The Lies Depression Tells Us with Betsy Stephenson
What does it take to keep livingāand lovingāafter the unimaginable?
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This is a conversation about lossābut even more, itās about love, resilience, and the courage to keep saying yes to life.
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In this powerful episode, I sit down with Betsy Thibaut Stephensonāa seasoned crisis communications expert, mother of three, and author of the memoir,Ā Blackbird: A Mother's Reflections on Grief, Loss, and Life After. In 2022, Betsyās world was shattered by a six-week wave of devastating loss, including the death of her 21-year-old son, Charlie, to suicide. What followed wasnāt a quest to āmove on,ā but a conscious decision to live honestly, feel everything, and find meaning in the aftermath.
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We talk about the lieās depression tells, the complexity of navigating family grief, and the deeply personal stories we craft in order to survive. Betsy shares what it means to relearn how to feel, to hold space for discomfort, and to open up to healingāone small āyesā at a time.
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We also explore how spiritual growth, self-compassion, and even anxiety can become part of the long, often nonlinear path to peace.
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Disclaimer: This episode contains sensitive discussion around suicide, grief, and mental health. Please listen with care. If you or someone you know is struggling, help is available. In the U.S., call or text 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.
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LINKS
Betsy Stephenson website: https://www.blackbirdbetsy.com/
Betsy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blackbirdbetsy21/
Blackbird: A Mother's Reflections on Grief, Loss, and Life After Suicide book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/4fdG4Vt
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Key Moments You'll Love:
š [0:00] Understanding Depression's Hidden Strength
š [3:45] Charlie's Story: The Shocking Timeline of Loss
ā ļø [11:00] The Dangerous Myths About Depression's "Calm"
š£ļø [14:30] Permission to Grieve: Standing Up to "Don't Cry"
š§ [15:30] Crafting Your Healing Story: The Brutal Honesty Method
š [16:45] Living with the "What Ifs" That Never End
š [27:00] Different Grief Styles: How Families Heal Differently
š± [29:25] The Gentle Push: When Self-Care Becomes Self-Sabotage
šŖ [40:45] Depression's True Power: Overriding Survival Instinct
šØļø [45:50] Building the Vulnerability Muscle from Childhood
šæ [1:02:50] Daily Tools: Snipping the Tendrils of Fear
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