Please Me! Podcast with Eve

• The Art of a Happy Hoe Season: Releasing Shame and Reclaiming Sexual Identity | Sexual Empowerment

  In this juicy and deeply empowering episode, Eve is joined by therapist, women’s empowerment coach, and retreat leader Fanny Tristan for a soul-stirring conversation on sexual identity, post-breakup healing, and the misunderstood power of a happy hoe season. Together, they break down the layers of shame, patriarchy, and systemic oppression that often silence women—especially women of color—from exploring their pleasure and owning their sexual identity. Fanny shares her personal journey and clinical insights on how to reset after heartbreak, reconnect with your sensual self, and create powerful boundaries rooted in consent and self-worth. Whether you're fresh off a breakup, deep in your single era, or simply craving a deeper connection with your body and pleasure—this episode is your permission slip to heal, explore, and thrive. In This Episode We Cover: What a “happy hoe season” really means (and why you might need one) The importance of masturbation and solo pleasure—yes, even in a relationship Why reclaiming your sexual identity is not selfish—it’s essential How race, class, and culture shape our singlehood and self-worth The myths around breakups and how to turn your grief into growth How to practice consent, set sexual boundaries, and feel safe in your body Fanny’s 3-step soul therapy framework for post-breakup empowerment  Connect & Resources: Connect with Eve Hall, Host of Please Me! Website: pleaseme.online Vote for Eve Hall as Best Educator at the ASN Awards: If you’re enjoying the show and feel it’s been helpful, I’d be honored if you could take a moment to vote for me as Best Educator in this year’s ASN Awards. Your support means so much to me! Vote here:  2025 TOP 8 FINALIST | 2025 ASN Awards I’d love to hear from you! Help me choose a question for my Please Me! Friday Series of episodes, where I answer listener-submitted questions. Send your questions and let me know what topics you'd like me to explore next! Bare Business and Beauty: A Wellness Retreat for Women: I’m excited to announce my new one-day event, Bare Business and Beauty: A Wellness Retreat for Women! Join me for a transformative day of self-care, empowerment, and growth. Get all the details here: Events - Please Me! Fanny Tristan Founder of Her Soul Supply • Women’s Empowerment Coach • Licensed Therapist Follow her at @hersoulsupply on Instagram & TikTok Download her free guides + sign up for the Single, Empowered, and Free webinar at hersoulsupply.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• Tapping Into Healing: EFT for Emotional and Sexual Trauma | Sexual Health & Wellness

  In this deeply insightful episode of Please Me, Eve welcomes certified clinical EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) practitioner Sophia Torrini to the mic for a raw, empowering conversation on trauma, healing, and reclaiming your pleasure. Sophia shares her own life-altering health journey—from a near-death experience due to unnecessary surgery to discovering the transformative power of EFT. Together, Eve and Sophia explore the science and spirituality behind tapping, how emotions stored in the body can manifest as illness, and how trauma—especially when stored in the pelvic floor—can directly impact your sex life. They also dive into: What EFT is and how it works The connection between emotional energy and physical symptoms Why symptoms are often signs of healing—not something to fear Real stories of healing chronic illness, pelvic pain, and even Tourette’s How trauma can begin in the womb and the surprising ways it shows up later in life Using EFT and meta-consciousness to reclaim health, intimacy, and sensuality How Sophia helps clients rewire trauma and re-pattern belief systems for lasting change This episode includes a powerful role-play between Eve and Sophia, modeling how EFT could support someone dealing with painful sex and unresolved trauma. If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your body, struggled with chronic symptoms, or longed to feel more at home in your pleasure—this conversation is for you. Resources & Links: Connect with Eve Hall, Host of Please Me! Website: pleaseme.online I’d love to hear from you! Help me choose a question for my Please Me! Friday Series of episodes, where I answer listener-submitted questions. Send your questions and let me know what topics you'd like me to explore next! Vote for Eve Hall as Best Educator at the ASN Awards: If you’re enjoying the show and feel it’s been helpful, I’d be honored if you could take a moment to vote for me as Best Educator in this year’s ASN Awards. Your support means so much to me! Vote here: ASN Awards Voting Bare Business and Beauty: A Wellness Retreat for Women: I’m excited to announce my new one-day event, Bare Business and Beauty: A Wellness Retreat for Women! Join me for a transformative day of self-care, empowerment, and growth. Get all the details here: Events - Please Me! Connect with Sophia Torrini: Website: TapIntoYourBestSelf.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• Boudoir and Beyond: Empowering Self-Portraits | Feminist Education

  In this episode of Please Me, host Eve sits down with the incredibly talented self-taught portrait photographer, Melissa Ushtchenko. Melissa specializes in boudoir self-portraits, creating a unique blend of art and self-reflection that goes far beyond the traditional selfie. They dive into the empowering process of capturing oneself through the lens, discussing the therapeutic and meditative qualities of self-portraiture, and how it helps build confidence and a deeper connection with one's body. Melissa shares her journey from brand photography to becoming a boudoir photographer, ignited by a moment of divine inspiration during the pandemic. She explains how boudoir self-portraits differ from the usual Instagram selfies and how the solo experience of self-photography allows individuals to explore and express their true selves without the influence of external judgment. Throughout the conversation, Eve and Melissa explore the importance of embracing the "messiness" of the process, both in photography and in life, and how this acceptance can lead to beautiful, unexpected results. They also discuss how this practice can be a powerful tool for people recovering from surgeries or learning to love their bodies after significant changes. Melissa also talks about her course that guides people in creating their own self-portrait practice, offering a space for continuous self-discovery and empowerment. The episode wraps up with tips on how to prepare for a boudoir session, including the importance of being present, tapping into sensuality, and creating a personalized, sensory-rich environment. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• Curiosity in the Bedroom: Enhance Skills with Sensate Focus, Toys & Masturbation | Sex Education

