Is it time to start telling our friends to be pickier with the (sh**ty) men they choose to date? Talia has some thoughts on why it’s better to be a Miranda than a Samantha, and Sean gives his take on ‘Mirror Theory’ - including why some people avoid sharing uncomfortable details. We also cover:
Whether or not skinny jeans are making a comeback (and why Talia wears the same denim over and over)
Washing your sheets and being a grown up
Getting tips from random men at the gym
Talia’s new smut novel all about werewolves
Grumpy-sunshine dynamic is HOT
Men bonding with their friends (including how to tease a woman)
Talia’s shares a story about the mystery man she never got to hook up with
picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.
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1:10:18
sydney sweeney is free. sean blew his big chance.
Our long national nightmare is finally over - Sydney Sweeney is free from her longtime engagement and Talia has strong thoughts on whether or not she’s better off (plus speculation about Glen Powell). We cover all the trending pop culture including:
Morgan Wallen’s abrupt exit from SNL (good luck in God’s Country)
Chappell Roan getting (not so) deep during her press tour
Girlie pop hits including Sabrina Carpenter’s latest single
Talia’s obsession with her new smutty book ‘The Nanny’
An update on 'your move' from last week
Sean made the biggest dating faux pas of his life. Should he ditch the bit?
Our White Lotus finale precap
picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.
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1:08:25
talia doesn’t hate dogs. taylor doesn’t love penetration.
Talia needs to call an emergency press conference (just kidding, what kind of loser would do that?). It’s time to address the controversy. No, Talia still doesn’t hate dogs. Yes, we’re going to talk about it. We’re also joined by our friend Taylor Strecker and discussing her least favorite subject. On this episode we talk about:
Talia’s true feelings about that one guy with the dog
How people have responded to his video about her
How much we love dogs
Learning to connect with your partner
Sexy magic shows
Using toys
The secret to good sex: empathy
picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.
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Follow Taylor: @taylorstrecker @tasteoftaylor
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1:09:43
be picky. be selfish. *this is our first episode
Welcome to picky & selfish. Thanks for listening. No, Talia doesn’t hate dogs. No, we’re not talking about that whole thing until our next episode. Yes we are focused on rejecting toxic masculinity and not giving advice (sorta). On this episode we talk about:
Being single for the first time in your life
Trying new… things
Finding Talia a Hamptons boyfriend
Getting ghosted after hooking up
Finding the magic word with someone
Dealing with rejection (and not getting jaded)
“your move” featuring a great flirty text idea
picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.
Follow us on TikTok & IG: @pickyandselfish
Follow Talia: @talialichtstein
Follow Sean: @seanryankilby
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Introducing picky and selfish with talia and sean – A show about... nothing? (Is that taken yet?)
Talia is your favorite twenty-something influencer navigating the chaotic New York social scene, and Sean is a thirty-something podcaster finally diving into the New York dating pool for the first time. These two they need each other's help. Fortunately, they’re best friends. Forget "mindful" and "demure" – it’s time to get picky and selfish. This is the podcast for women who are unapologetically putting themselves first... and for the men who want to know exactly what that looks like.
Each week, Talia and Sean dive into everything from bad hookups and f*ckboy tendencies, to annoying texting habits and why Crumbl cookies are overhyped. No boring segments, no filler – just the good stuff, every minute. Expect unfiltered conversations with their influencer squad, a parade of fascinating guests, and plenty of wild opinions. picky and selfish isn’t just a vibe – it’s a way of life. Be picky. Be selfish.