The Thais Gibson Podcast

• The Avoidant Does THIS When You Stop Talking to Them

  Start Healing Your Attachment Style With Personalized Courses Taught by Thais Gibson. Free for 7 Days (Enough Time to Complete a Full Course). Limited-time Offer: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-11-06-25&el=podcast When a Dismissive Avoidant stops talking, it’s usually a defense mechanism. But what happens when you go silent instead? The reaction might surprise you. While they seem calm or detached, there’s an entire emotional process unfolding beneath the surface. In this video, Thais Gibson explains what really happens when you stop talking to a Dismissive Avoidant, the five key emotional stages they move through, and what their silence actually means. You’ll learn how space impacts their nervous system, why they sometimes come back indirectly, and how to decide whether reconnection is truly healthy. You’ll learn: ✅ The 5 emotional stages Dismissive Avoidants experience when you pull away ✅ Why initial relief is often followed by confusion and regret ✅ How independence becomes a form of emotional control ✅ The subconscious fear that drives repression and withdrawal ✅ What their indirect attempts to reconnect (like memes or jokes) really mean Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – What Does the Avoidant Do When You Stop Talking to Them?  00:24 – The Four Attachment Styles  01:25 – 1. Dismissive Avoidants Feel Relief When They Have Space 02:07 – The Cost of Conflict  03:35 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Feel an Increased Sense of Independence  04:43 – 3. Dismissive Avoidants Start Having Mixed Feelings 05:47 – 7-Day Free Trial  06:37 – 4. Dismissive Avoidants Begin Questioning or Regretting Things 07:16 – 5. Dismissive Avoidants Will Make Attempts at Reconnection 08:39 – What to Do If You're on The Other Side  Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentHealing #FearOfIntimacy #AttachmentRecovery #RelationshipAdvice #HealingRelationships #AttachmentTheory

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• A Secure Person Does THIS When An Avoidant Won't Commit

  Start Healing Your Attachment Style With Personalized Courses Taught by Thais Gibson. Free for 7 Days (Enough Time to Complete a Full Course). Limited-time Offer: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-11-05-25&el=podcast When a Dismissive Avoidant pulls back or refuses to commit, it can leave you feeling confused, anxious, and unsure of where you stand. However, a Securely Attached person handles this moment very differently, and their response changes everything. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down how Securely Attached people respond when a Dismissive Avoidant won’t commit — and why it turns the dynamic in their favor. You’ll learn what emotional maturity looks like in action, how to communicate without pressure or people-pleasing, and how to back your needs while staying calm and confident. You’ll learn: ✅ How Securely Attached people handle commitment delays with clarity and self-respect ✅ Why understanding different attachment style timelines prevents unnecessary pressure ✅ How to communicate needs without triggering defensiveness or withdrawal ✅ What boundaries look like when someone stays in the “gray area” too long ✅ How standing firm in your standards helps you naturally attract secure love Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Securely Attached vs Dismissive Avoidant & Commitment 00:33 – The Unique Timeline for Each Attachment Style & Commitment 03:12 – What Would the Securely Attached Person Do? 04:36 – 7-Day Free Trial  05:26 – Step 1: Let the Person Know How They Are Feeling 08:20 – Step 2: Follow Up With More Clarity and Specificity 11:37 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentHealing #SecureAttachment #RelationshipAdvice #AttachmentTheory #EmotionalBoundaries #HealthyRelationships

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• When Is a Dismissive Avoidant Actually in Love? 5 Signs

  Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Ending Codependency Course — Free Forever! Start Creating Relationships That Last. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-codependency-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-codependency-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-11-04-25&el=podcast  Most people assume Dismissive Avoidants never fall deeply in love, but they do. The signs just look different. When they start to care, it shows up in subtle, often misunderstood ways that can leave you questioning where you stand. In this video, Thais Gibson reveals five key signs a Dismissive Avoidant is truly falling for you, and how to recognize the difference between casual affection and genuine emotional investment. You’ll also learn how to respond in ways that build trust, connection, and long-term security. You’ll learn: ✅ How Dismissive Avoidants express love differently from other attachment styles ✅ Why slow inclusion in their world signals growing trust and safety ✅ What it means when they start opening up emotionally or making future plans ✅ How they show care through action instead of words ✅ Why their efforts to bridge distance reveal true emotional commitment Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – What Does it Look Like When A Dismissive Avoidant Falls in Love? 00:34 – Sign 1: Including You in Their Life 01:36 – Sign 2: Opening Up Emotionally 03:12 – Sign 3: Making Tangible Long-Term Plans 03:41 – Sign 4: Listening and Meeting Your Needs 04:53 – Ending Codependency Course Promo 06:06 – Sign 5: Bridging the Emotional Gap 06:53 – These Are Important Signs to Look For Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentHealing #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalIntelligence #AttachmentTheory #LoveAndAttachment #AvoidantPartner #AttachmentRecovery

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• 5 Signs A Dismissive Avoidant Is Secretly Jealous | Thais Gibson

  Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Ending Codependency Course — Free Forever! Start Creating Relationships That Last. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-codependency-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-codependency-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-11-03-25&el=podcast  Most people think Dismissive Avoidants don’t get jealous — but that couldn’t be further from the truth. They do experience jealousy, but it often hides behind sarcasm, withdrawal, or emotional distance. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down five surprising ways jealousy shows up for Dismissive Avoidants — and how to recognize the subtle patterns beneath the surface. You’ll also learn how their fear of vulnerability, shame, and need for control shape the way they express (and suppress) jealousy, and what you can do to respond with empathy and healthy boundaries. You’ll learn:  ✅ The 5 hidden signs of Dismissive Avoidant jealousy  ✅ Why sarcasm, withdrawal, or coldness often mask emotional pain  ✅ How shame drives their need to self-protect and retreat  ✅ Why jealousy triggers both counter-dependence and emotional shutdown  ✅ How vulnerability and healthy communication can stop the cycle Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – How Jealously Shows Up for Dismissive Avoidants  00:40 – The Silent Comparison 01:42 – Withdrawal Instead of Confrontation 03:09 – Sarcasm & Passive Aggression About the Situation 05:55 – Ending Codependency Course Promo 07:31 – Cold Then Slightly Warmer Behavior 08:48 – Shame for Feeling Jealous 09:48 – Summary: Jealously Doesn't Look Like Rage or Confrontation Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentHealing #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalIntelligence #JealousyInRelationships #AttachmentRecovery #EmotionalAwareness

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• Do Not Marry (Or Date) With the Expectation of Changing Your Partner | Thais Gibson

  Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Ending Codependency Course — Free Forever! Start Creating Relationships That Last. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-codependency-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-codependency-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-11-02-25&el=podcast If you’re hoping your partner will “change” once they fall more in love, get married, or become more committed, you’re not seeing the real person in front of you. You’re falling in love with their potential, and that illusion can quietly destroy intimacy and long-term trust. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down five powerful reasons why dating or marrying for potential leads to emotional disconnection and unmet needs. You’ll learn how to stop confusing fantasy with reality and build a relationship based on truth, acceptance, and emotional safety. You’ll learn: ✅ Why loving someone’s potential disconnects you from true intimacy ✅ How projecting an ideal version of your partner creates emotional walls ✅ Why “helping them change” often feels like pressure, not love ✅ How to communicate your needs without blame or shame ✅ What the power struggle stage really means — and how to grow beyond it Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Are You Expecting to Change Your Partner?   00:46 – 1. You Are Seeing a Fantasy of the Person, Not the Person’s Reality 02:24 – 2. Hoping Somebody Changes Creates a Silent Pressure in the Relationship 03:46 – 3. Learn to Communicate Through Conflict in a Way That is Accepting of Others 05:35 – Ending Codependency Course Promo 06:09 – 4. Dating the Potential or Expectation of Somebody Ends Up Blocking Intimacy 07:40 – 5. Connecting With the Fantasy Keeps You From Building a Proper Foundation 08:26 – How is This Meeting A Need in Your Life? 09:13 – Summary of Building Healthy Relationships Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipAdvice #ThaisGibson #AttachmentHealing #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #AvoidantAttachment #AnxiousAttachment #EmotionalIntimacy #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipPatterns #AttachmentTheory

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