Men’s Sexual Health, Performance Anxiety & Intimacy
03/04/2026 | 1h 15 mins.
In this powerful and deeply honest episode of Please Me!, host Eve welcomes Brent Dowlen, relationship and personal development coach, podcast host, and creator behind multiple shows including Driven To Thrive Broadcast and Dad Hat Shenanigans.
Together, they unpack the rarely discussed realities of men’s sexual health, including performance anxiety, shame, stress, and identity — and how these factors deeply impact intimacy, relationships, and mental health.
Brent shares candid personal experiences with erectile dysfunction caused by stress and exhaustion, shedding light on how strongly many men tie sexual performance to masculinity and self-worth. The conversation explores how fear, shame, and societal expectations can quickly turn sex from a source of connection into a source of anxiety — and what men (and their partners) can do to interrupt that cycle.
This episode also dives into foundational habits for long-term sexual health, including sleep, nutrition, hydration, exercise, stress management, and honest self-assessment. Eve and Brent address the men’s mental health and loneliness epidemic, the outdated “playbook” men are still handed, and why vulnerability is often encouraged in theory but punished in practice.
The episode concludes with a realistic and educational role-play conversation, modeling how couples can communicate desires, boundaries, fantasies, and consent — proving that healthy sexual communication can be awkward, playful, respectful, and deeply connecting.
Men’s sexual performance anxiety and identity
Erectile dysfunction, stress, and exhaustion
Shame and fear surrounding sexual health issues
When men should seek support for sexual health concerns
Sleep, hydration, nutrition, and cardiovascular health for sexual wellness
Testosterone, exercise, and healthy fats
Men’s mental health crisis and loneliness epidemic
Why traditional therapy often misses men
Masculinity, vulnerability, and societal expectations
Initiating intimacy and feeling desired as a man
Power dynamics, submission, and stress relief in the bedroom
How to talk to your partner about fantasies and boundaries
Consent, communication, and curiosity in long-term relationships
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Blood Flow for Her, Endurance for Him: The Sexy Science of Arousal | Sexual Health
02/25/2026 | 48 mins.
In Episode 4 of Season 7, host Eve welcomes back Sam Itshaki, creator of Mr. Get Bigger Now and CEO of the legendary Dr. Joel Kaplan Company, for his second appearance on Please Me!
This candid, educational conversation explores sexual wellness tools designed to support blood flow, sensitivity, endurance, and confidence — for all genders.
Building on his Season 6 appearance, Sam returns to share the latest data, devices, and innovations in sexual health, including pumps for men and women, endurance training, and the science behind arousal, aging, and prevention.
How blood flow directly impacts sexual pleasure, sensitivity, and function
Why sexual wellness is preventative care, not just a solution after problems arise
The science behind penis pumps, extenders, and female vacuum devices
How regular pumping may support:
Increased sensitivity
Improved natural lubrication
Enhanced erectile quality
Vaginal and vulvar tissue health
The connection between aging, atrophy, and sexual function in both men and women
How women experience arousal and engorgement — and why it matters for pleasure
A deep dive into penile endurance training and edging practices
How men can dramatically increase stamina and control through guided training
Why lasting longer isn’t a “problem to fix” — it’s a trainable skill
How improved endurance can open the door to deeper intimacy, novelty, and fantasy
A playful, fan-favorite role play segment exploring how to introduce new tools into a relationship
Sam Itshaki first joined Please Me! in Season 6 for a powerful two-part deep dive into male enhancement, sexual confidence, and the foundations of blood-flow-based sexual wellness. These fan-favorite episodes laid the groundwork for today’s conversation and are a great place to start if you’re new to Sam’s work.
Part 1:https://open.spotify.com/episode/6HFc6AVk1JMpIg3EZBfDnz?si=W5AZ4es3RZWJteUo7SqpHQ
Part 2:https://open.spotify.com/episode/6nWGLezGEQW9KqLYfJkyrv?si=SlAXCixtTOu-NaGx25GnPA
Together, these episodes explore the origins of Mr. Get Bigger Now, early research on pumping and endurance training, and how men can reclaim agency over their sexual performance and pleasure.
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Sacred Feminine Energy, Nervous System Safety & Intimate Healing
02/18/2026 | 59 mins.
In this episode of Please Me, we’re joined by Kayla Moore, certified sex therapist, pleasure coach, and sovereign guide for women warriors rising, for a powerful conversation about reclaiming pleasure, healing sexual conditioning, and restoring the sacred feminine.
Kayla explores how patriarchal systems, religion, and cultural norms have shaped our relationship to sex, desire, and intimacy—and why pleasure is not limited to sex, but is deeply connected to nervous system safety, embodiment, and emotional connection. Together, we discuss divine feminine and divine masculine energies, the importance of healing in community, and how slowing down intimacy can create deeper, more fulfilling relationships.
This episode also features a live role-play modeling healthy communication around desire, boundaries, pacing, and emotional safety—offering practical language listeners can use in their own relationships.
Pleasure as a pathway to healing and empowerment
The sacred feminine and sacred masculine within all people
How patriarchy impacts sexuality and intimate relationships
Why emotional safety is essential for intimacy and desire
Healing sexual desire through community and connection
How to communicate needs, boundaries, and pace in relationships
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Orgasmic Healing: How Pleasure Releases Trauma, Shame, and Emotional Blocks | Sexuality
02/11/2026 | 1h 9 mins.
Season 7 of Please Me launches with a deeply embodied and transformative conversation exploring tantra, sexual energy, emotional release, and orgasmic healing.
In this powerful episode, Eve welcomes Emma Galland, a renowned sex educator and Tantra coach, for an expansive discussion on how sexuality functions as a portal to self-realization, creativity, and liberation.
