Trauma Rewired

Traumatic brain injuries are incredibly common, yet many mild TBIs and concussions go unrecognized. And when the symptoms of a brain injury overlap with the effects of complex trauma, it can become difficult to understand what is actually driving changes in cognition, emotional regulation, behavior, energy, and capacity.
In this episode of Trauma Rewired, Jennifer Wallace and Elisabeth Kristof are joined by Amanda Smith, certified brain injury specialist, applied neurology pain and performance coach, NSI educator, and founder of Amanda's Way, to explore the intersection of traumatic brain injury and complex trauma.
Amanda shares her own experience recovering from concussion and whiplash and explains why symptoms such as brain fog, fatigue, irritability, emotional reactivity, poor concentration, sleep disruption, sensory sensitivity, and reduced capacity can easily be attributed to trauma, anxiety, depression, or stress when an underlying brain injury may also be contributing.
Together, they explore how TBI can change the brain's ability to process visual, vestibular, sensory, and cognitive information; why everyday inputs can require significantly more resources after injury; and how reduced fuel and capacity can affect everything from relationships and work to emotional regulation and rehabilitation.
The conversation also examines why practitioners working with trauma and the nervous system need a foundational understanding of concussion and TBI—and why those working with brain injury populations benefit from understanding the effects of complex trauma, chronic stress, and nervous system patterns.
Rather than pushing through symptoms, recovery begins with understanding what the nervous system is actually experiencing, assessing capacity, working with the minimum effective dose, and recognizing when additional rehabilitation, referral, or collaborative care may be needed.
In This Episode
What traumatic brain injury and mild TBI can look like

Why many concussions and mild TBIs go undiagnosed

The overlap between TBI, anxiety, depression, PTSD, and complex trauma symptoms

How brain injury can affect emotional regulation, cognition, memory, vision, and behavior

Why irritability, withdrawal, overwhelm, and reduced capacity may emerge after concussion

The relationship between complex trauma and persistent post-concussion symptoms

Why women and other vulnerable populations may experience additional barriers to recovery

How TBI can increase the energetic demands placed on the brain

Visual, vestibular, sensory, and cognitive processing after brain injury

Why pushing through symptoms can create diminishing returns

Fuel, capacity, assessment, reassessment, and the minimum effective dose

How Neurosomatic Intelligence can support individualized nervous system work

Why practitioners need to recognize when referral or collaborative care is appropriate

Beginning with simple awareness of breath, energy expenditure, restoration, and capacity

The importance of compassion for ourselves and others when we cannot see what another nervous system has experienced

Featured in This Episode
BECOMING TBI & CONCUSSION INFORMED — LIVE WORKSHOP
If you work with the nervous system, understanding concussion and traumatic brain injury is essential. Post-concussion symptoms can present as fatigue, overwhelm, emotional reactivity, difficulty concentrating, sensitivity to sound or light, inconsistent progress, or reduced capacity for stress.
Join Amanda Smith on September 17 for Becoming TBI and Concussion Informed, a live workshop designed to help practitioners understand how a history of concussion, mild TBI, or head and neck trauma may be affecting what they observe in their clients.
Learn to ask better questions, adapt your approach, recognize when referral or collaboration is needed, and work with greater clarity and confidence.
neurosomatic.com/concussion
Amanda Smith is a certified brain injury specialist, applied neurology pain and performance coach, founder of Amanda's Way, and educator in the Neurosomatic Intelligence Coaching Certification. Her work integrates applied neurology, nervous system education, and rehabilitation to support people navigating traumatic brain injury and persistent post-concussion symptoms.
 
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Podcast Disclaimer
Trauma Rewired podcast  is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any decisions based on what you hear. 
We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are having a negative impact on your health and well-being. 
If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental health crisis and you are in the United States you can 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.  If someone's life is in danger, immediately call 911. 
We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available.  We don't warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or up-to-date information. It's very important to talk to a medical professional about your individual needs, as we aren't responsible for any actions you take based on the information you hear in this podcast.
We  invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don't verify the accuracy of their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.
We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs. 
We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neuro-somatic practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.
The BrainBased.com site and Rewiretrail.com is a membership site for general nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a substitute for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis. 
Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved. 
Discussions related to psychedelics are provided solely for educational and harm reduction purposes. Nothing shared on this podcast or through Sacred Synapse should be interpreted as medical advice, encouragement to use illegal substances, or a recommendation that psychedelics are appropriate for any individual. Decisions regarding psychedelic use should be made in consultation with qualified healthcare professionals and in accordance with applicable laws.
We've done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of others, however if you have an issue with our content, please let us know by emailing us at traumarewired@gmail.com 
All rights in our content are reserved

