Redefining Masculinity in the LGBTQ+ Sex Industry | Sexuality
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In this bold and unfiltered episode of Please Me, Eve welcomes adult content creator and advocate Koby Falks for a deep dive into sexuality, masculinity, and the evolution of the sex industry from stigma to self-empowerment.
Koby shares his journey from growing up in rural Australia—where being gay meant being labeled weak—to confidently redefining what it means to be a man, both in and out of the bedroom. With candor and charisma, he opens up about body image, kink discovery, performance pressure, and how platforms like OnlyFans have given power back to creators in a way traditional studios never allowed.
This episode explores everything from confidence and identity to erections (yes, really), the importance of being seen, and why authentic pleasure is a right—not a reward.
If you’ve ever questioned the roles we play, the shame we carry, or the freedom that comes with owning your story, this is the conversation you didn’t know you needed.
Highlights include:
Why being gay doesn’t subtract from masculinity
Breaking out of the porn industry’s cookie-cutter standards
How Trimix injections work—and why they matter
The shift from secrecy to sexual self-expression
Kink, group scenes, and loving what used to feel off-limits
How sex work became a path to confidence, not just cash
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The Art of a Happy Hoe Season: Releasing Shame and Reclaiming Sexual Identity | Sexual Empowerment
In this juicy and deeply empowering episode, Eve is joined by therapist, women’s empowerment coach, and retreat leader Fanny Tristan for a soul-stirring conversation on sexual identity, post-breakup healing, and the misunderstood power of a happy hoe season.
Together, they break down the layers of shame, patriarchy, and systemic oppression that often silence women—especially women of color—from exploring their pleasure and owning their sexual identity. Fanny shares her personal journey and clinical insights on how to reset after heartbreak, reconnect with your sensual self, and create powerful boundaries rooted in consent and self-worth.
Whether you're fresh off a breakup, deep in your single era, or simply craving a deeper connection with your body and pleasure—this episode is your permission slip to heal, explore, and thrive.
In This Episode We Cover:
What a “happy hoe season” really means (and why you might need one)
The importance of masturbation and solo pleasure—yes, even in a relationship
Why reclaiming your sexual identity is not selfish—it’s essential
How race, class, and culture shape our singlehood and self-worth
The myths around breakups and how to turn your grief into growth
How to practice consent, set sexual boundaries, and feel safe in your body
Fanny’s 3-step soul therapy framework for post-breakup empowerment
Connect & Resources:
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Website: pleaseme.online
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Fanny Tristan
Founder of Her Soul Supply • Women’s Empowerment Coach • Licensed Therapist
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Tapping Into Healing: EFT for Emotional and Sexual Trauma | Sexual Health & Wellness
In this deeply insightful episode of Please Me, Eve welcomes certified clinical EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) practitioner Sophia Torrini to the mic for a raw, empowering conversation on trauma, healing, and reclaiming your pleasure.
Sophia shares her own life-altering health journey—from a near-death experience due to unnecessary surgery to discovering the transformative power of EFT. Together, Eve and Sophia explore the science and spirituality behind tapping, how emotions stored in the body can manifest as illness, and how trauma—especially when stored in the pelvic floor—can directly impact your sex life.
They also dive into:
What EFT is and how it works
The connection between emotional energy and physical symptoms
Why symptoms are often signs of healing—not something to fear
Real stories of healing chronic illness, pelvic pain, and even Tourette’s
How trauma can begin in the womb and the surprising ways it shows up later in life
Using EFT and meta-consciousness to reclaim health, intimacy, and sensuality
How Sophia helps clients rewire trauma and re-pattern belief systems for lasting change
This episode includes a powerful role-play between Eve and Sophia, modeling how EFT could support someone dealing with painful sex and unresolved trauma.
If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your body, struggled with chronic symptoms, or longed to feel more at home in your pleasure—this conversation is for you.
Resources & Links:
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Website: TapIntoYourBestSelf.com
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Boudoir and Beyond: Empowering Self-Portraits | Feminist Education
In this episode of Please Me, host Eve sits down with the incredibly talented self-taught portrait photographer, Melissa Ushtchenko. Melissa specializes in boudoir self-portraits, creating a unique blend of art and self-reflection that goes far beyond the traditional selfie. They dive into the empowering process of capturing oneself through the lens, discussing the therapeutic and meditative qualities of self-portraiture, and how it helps build confidence and a deeper connection with one's body.
Melissa shares her journey from brand photography to becoming a boudoir photographer, ignited by a moment of divine inspiration during the pandemic. She explains how boudoir self-portraits differ from the usual Instagram selfies and how the solo experience of self-photography allows individuals to explore and express their true selves without the influence of external judgment.
Throughout the conversation, Eve and Melissa explore the importance of embracing the "messiness" of the process, both in photography and in life, and how this acceptance can lead to beautiful, unexpected results. They also discuss how this practice can be a powerful tool for people recovering from surgeries or learning to love their bodies after significant changes.
Melissa also talks about her course that guides people in creating their own self-portrait practice, offering a space for continuous self-discovery and empowerment. The episode wraps up with tips on how to prepare for a boudoir session, including the importance of being present, tapping into sensuality, and creating a personalized, sensory-rich environment.
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Curiosity in the Bedroom: Enhance Skills with Sensate Focus, Toys & Masturbation | Sex Education
Welcome back to Please Me!, the podcast bringing you bold conversations and Big Clit Energy! In this episode, Eve sits down with the brilliant Dr. Jenn Kennedy to have the kind of honest, grown-up sex ed talk we all should’ve gotten. From masturbation and the importance of solo exploration to redefining intimacy and tackling the orgasm gap, nothing is off-limits.
They break down the connection between sensuality and sexuality, how to build trust through vulnerability, and why communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. You’ll also learn how self-pleasure can actually enhance your partnered experiences—and why curiosity, not shame, should be your starting point.
Whether you’re single, partnered, or somewhere in between, this is your permission slip to turn yourself on, speak up, and pursue deeper connection—mind, body, and bedroom.
What We Cover:
Why masturbation is a powerful tool for self-awareness and pleasure
The difference between sensuality and sexuality—and why it matters
How to build confidence around expressing your desires
Using toys as conversation starters, not replacements
Practical tools like Sensate Focus to reignite connection
The role of aftercare and “pillow talk” in strengthening intimacy
Aging, sex, and adapting your desires as bodies change
Dismantling shame and embracing curiosity in the bedroom
Resources & Links:
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Website: pleaseme.online
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Dr. Jenn Kennedy’s Website: pleasureproject.us
Therapy Practice: rivieratherapy.com
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Welcome to Please Me, the ultimate podcast for exploring sexuality, intimacy, and sexual health! Join Eve, a licensed Physical Therapist specializing in Sexual Health, as she shares empowering insights on self-love, open communication, and body positivity. Each episode delves into the truths of sexuality, aiming to educate and inspire listeners on their journey to sexual liberation and pleasure.
Eve founded the Orgasm Revolution to highlight the Orgasm Gap and champion pleasure equality for all individuals. As a proud member of the neurodivergent, BIPOC, Latina, and LGBTQ communities, she is dedicated to promoting inclusive pleasure for everyone. Join us for engaging discussions on enhancing sexual well-being, navigating perimenopause, and advocating for fulfilling relationships. Together, let's explore how to thrive in our sexual lives and support pleasure for all!
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