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Dr. Jonathan Leary: Alternative Medicine, Social Wellness, and the Future of American Healthcare
In this episode, Sam meets with Dr. Jonathan Leary, founder of Remedy Place. They discuss his journey from practicing traditional to alternative medicine, the current state of American healthcare, the rise of holistic and functional medicine, and the future of wellness.
Listen to this episode if you want to feel empowered to learn more about your body and health, if you want to learn how to cut through all the health misinformation online, or if you want to hear some perspective from someone who's pioneering the future of wellness.
Key moments:
02:52 Why Dr. Leary left traditional healthcare and turned to holistic and alternative medicine
05:33 He thinks THIS common healthcare practice should be illegal
05:52 How social media plays a role in alternative medicine
07:55 What’s wrong with the American healthcare system
09:41 How our healthcare system is best used
09:51 “The top 8 chronic conditions in the US last year were the highest they’ve ever been”
11:00 Why are Americans getting sicker?
12:13 One of the biggest problems with Americans’ mental and physical health
13:54 Where to meet your next boyfriend lol
14:11 Social connection and longevity
16:20 The problem all wellness people face (and how he’s solving it)
18:08 New Yorkers are facing THIS major problem
19:34 Social wellness is rising inversely against drinking
21:03 Commentary on drinking culture in the US
21:48 THIS thing you might be experiencing on a daily basis is 6x worse than alcohol
24:12 We need to start thinking about our health in this new way
27:31 How to instantly get an instruction manual for your body
29:02 How to cut through the misinformation about health online
30:22 The biggest red flag in the health and wellness industry
31:36 The foundational pillars of health
32:26 How to have a healthy social life
33:36 Routines turn into habits turn into change
33:49 Stress is NOT always bad for you
37:33 The important realization he had about stress
39:43 Raising awareness about Eastern medicine
44:23 What is within our control when it comes to our health?
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1:02:32
How to Bounce Back When You're Feeling Down
In this episode, Sam talks about how she's been feeling kind of flat and stuck in a rut over the past few weeks, even though she can't pinpoint exactly what's wrong. Then, she reflects on some wisdom from her mom, and shares an exhaustive list of tried-and-true things that actually help pull her out of it and make her feel like herself again when she's feeling down.
Listen to this episode if you're just feeling kind of blah and you need a kick in the ass, a bed rot, a bestie day, some indulgent self-care ideas, or a little extra love.
Key moments:
01:16 Wisdom from Sam’s mom
04:15 Two different kinds of feeling “down”
05:27 How to get yourself out of a rut
06:17 Three kinds of therapy that you might not have considered
07:40 Intellectualizing your feelings
08:51 EMDR therapy: eye movement desensitization and reprocessing
10:08 Somatic healing therapy
11:10 The first thing you should do if you’re feeling down (especially if you don’t know why you’re sad)
11:37 Something you didn’t know about circadian rhythm
13:42 Easiest and best strategy ever, works every time 99% of the time
13:56 Fun fact about nature and antidepressants
14:32 It’s getting kinda deep lol
18:34 Sam spits bars about how sometimes your best friend is actually the best therapist
20:29 How our friendships extend our lifespans
22:01 You’re not cooking enough
28:35 *Eye roll* but hear me out
29:44 The surprising way eating sugars and fats affects your mental health
33:16 How to actually journal in a way that’s not embarrassing
35:36 Why gratitude lists and journals don’t work and how to fix them
38:11 Advice from Sam’s boyfriend that she hated at first but then it changed her life
42:25 Indulgence can be wellness!!! Sam’s favorite indulgent self-care activities
45:09 Give yourself a break from the pressure of always trying to be your best self
45:39 BARSSS (life is short)
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How to Make New Friends as an Adult
In this episode, Sam explores why it's easier to make new friends as a kid, harder to make new friends as an adult, and necessary to keep trying no matter what part of life we're in. She makes recommendations for not only places and occasions to meet new people and turn them into friends, but also how to approach them in a way that's more likely to result in friendship. Sam drops a couple bars and original theories in this one, so make sure to share it with a friend.
Listen to this episode if you recently moved to a new city, if you're in your splinter era, if you're the "single friend" and you need to make more single friends, or if you just want to start meeting new people.
Key moments:
00:35 Epic storytime
05:14 The kind of person Sam is lol
06:40 Most thoughtful lil gift
07:37 Why it’s harder to make friends as an adult
08:44 Sam’s hot take about WFH
09:21 Why we aren’t making new friends
11:19 If you think you’re too busy
15:53 Sam’s theory about how friendships change as we get older
17:24 The two ingredients required for a good friendship
19:09 The #1 best way to make new friends
20:54 The crazy way Sam met one of her best friends
22:12 How to make friends through fitness
27:00 Non-fitness ideas
31:19 Sam’s favorite tip in the whole episode
31:41 How to execute it
39:21 One thing we don’t do enough
40:40 The most unexpected idea on this list
41:59 The future of CAPS LOCK (community events!)