Episode Summary
Why do you know you're safe logically, but your body still reacts as though you're in danger?
Emotional regulation isn't about staying calm, avoiding difficult emotions, or suppressing how you feel. It's about your brain and nervous system working together to accurately interpret what's happening inside and around you so you can respond with flexibility instead of survival.
In this episode of Trauma Rewired, Jennifer Wallace and Elisabeth Kristof are joined by NSI educator Matt Bush to explore the neuroscience of emotional regulation through the lens of brain integration, interoception, sensory processing, and neuroplasticity.
Together they unpack why trauma disrupts communication between key brain networks, how chronic stress creates fragmented emotional processing, and why many people remain stuck in cycles of overwhelm, shutdown, perfectionism, dissociation, binge eating, emotional flooding, or emotional numbness despite years of personal development or therapy.
The conversation also explores why emotional regulation is a trainable neurological skill, how simple nervous system practices improve brain integration, why sensory mismatch contributes to chronic stress, and how properly preparing the nervous system creates safer, more effective emotional processing—including during psychedelic experiences.
If you've ever wondered why insight alone doesn't create lasting change, why your emotions sometimes feel bigger than the situation, or why your body seems to react before your mind can catch up, this episode offers a neuroscience-based roadmap toward regulation, resilience, and post-traumatic growth.
In This Episode We Discuss
What emotional regulation actually is—and what it is not

Why emotional regulation depends on brain integration

The roles of the insula, anterior cingulate cortex, cerebellum, and prefrontal cortex

How trauma disrupts communication between brain networks

Why chronic stress creates fragmented emotional processing

The relationship between interoception, proprioception, and emotional regulation

Sensory mismatch and its hidden impact on nervous system health

Emotional flooding, shutdown, perfectionism, binge eating, and dissociation

Why "fake it until you make it" comes with a physiological cost

The neuroscience behind predictive coding and emotional interpretation

Why emotions are physiological—not simply psychological

How movement, vocalization, and nervous system regulation support emotional processing

Brain-body integration and the limits of insight alone

Emotional regulation during psychedelic and peak somatic experiences

Building nervous system capacity through daily regulation practices

Practical neuroscience tools that support resilience and post-traumatic growth

 
 
Featured in This Episode
NSI Foundations Bundle
Learn the foundational neuroscience and practical nervous system tools behind everything taught inside the NeuroSomatic Intelligence Certification.
https://neurosomaticintelligence.com/foundations
 
 
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Are you ready to become the woman who can carry the vision?
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Sacred Synapse with Jennifer Wallace
Learn more about psychedelic neuroscience, applied neurology, Neurosomatic Intelligence, and nervous system-informed psychedelic preparation and integration through educational, harm reduction content.
https://www.youtube.com/@sacredsynapse-23
 
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A guided journal designed to help you track nervous system patterns, deepen self-awareness, and support psychedelic preparation and integration.
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Disclaimer
Trauma Rewired podcast is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any decisions based on what you hear.
We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are having a negative impact on your health and well-being.
If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental health crisis and you are in the United States you can contact the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.
If someone's life is in danger, immediately call 911.
We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available. We don't warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or up-to-date information. It's very important to talk to a medical professional about your individual needs, as we aren't responsible for any actions you take based on the information you hear in this podcast.
We invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don't verify the accuracy of their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.
We talk about general neuroscience and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs.
We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neurosomatic practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional. BrainBased.com and RewireTrial.com are membership sites for general nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. They are not substitutes for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis.
Jennifer Wallace is also the founder of Sacred Synapse, an educational platform exploring psychedelic neuroscience, applied neurology, Neurosomatic Intelligence, and nervous system-informed psychedelic preparation and integration. Any discussion of psychedelics is provided for educational and harm reduction purposes only. Sacred Synapse does not encourage or promote illegal substance use. Psychedelic experiences carry significant psychological and physiological risks and are not appropriate for every nervous system. Always consult qualified medical professionals and follow the laws applicable where you live before making decisions related to psychedelic use.
Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved.
We've done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of others. If you have any concerns regarding our content, please contact us at traumarewired@gmail.com.
All rights in our content are reserved.

