fixing your dating profile. peeing in front of your partner.
It’s time to look through your Hinge profile and actually show some personality. Talia walks us through the bios from some of her recent matches, telling us which ones stood out and why. Is the goal to be authentic or give people something to engage with? In this ep we also discuss:
Tinder, Hinge, Raya… Who do you expect to encounter on each dating app?
Stop taking Talia on dates to see someone funnier than you (it will backfire)
Her new crush (Rick Glassman) and a surprise connection (Mikey Madison)
The P&S dating tip that actually worked
Please don’t ever say we “lost the battle to…” anything
Peeing in front of your partner… good idea or bad idea?
picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.
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this is halloween. this is halloween.
It’s Halloween, and we’re trick-or-treating our way through all things spoooooky! From Talia’s witchy phase and a heated debate over becoming eternal vampires (would you??) to a full rundown of costumes, candy, and chaos. In this ep we also discuss:
What it takes to pull off a good Halloween costume (and Talia’s costume this year)
Our favorite Halloween candies and trading with friends
Trick-or-treating then vs. now — plus, are fruit snacks even candy?
“Too Far: Halloween Edition” …Dog parades and BYOB are outta control
Talia’s quest to find a “real” psychic
A nostalgic trip back to the Scholastic Book Fair days
Talia’s quest for a real psychic and our adventures in witch shops
picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.
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how does sexting work for women? is it ever okay to send emojis?
How should you initiate texting and what do women actually want to hear when you’re talking dirty over text? Plus, are voice memos just as hot as texts and pics? In this ep we also discuss:
Using emojis during sexting, including when you want to send reactions
What’s your “signature” emoji and what does it mean to you?
We rank the best and worst words to text a woman to describe her body parts
Whether or not someone can please you as well as you please yourself
The ultimate test of feelings: finger blasting
Talia is in her “Fallia” era as the seasons change
A preview of our Halloween costume plans
picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.
Follow us on TikTok & IG: @pickyandselfish
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marathoners aren’t impressive. male influencers are out of control.
It’s marathon season in New York City and Talia is not impressed. Do runners really deserve congratulations for putting themselves through misery (even though no one asked them to)? Plus, we decide whether climbing Mt. Everest makes you undatable. In this ep we also discuss:
Male influencers are out of control and deserve the same criticisms women get
Talia exposes some of the tactics male influencers use to get ahead
Advice: Men in NYC who are looking for a wife should quit the kickball league
It’s spooky season and Sean watched Hocus Pocus (with a twist) and tells us all about it his trippy experience
We find out which couples’ costume Sean is wearing for Halloween this year
picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.
Follow us on TikTok & IG: @pickyandselfish
Follow Talia: @talialichtstein
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sean has a girlfriend. talia has some questions.
Sean has a girlfriend and Talia is thrilled that we can finally talk about it. He spills on the entire saga of going from single life, to an open relationship, to being exclusive with someone new for the first time in years. In this ep we also discuss:
Monogamy vs non-monogamy: why both options can be challenging for people
Passion vs Stability: Can you keep passion in a relationship without putting in “work” with each other?
What’s it like to date someone who is already in a relationship?
Rules in a relationship (and why they can be a mistake)
Talia is going to a Knicks game and has some questions about sports… and some thoughts about Taylor Swift’s recent comments
What’s new in Talia’s dating life?
picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.
Follow us on TikTok & IG: @pickyandselfish
Follow Talia: @talialichtstein
Follow Sean: @seanryankilby
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Introducing picky and selfish with talia and sean – A show about... nothing? (Is that taken yet?)
Talia is your favorite twenty-something influencer navigating the chaotic New York social scene, and Sean is a thirty-something podcaster finally diving into the New York dating pool for the first time. These two they need each other's help. Fortunately, they’re best friends. Forget "mindful" and "demure" – it’s time to get picky and selfish. This is the podcast for women who are unapologetically putting themselves first... and for the men who want to know exactly what that looks like.
Each week, Talia and Sean dive into everything from bad hookups and f*ckboy tendencies, to annoying texting habits and why Crumbl cookies are overhyped. No boring segments, no filler – just the good stuff, every minute. Expect unfiltered conversations with their influencer squad, a parade of fascinating guests, and plenty of wild opinions. picky and selfish isn’t just a vibe – it’s a way of life. Be picky. Be selfish.
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