Jake Wesley Rogers: “I’m Tired of Living, But I Don’t Want to Die”
Jake Wesley Rogers joins Ben, Ryan, and Yvie for a heartfelt conversation about music, identity, and faith. He opens up about his Crohn’s diagnosis, nearly quitting music, and the emotional journey behind his new album In the Key of Love. Ryan and Jake dive deep into reclaiming religion, queer visibility in pop, and why straight men in dresses still get all the credit. Plus, Yvie recounts a nearly explosive PR gift from MrBeast, and the hosts reflect on how queerness, art, and community collide. If you’re HIGHKEY! vibing with us, come hang with us on Patreon! We’re dropping bonus content, behind-the-scenes tea, exclusive group hangs — basically, the HighKiKi. www.patreon.com/HIGHKEY Watch HIGHKEY! on YouTube at youtube.com/@highkeyhere Follow along on socials @highkeyhere HIGHKEY! is a production of iHeartPodcasts, as part of the Outspoken network. The show is created and executive produced by Ben O’Keefe, Ryan Mitchell, Yvie Oddly, and Spoke Media.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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HIGHKEY! Weddings Are a Lot: Race, Riches, and Cotton Eye Joe
What happens when weddings don’t feel like they’re for you? This week on HIGHKEY! Ben, Ryan, and Yvie get real about the complicated relationship queer folks can have with weddings—from family estrangement and cultural expectations to chosen family and fantasy ceremony dreams. They share personal stories of being the only Black or queer person in the room, the cost of proving legitimacy through marriage, and whether they even want to be married at all. Plus: Lizzo’s rap era, Drag Kings finally getting their shine, and a very nerdy love letter to James Baldwin. If you’re HIGHKEY! vibing with us, come hang with us on Patreon! We’re dropping bonus content, behind-the-scenes tea, exclusive group hangs — basically, the HighKiKi: patreon.com/HIGHKEY Watch HIGHKEY! on YouTube at youtube.com/@highkeyhere Follow along on socials @highkeyhere HIGHKEY! is a production of iHeartPodcasts, as part of the Outspoken network. The show is created and executive produced by Ben O’Keefe, Ryan Mitchell, Yvie Oddly, and Spoke Media.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Rico Nasty: Can a Bad B*tch Be Soft Too?
Can a bad b*tch be soft too? This week on HIGHKEY!, Yvie Oddly sits down with genre-bending rapper and alt-icon Rico Nasty for a raw and riotous conversation about self-love, survival, and the power of staying niche. They talk about rage, queerness, and letting yourself rot when you need to recharge. Rico opens up about her new album, Lethal, her soft girl era, and why being “too weird” can be your superpower. Plus: the power of crafting, why she might get a BBL, and what it means to be culturally queer in a world that still doesn’t know where to place you. Come for the baddie wisdom, stay for the hiking, glitter gloss, and fast food confessions. If you’re HIGHKEY! vibing with us, come hang with us on Patreon! We’re dropping bonus content, behind-the-scenes tea, exclusive group hangs — basically, the HighKiKi: patreon.com/HIGHKEY Watch HIGHKEY! on YouTube at youtube.com/@highkeyhere Follow along on socials @highkeyhere HIGHKEY! is a production of iHeartPodcasts, as part of the Outspoken network. The show is created and executive produced by Ben O’Keefe, Ryan Mitchell, Yvie Oddly, and Spoke Media.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Tourmaline: What Is Your Freedom Dream?
What does it mean to celebrate freedom in a country where so many are still fighting for it? This July 4th, HIGHKEY! welcomes legendary activist, filmmaker, and author Tourmaline for a conversation that reclaims joy, protest, and the radical legacy of Marsha P. Johnson. The hosts unpack Black queer history, trans resistance, and the messy truth about who gets remembered—and who gets erased. Tourmaline shares what she’s learned from elders like Miss Major and Marsha, and why dreaming big is not a luxury, but a survival strategy. Come for the queer history lesson, stay for the nail art, revenge fantasies, and glitter-fueled joy that fuels our fight. If you’re HIGHKEY! vibing with us, come hang with us on Patreon! We’re dropping bonus content, behind-the-scenes tea, exclusive group hangs — basically, the HighKiKi. www.patreon.com/HIGHKEY Watch HIGHKEY! on YouTube at youtube.com/@highkeyhere Follow along on socials @highkeyhere HIGHKEY! is a production of iHeartPodcasts, as part of the Outspoken network. The show is created and executive produced by Ben O’Keefe, Ryan Mitchell, Yvie Oddly, and Spoke Media.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Tess Holliday: On the Body Positivity Backlash
“My body is an act of defiance.” Model, author, and activist Tess Holliday joins HIGHKEY! for a raw conversation about taking up space—on her own terms. A pioneer in the body positivity movement, Tess has become one of its boldest and most influential voices, at a time when that visibility matters more than ever. Now, with her new book Take Up Space, Y’all, she’s helping the next generation step into their power and embrace exactly who they are. If you’re HIGHKEY! vibing with us, come hang with us on Patreon! We’re dropping bonus content, behind-the-scenes tea, exclusive group hangs — basically, the HighKiKi. www.patreon.com/HIGHKEY Watch HIGHKEY! on YouTube at youtube.com/@highkeyhere Follow along on socials @highkeyhere HIGHKEY! is a production of iHeartPodcasts, as part of the Outspoken network. The show is created and executive produced by Ben O’Keefe, Ryan Mitchell, Yvie Oddly, and Spoke Media.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
HIGHKEY! is the culture podcast from iHeartPodcasts where nothing’s off-limits, and everything’s on the table — a joyful, unfiltered conversation with your smartest and funniest friends. It’s where pop culture clashes with politics, identity sparks deep dives, and internet absurdity finally gets the spotlight it deserves.
Every week, the show delivers Brains, Banter, and a Bit of Drama, blending sharp, surprising interviews with big idea conversations. Hosted by political strategist and Oscar-shortlisted producer Ben O’Keefe, cultural critic Ryan Mitchell, and drag superstar Yvie Oddly (RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 11 winner), the trio arrive ready to stir the pot — cutting through the noise, challenging the status quo, and leaning into the unpredictable, beautiful mess that makes culture culture.
For those who want honest, hilarious, and sometimes provocative takes on the world around us, HIGHKEY! feels like home.
Created by Ben O’Keefe, Ryan Mitchell, Yvie Oddly, and Spoke Media.