Most people think boundaries are about saying "no," protecting themselves, or keeping others at a distance. But from a nervous system perspective, boundaries are something much deeper. They are not walls that separate us from connection—they are the foundation that makes authentic connection possible.
In this episode, Jennifer Wallace, Elisabeth Kristof, and returning guest Margie Faltin explore boundaries through the lens of neuroscience, attachment, co-regulation, and post-traumatic growth.
Together they examine why boundaries can feel so threatening after trauma, why receiving someone else's boundary can activate abandonment, and how early attachment experiences shape the way we relate to authenticity, conflict, and connection throughout our lives.
Whether you've struggled with people-pleasing, over-functioning, conflict avoidance, or feeling guilty for putting your needs first, this conversation offers a compassionate, science-backed framework for understanding boundaries as an expression of nervous system health rather than emotional distance.
Together they explore why boundaries become easier as nervous system capacity grows, how self-attunement changes the way we communicate our needs, why authenticity requires safety, and how learning to both set and receive boundaries creates stronger relationships, greater resilience, and lasting post-traumatic growth.
Key Takeaways
Why boundaries are a nervous system skill—not simply communication techniques.

How attachment patterns shape the way we set and receive boundaries.

Why receiving a boundary can feel like abandonment after trauma.

The neuroscience of oxytocin, co-regulation, and the "tend-and-befriend" stress response.

Why people-pleasing and fawning are survival adaptations rather than personality traits.

The difference between reactive boundaries and boundaries rooted in regulation.

Why self-attunement is foundational to authentic relationships.

How rupture and repair help build secure attachment over time.

Practical nervous system exercises for strengthening boundary capacity.

Why authentic connection requires truth—not performance, perfection, or self-abandonment.

If you've ever worried that speaking your truth would cost you love, feared disappointing others, or found yourself constantly prioritizing everyone else's needs above your own, this episode offers another perspective: healthy boundaries are not about pushing people away. They are about creating the safety, authenticity, and nervous system capacity that allow genuine connection to grow.
 
Resources
🧠 Start Your Nervous System Journey — FREE for Two Weeks
https://rewiretrial.com
🌿 NeuroSomatic Intelligence (NSI) Certification
https://neurosomaticintelligence.com
Are you ready to become the woman who can carry the vision?
Discover nervous system education, preparation, integration, and resources to support your journey at illuminatedwithjennifer.com.
🎙️ Sacred Synapse with Jennifer Wallace
https://www.youtube.com/@sacredsynapse
🎧 Watch Trauma Rewired on YouTube
https://www.youtube.com/@traumarewired
📖 The Wayfinder Journal
https://stan.store/illuminated
 
 
Podcast Disclaimer
Trauma Rewired podcast is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any decisions based on what you hear.
We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are having a negative impact on your health and well-being.
If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental health crisis and you are in the United States you can 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. If someone's life is in danger, immediately call 911.
We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available. We don't warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or up-to-date information. It's very important to talk to a medical professional about your individual needs, as we aren't responsible for any actions you take based on the information you hear in this podcast.
We invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don't verify the accuracy of their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.
We talk about general neuroscience and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs.
We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified NeuroSomatic practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.
The BrainBased.com site and RewireTrial.com is a membership site for general nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a substitute for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis.
Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved.
Discussions related to psychedelics are provided solely for educational and harm reduction purposes. Nothing shared on this podcast or through Sacred Synapse should be interpreted as medical advice, encouragement to use illegal substances, or a recommendation that psychedelics are appropriate for any individual. Decisions regarding psychedelic use should be made in consultation with qualified healthcare professionals and in accordance with applicable laws.
We've done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of others, however if you have an issue with our content, please let us know by emailing us at traumarewired@gmail.com.
All rights in our content are reserved.

