning, and why this one couldn't wait
03:10 Who Mica Miller was, and how grooming looked like devotion at 13
11:20 Christian patriarchy 101: the umbrella, submission, and Bill Gothard's IBLP
15:40 JP's 1999 conviction, the pardon, and the pattern nobody flagged
23:15 The sermon the morning after Mica's death, and the room that stayed silent
29:00 What Netflix actually left out
33:30 The data: how common this is inside churches, and how few pastors are trained for it
36:45 Savanna Stone, trad wives, and why there are no old trad wives
41:10 Allison's mom, her dad's advice, and what she wants for her own marriage
47:30 Mica's Law: where it stands, and how to actually help
Episode resources:
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-SAFE (7233), or text START to 88788
"Death of the Pastor's Wife" updates, Netflix Tudum: https://www.netflix.com/tudum/articles/death-of-the-pastors-wife-john-paul-miller-updates
What Netflix left out, Ladbible: https://www.ladbible.com/entertainment/tv/jp-miller-netflix-left-out-documentary-criminal-record-527761-20260902
Mica's Law update, WBTW: https://www.wbtw.com/news/grand-strand/horry-county/shes-the-reason-second-micas-law-bill-sparks-statewide-push-for-stronger-domestic-violence-protections/
Savanna Stone documentary: https://youtu.be/Xvy0yOVtUqw?si=a6IUhRM5k3DTKB9Q
Allison's links:
Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/allison__hare
Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/allisonhare
Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@culturechangerspod
Free Podcast Clarity Call: https://allisonhare.com/freecall
Weekly email, Thursdays: https://allisonhare.com/email

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Are you as obsessed as I am with the dumbest headlines of the week? Well, you're in luck! I've got comedian and pop culture whisperer Rachel LaForce on to break down what Spencer Pratt's mayoral run, the $250 Trump bill, and trad wife content filmed at Home Goods actually say about the rest of us. Rachel got sober by accident, spent decades masking her neurodivergence, and built her whole show around one idea: comedy gets you to the truth faster than seriousness does. This is a fast, sharp, occasionally unhinged hour that somehow keeps landing on self-belief.

Notable timestamps:

03:57 – The UFC fight on the White House lawn, and how "healing is hilarious" started as Rachel's own recovery philosophy

12:08 – How she got sober "on accident" during a breakup, and never went back

16:57 – The push-yourself-out-of-the-pool metaphor for knowing you're actually ready for change

20:02 – Spencer Pratt's mayoral run and the self-belief lesson hiding inside it

23:38 – Why she thinks billionaires are boring, and her case for an abundance mindset

27:54 – MacKenzie Scott, Jeff Bezos, and the gender dynamics of wealth

31:45 – Her actual rule for what's fair game to joke about, and why trad wife content makes her sad instead of snarky

37:36 – Cortisol dressing, dopamine dressing, and how marketing invents things to sell women

43:36 – Where to find Rachel and what's next for Healing is Hilarious

Rachel LaForce, resources and links:

Healing is Hilarious podcast: https://www.rachellaforce.com/podcast

Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6jliDvkqHQFXyfx9Qh0lr4

Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-rachel-laforce-show/id1600838616

Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@therachellaforce

Rachel's website: https://www.rachellaforce.com/

Follow Rachel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachellaforce/

Follow Healing is Hilarious on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/healingishilarious/

Skewed Orbit Studios: https://www.skewedorbitstudios.com/

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I grew up thinking if I did everything right, negotiated hard enough, leaned in enough, the outcome would eventually match the effort. Y'all, that was a big old fat lie. Stefanie O'Connell spent years digging into the research for her new book, The Ambition Penalty, and the data is downright shocking. We get into girlboss culture and tradwife culture, and why they're actually selling the same lie in different outfits. We talk about what happens to women who out earn their male partners, and I promise, you're going to be picking your jaw up off the floor. Fair warning, there's some rage in this one. Mine included.

Notable timestamps:

01:55 – Stefanie explains the title and the reckoning behind the book

06:07 – The truth about whether women actually negotiate less than men

10:29 – Was Lean In a net positive or a net negative

15:55 – Girlboss and tradwife culture are selling the exact same lie

20:03 – Midroll

26:34 – The data on breadwinning moms and abuse in the home

36:43 – Why men only read 20% of bestselling books by women

45:03 – Where to actually start when the problem feels too big

50:10 – Why Stefanie refuses to buy into mom guilt

56:27 – What utopia actually looks like, ten years out

Stefanie's links:

The Ambition Penalty (book):https://amzn.to/4gbQlSY

Website: https://tooambitious.com/

Too Ambitious newsletter: https://tooambitious.substack.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stefanieoconnell/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stefaniemoconnell

Allison's links:

Free Podcast Clarity Call: https://allisonhare.com/freecall

Instagram: https://instagram.com/allison__hare

LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/allisonhare

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