  Welcome back to Please Me!, the podcast bringing you bold conversations and Big Clit Energy! In this episode, Eve sits down with the brilliant Dr. Jenn Kennedy to have the kind of honest, grown-up sex ed talk we all should’ve gotten. From masturbation and the importance of solo exploration to redefining intimacy and tackling the orgasm gap, nothing is off-limits. They break down the connection between sensuality and sexuality, how to build trust through vulnerability, and why communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. You’ll also learn how self-pleasure can actually enhance your partnered experiences—and why curiosity, not shame, should be your starting point. Whether you’re single, partnered, or somewhere in between, this is your permission slip to turn yourself on, speak up, and pursue deeper connection—mind, body, and bedroom.  What We Cover: Why masturbation is a powerful tool for self-awareness and pleasure The difference between sensuality and sexuality—and why it matters How to build confidence around expressing your desires Using toys as conversation starters, not replacements Practical tools like Sensate Focus to reignite connection The role of aftercare and “pillow talk” in strengthening intimacy Aging, sex, and adapting your desires as bodies change Dismantling shame and embracing curiosity in the bedroom  Resources & Links: Connect with Eve Hall, Host of Please Me! Website: pleaseme.online I’d love to hear from you! Help me choose a question for my Please Me! Friday Series of episodes, where I answer listener-submitted questions. Send your questions and let me know what topics you'd like me to explore next! Vote for Eve Hall as Best Educator at the ASN Awards: If you’re enjoying the show and feel it’s been helpful, I’d be honored if you could take a moment to vote for me as Best Educator in this year’s ASN Awards. Your support means so much to me! Vote here: ASN Awards Voting Bare Business and Beauty: A Wellness Retreat for Women: I’m excited to announce my new one-day event, Bare Business and Beauty: A Wellness Retreat for Women! Join me for a transformative day of self-care, empowerment, and growth. Get all the details here: Events - Please Me!  Dr. Jenn Kennedy’s Website: pleasureproject.us  Therapy Practice: rivieratherapy.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• Words That Ignite: Male Loneliness, Dirty Talk, and Empowering Boundaries in Sex Work and Beyond | Sexual Wellness

  Ever feel awkward asking for what you truly want in bed? You're not alone. In this empowering episode of Please Me!, Eve is joined by the bold and brilliant Pepper Kat, a sex worker, content creator, and host of Spicy Spectrum. Together, they dive into the vital conversation about sexual communication, setting boundaries, and how creating a safe, non-judgmental space can enhance pleasure. Pepper Kat shares her journey from the news industry to her empowering work in sex work, and how her unique role allows her to teach clients about intimacy, boundaries, and personal sexual liberation. The episode includes a roleplay segment where Eve and Pepper demonstrate how to set boundaries around a scene with a virtual sex worker. They discuss the power of dirty talk and how it can elevate sexual pleasure, as well as why clear communication in the bedroom is essential for creating deeper connections and enhancing intimacy. In this episode, you’ll discover: The emotional and empowering side of sex work and how it promotes healthier sexual practices. Why clear communication during sex is crucial for maintaining intimacy and safety. How shame and silence kill intimacy, and what you can do to stop this in your own relationships. The importance of boundaries and why "no" is a full sentence in establishing healthy sexual dynamics. The power of dirty talk, laughter, and self-acceptance in enhancing pleasure and building confidence in the bedroom. What "Design Your Dream Girl" really means and how it creates a truly personalized experience. A real-world example of roleplay that helps redefine boundaries and connection in sexual experiences. Plus, fun topics like butt plugs, daddy play, and dance moves that allow for deeper self-expression and sexual confidence.  Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, exploring solo play, or considering hiring a sex worker, this episode gives you the tools to break free from societal shame and communicate your sexual needs and desires confidently. Connect with Eve Hall, Host of Please Me! Website: pleaseme.online I’d love to hear from you! Help me choose a question for my Please Me! Friday Series of episodes, where I answer listener-submitted questions. Send your questions and let me know what topics you'd like me to explore next! Vote for Eve Hall as Best Educator at the ASN Awards: If you’re enjoying the show and feel it’s been helpful, I’d be honored if you could take a moment to vote for me as Best Educator in this year’s ASN Awards. Your support means so much to me! Vote here: ASN Awards Voting Bare Business and Beauty: A Wellness Retreat for Women: I’m excited to announce my new one-day event, Bare Business and Beauty: A Wellness Retreat for Women! Join me for a transformative day of self-care, empowerment, and growth. Get all the details here: Events - Please Me! Explore Pepper Kat's world:  DesignYourDreamGirl.com  SpicySpectrumPodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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