Together, they explore how orgasms are not merely physical events, but nervous-system experiences capable of releasing grief, anger, fear, joy, and shame. Emma breaks down concepts such as cry orgasms, anger orgasms, joy orgasms, and location-specific orgasms, unpacking the neuroscience behind pleasure, sensation, and emotional expression.
This episode dives deep into:
Tantra as a daily self-cultivation and embodiment practice
Sexuality as life force energy and creative power
How emotional orgasms support trauma healing
Why presence—not performance—creates mind-blowing sex
How men can cultivate sexual mastery and emotional capacity
Releasing sexual shame as a pathway to freedom and confidence
Boundaries, consent, and handling unwanted sexual attention
Tantra vs. conventional sex: intention vs. performance
Masturbation as a spiritual, nervous-system regulation practice
Why pleasure expands confidence, creativity, and manifestation
This conversation is raw, educational, and deeply liberating—perfect for anyone ready to reclaim pleasure and close the orgasm gap.
Website:https://tantricawakenings.com
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Webinar: Date Smart, Play Safe: Boundaries That Turn You On ( NOT OFF )
02/04/2026 | 59 mins.
This episode features a pre-recorded live webinar from SDC.com, the leading global platform for ethically non-monogamous dating and education. In Date Smart, Play Safe: Boundaries That Turn You On, Eve Hall breaks down how to communicate desires, boundaries, and safer-sex practices with confidence, respect, and sexual ease.
Created for individuals and couples in the lifestyle, this interactive session reframes safety as sexy, consent as arousal, and communication as foreplay, offering practical tools for trust, connection, and better sex.
Clear communication of yeses and nos without killing desire
Making boundaries feel confident, sexy, and empowering
Handling rejection respectfully in dating and lifestyle spaces
STI education, including oral transmission risks
Why consent, clarity, and curiosity increase attraction
Discussing fantasies, kinks, and porn without pressure
Safer sex strategies for ethically non-monogamous relationships
Topics Covered
Sexual boundaries and consent
Safer sex vs. “safe sex”
STI awareness and testing
Ethical non-monogamy communication
Fantasies, kinks, and desire-based conversations
Rejection, respect, and community culture
Body confidence and sexual empowerment
Episode MentionedMen’s Sexual Health, Nocturnal Erections & Heart Health
Guest: Dr. Elliot Justin
Eve speaks with Dr. Elliot Justin about the link between erectile function and cardiovascular health, introducing smart ring technology that tracks nocturnal erections, a key indicator of overall health. Fewer than three nightly erections may signal increased cardiovascular risk.
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Welcome to Please Me! Podcast with EveWhere Sexuality, Pleasure, and Big Clit Energy™ Take Center Stage
Please Me! is a bold, sex-positive, body-positive podcast exploring sexuality, sexual health, intimacy, and empowerment—without shame or taboos. Hosted by Eve, a licensed Physical Therapist specializing in pelvic floor therapy and sexual wellness, this show is your no-BS guide to reclaiming desire, closing the orgasm gap, and embracing radical self-love.
Through candid conversations, expert interviews, and unfiltered real talk, Please Me! explores what it truly means to thrive erotically, emotionally, and physically. Whether you’re navigating hormones, healing from trauma, enhancing sexual confidence, or curious about kink, this podcast is for you.
Topics include:
• Sexual health and holistic wellness
• Orgasm equality and closing the orgasm gap
• Women’s health and men’s sexual wellness
• LGBTQ+ and queer sexuality
• Body image, self-love, and sex positivity
• Intersectional feminism and reproductive rights
• Perimenopause, menopause, libido, and hormone balance
• Erectile dysfunction and non-surgical male enhancement (pumps, extenders, smart rings)
• Kink, BDSM, role play, and erotic communication
• Consent, boundaries, and modern dating culture
• Sexual dysfunction and holistic care solutions
• Pelvic floor therapy, intimacy, and pleasure education
No shame. No censorship. Just conversations to help you reclaim sexual agency, explore desires, and embrace Big Clit Energy™.
Eve treats erectile dysfunction, painful sex, vaginal dryness, premature ejaculation, sensitivity loss, incontinence, and more. She is the creator of The Orgasm Revolution, a movement closing the orgasm gap and elevating inclusive, shame-free pleasure. A proud neurodivergent, BIPOC, Latina, and LGBTQ+ community member, Eve blends clinical expertise with radical authenticity.
As an independent female-led podcast, she amplifies women done putting themselves last—ready to prioritize pleasure, power, and sexual confidence.
Join monthly webinars on SDC, the ethically non-monogamous dating site (code 37340 for a free trial).Access coaching and pelvic floor therapy (virtual or in-person) via Inspire Health Physical Therapy & Wellness.
Explore Eve’s curated sexual wellness products at pleaseme.online:
• Shameless Care – Sex-positive virtual medical care, hormone therapy, libido support, and discreet telehealth
• The Lady Pump – Female arousal enhancement for sensitivity and orgasm support
• The Penis Pump – Erectile dysfunction support for stronger erections and male performance
• The Endurance Trainer – Male stamina training to improve control and delay climax
• Aria Luxury Lubricant – Premium intimate lubricant for pleasure and comfort
• FirmTech – Smart wearable erectile health tracker for performance and sexual wellness
• Penis Extender – Male enhancement for length and confidence
• Organic Loven – Body-safe sexual wellness toys and accessories
• Parlor Games – Hormone balance and libido support supplements
• Cakes – Comfortable braless wear and nipple covers
• Bonnie’s Herbals Sex Butter – Natural vaginal moisturizer for dryness relief
• LifeWave – Stem cell activation patches for wellness and energy support
• Tower Garden – Indoor aeroponic gardening for organic produce
• Juice Plus – Nutrition from 45 fruits and vegetables for immunity and health
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