45:59 Sam spits absolute bars
47:04 How to approach people IRL
52:40 The important key to every new friendship
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1:02:53
Miranda McKeon: Diagnosed With Stage III Breast Cancer at 19
In this episode, Sam meets with Miranda McKeon. They talk about Miranda's breast cancer journey, from a stage III diagnosis at only 19, to fertility treatments, chemotherapy, unexpected challenges and silver linings, and how it changed her life.
Key moments:
00:33 Introducing Miranda and her cancer story
01:37 How we met (cute, bestie vibes)
07:46 Growing up and being in adult spaces as a young person
11:22 Starting college during COVID
13:07 How she found out she had cancer
14:45 What the lump felt like
15:57 Getting the biopsy results
17:50 Processing the results from an airplane in San Francisco
18:28 Rebranding self breast exams
20:44 Miranda’s fertility journey (at only 22)
26:28 Things that surprised her about fertility treatment
27:35 The most traumatizing part of her cancer treatment
29:28 How Miranda’s cancer journey gave her perspective
31:40 The physical toll of having and treating cancer
32:24 Going through medically-induced menopause at age 22
36:52 What helped the most during treatment
40:37 The emotional rollercoaster of it all
42:53 Who and what got her through it
43:02 How antidepressants played a role
46:31 What she learned about herself
48:53 How Sam found out her mom had cancer
52:00 How beating cancer gave Miranda purpose
53:22 Sharing her story online
54:59 One part of cancer people don’t talk about enough
55:14 Why she worried about finding love after cancer
58:25 What does a cancer-preventative lifestyle look like?
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1:10:30
How to Stop Procrastinating and Increase Productivity
In this episode, Sam explores why we procrastinate, as well as strategies for being productive at work, even when it feels impossible. She draws from science-backed research and personal experience to develop creative, accessible, and actionable techniques for increasing your productivity and output.
Listen to this episode if you're feeling stuck or unmotivated, if you can't seem to stop procrastinating on important tasks, or if you're struggling to cross tasks off your to-do list.
Key moments:
02:42 Do you feel guilty when you procrastinate?
03:48 Sam says it’ll be a quick episode and then proceeds to talk for 49 minutes
04:15 The science behind why we procrastinate
04:29 The role of your limbic system
05:21 The role of your amygdala
06:22 Temporal discounting (so real and so interesting)
07:33 The role of your prefrontal cortex
09:05 The reasons we procrastinate
09:29 Listen here if you need a boost of good luck lol
09:54 Lack of motivation? Try these hacks
10:16 Body doubling (most fun tip IMO)
14:01 The bribe/threat method
14:55 Overwhelmed? Too much to do? Here’s how to overcome that
15:11 Amazing tip for nailing a job interview
15:52 Wisdom from my mom that changed my life
16:22 Step-by-step process for being productive when you’re overwhelmed
17:10 This is the best motivation I’ve ever heard dead serious
18:06 The best planner/agenda on earth (linked below)
18:39 How to mobilize yourself to start working
18:50 Friction auditing (identifying friction in your workflow)
19:06 How to remove the friction from your workday
19:41 The unexpected power of journaling (from someone who thinks journaling is cringe)
23:10 When the task feels daunting or intimidating
23:30 The most important thing when the task feels intimidating
25:48 The task never takes as long as you think it will
26:58 Hacks for getting you to start in the first place
27:10 The 5-minute rule (not 5-second) ((Mel Robbins approved))
28:25 The Pomodoro Method (Sam’s version)
28:46 Break snacks!!! (Not food-related lol)
31:58 We are so back—fear of failure vs. judgment
32:34 How to get over fear of judgment
32:38 Who should we be taking feedback from?
33:49 Who we should NOT take feedback from
36:05 Sam goes on a rare Bravo rant
39:02 Perfectionism, self-doubt, and procrastination
41:24 The power of the mini deadline
43:54 Procrastination and ADD or ADHD
44:04 ADD and ADHD brains are literally structured differently
45:34 ADD or ADHD paralysis
45:55 Symptoms of ADHD paralysis
46:06 Time blindness (SOOO real)
47:30 Reinforcement of avoidant behaviors
50:16 Upcoming CAPS LOCK episode topics (new!)
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CAPS LOCK is a podcast designed to help you live bigger, better, louder, and longer. Come back every Sunday at 8 AM ET for new episodes, or watch with video on YouTube, Instagram, TikTok, and Threads: @lifeincapslock.