The Baddest Bitch in the Building

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Most of us want best for ourselves. We want the dream job, salary, house. But that's all it is: a want.

You can't want something and have it at the same time. So you stay in a perpetual state of want to prevent yourself from getting the things you desire. Then you breathe a sigh of relief, because nothing has to change.

Unfortunately, stagnation feels more comfortable than success because your brain and nervous system want to keep you safe and comfy. On top of that, you've internalized a lot of crap about how women should behave and what we should aspire to be.

In this episode I'll discuss exactly how to stop standing in the way of your own success so you can finally build the life you deserve.

BTW here's the lifetraps quiz I mentioned.

Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
2:15 Your body’s been programmed for misogyny
6:15 You’re a parasite to yourself
11:13 Reinvent yourself in 3 steps
20:51 A VERY important note
23:59 Never fear success again

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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.
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Life is a game and it’s rigged. Some say we should opt out altogether. Others say we should play by the rules and hope for the best.

There’s no shortage of terrible advice that will make us lose. We’re in the game whether we want to be or not, and it’s our responsibility to ourselves to win.

Once you understand not just the code of the game, but the blueprint of the universe, hacking the game becomes a breeze.

Life in a patriarchy is a game, and it’s time to win.

It's time to hack the patriarchy.

Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
3:06 How we’re programmed to lose
7:32 Is it even possible to win?
10:47 Taking back control of reality
20:52 How to hack the game

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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.
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Healing is great. It's an act of self-love and self-care. However, healing won't prevent you from ending up in the same situation that hurt you.

In fact, it's a way many women internalize the external abuse they've encountered, and think they're broken.

People don't treat you better based on how healed you are, they treat you based on what you tolerate and what you believe you deserve. And as women, we've been groomed to tolerate a lot of crap.

There's only one way to unlearn this grooming, and healing won't get you there.

Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
2:15 Why you're superstitious, even if you don't think so
8:06 The hidden agenda behind "healing"
14:52 You're not broken, but this type of person is
18:40 If healing isn't the answer, what is?

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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.
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🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg
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Most women think we need chase people/things. That's because patriarchy has brainwashed us to think we need to prove ourselves in order to affirm our self-worth.

In this episode, I'll get into why the complete opposite is true. In fact, making women think they're the chasers rather than the choosers goes against the matriarchal nature of human beings.

When we sit back and let people prove themselves to us, we trigger a very basic psychological need for validation. I call this being an anus and shifting the onus.

In this episode, I’ll discuss:

Why proving yourself makes you look weak & disposable
How to stop looking desperate
Three psychological strategies to trigger people's need to prove themselves to you
How to use this law in dating, work, business, and life
How to let go of the guilt and doubt holding you back from doing this

✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.

Love, Neeki

Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
3:48 Why proving yourself makes people respect you less
16:00 The law in the wild
19:39 Three ways to trigger people's psychological need to prove themselves
35:42 Exceptions & final thoughts

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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.
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🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg
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⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: [email protected]
🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon
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Niceness is a way of grooming women for extraction. We're brainwashed into thinking it's more important to be liked than to be respected, and we can only be liked by doing things for others.

Not only does this set you up for failure, it also makes people much less likely to respect you.

Sure, everyone likes the nice girl because they can use her, but no one respects her. And chances are, you're not mean enough.

In this episode, I’ll discuss:

How to earn the respect you deserve
What it means to be mean
How to take a page out of mens' book (after we unstick the pages)
3 mindset shifts to break free from the nice girl conditioning
An example of a spicy personal incident & what the baddies can learn from it
Also what I learned from watching Jersey Shore

Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
2:13 The dangers of "nice girl" grooming
8:04 Niceness vs kindness
15:27 How to be mean & gain respect
29:00 Three mindsets every self-respecting woman needs

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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.
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🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: [email protected]
🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon
💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays
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