Why do so many trauma survivors say "yes" when every part of their body is saying "no"?
In this deeply compassionate episode of Trauma Rewired, Jennifer Wallace and Elisabeth Kristof are joined by somatic educator Luis Mojica to explore one of the least understood trauma adaptations: sexual fawning.
While many people recognize fawning as people-pleasing, sexual fawning often remains hidden beneath shame, confusion, and self-blame. Together, they unpack how the nervous system can mistake compliance for safety, why intimacy can become intertwined with survival, and how early developmental experiences shape adult relationships.
You'll learn why fawning is not a personality trait but an intelligent physiological adaptation, how developmental trauma creates "over-couplings" between fear and pleasure, and why healing begins not with forcing different behaviors, but by learning to recognize the body's earliest protective signals.
This conversation also explores the relationship between attachment wounds, body boundaries, shame, freeze responses, compassion, and nervous system capacity—offering a new framework for understanding sexuality through the lens of neuroscience, somatics, and post-traumatic growth.
Whether you've experienced childhood trauma, struggle to maintain boundaries, or simply want a deeper understanding of how survival responses influence intimacy, this episode offers practical insights and profound hope for healing.
In This Episode
What the fawn response actually is—and why it's far more than people-pleasing
The difference between fawning and sexual fawning
How developmental trauma couples fear, shame, and arousal
Why sexual fawning often occurs inside loving, committed relationships
The physiology behind compliance, dissociation, and body boundaries
How freeze and fawn work together during traumatic experiences
Why shame is a physiological state—not a character flaw
Understanding over-coupling and how the nervous system learns survival
The difference between present danger and nervous system triggers
How to recognize the first body signals before a fawn response occurs
Why compassion can feel threatening to a traumatized nervous system
The relationship between chronic people-pleasing, chronic illness, and nervous system capacity
Practical somatic practices for interrupting the fawn response and rebuilding body trust
Start Here
If today's conversation resonated with you, these resources are a powerful next step:
🧠 The Nervous System Rewire Mini Course
Learn the foundational practices for regulating your nervous system and creating lasting change.
https://rewirecourse.com
🧠 Try Brain-Based Membership Free for Two Weeks
Join Jennifer and Elisabeth for live nervous system training.
https://rewiretrial.com
🧠 NSI Foundations
Begin understanding how applied neurology and Neurosomatic Intelligence create lasting nervous system change.
https://www.rewiretrial.com
Watch More Trauma Rewired Episodes
If this conversation resonated, continue exploring these related episodes:
Understanding the Fawn Response
Why Boundaries Feel Like Rejection After Trauma
From Shame to Self-Expression: Healing Body Boundaries After Trauma
Emotional Flashbacks and Complex Trauma
Why Being Yourself Can Feel Dangerous After Trauma
The Freeze Response Explained
Fight, Flight, Freeze & Fawn: Understanding Survival States
 
 
Are you ready to become the woman who can carry the vision?
Discover nervous system education, preparation, integration, and resources to support your journey at illuminatedwithjennifer.com.
If you're interested in the intersection of neuroscience, psychedelics, interoception, and nervous system preparation, explore Jennifer's educational YouTube channel:
Sacred Synapse
https://www.youtube.com/@SacredSynapse
New videos every week exploring applied neurology, neuroplasticity, trauma physiology, and psychedelic harm reduction.
The Wayfinder Journal
Healing doesn't happen through insight alone.
The Wayfinder Journal was designed to help you develop greater self-awareness, nervous system attunement, and embodied reflection between sessions and episodes.
Explore the journal here:
https://stan.store/traumarewired
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Podcast Disclaimer
Trauma Rewired podcast is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute
medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a
qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any
decisions based on what you hear.
We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and
disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek
professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are
having a negative impact on your health and well-being.
If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental health
crisis and you are in the United States you can 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. If
someone's life is in danger, immediately call 911.
We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available. We
don't warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or up-to-date
information. It's very important to talk to a medical professional about your individual
needs, as we aren't responsible for any actions you take based on the information you
hear in this podcast.
We invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don't verify the accuracy of their
statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our
guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.
We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique.
These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and
you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs.
We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neuro-somatic
practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor
or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This
podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.
The BrainBased.com site and Rewiretrail.com is a membership site for general nervous
system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a substitute for
medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis.
Discussions related to psychedelics are provided solely for educational and harm
reduction purposes. Nothing shared on this podcast or through Sacred Synapse should
be interpreted as medical advice, encouragement to use illegal substances, or a
recommendation that psychedelics are appropriate for any individual. Decisionsregarding psychedelic use should be made in consultation with qualified healthcare
professionals and in accordance with applicable laws.
Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are
based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those
involved.
Discussions related to psychedelics are provided solely for educational and harm
reduction purposes. Nothing shared on this podcast or through Sacred Synapse should
be interpreted as medical advice, encouragement to use illegal substances, or a
recommendation that psychedelics are appropriate for any individual. Decisions
regarding psychedelic use should be made in consultation with qualified healthcare
professionals and in accordance with applicable laws.
We've done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of
others, however if you have an issue with our content, please let us know by emailing us
at traumarewired@gmail.com
All rights in our content are reserved

The fawn response is one of the most common—and most misunderstood—trauma adaptations. While many people recognize it as people-pleasing, saying yes too often, or avoiding conflict, fawning is far more than a personality trait. It is a deeply wired survival response designed to preserve attachment, reduce threat, and maintain connection when the nervous system believes belonging is at risk.
In this episode of Trauma Rewired, Jennifer Wallace and Elisabeth Kristof explore the neuroscience of the fawn response, explaining why so many people learn to abandon themselves in order to maintain relationships. They examine how developmental trauma teaches children to prioritize attachment over authenticity, why boundaries can feel physically threatening, and how chronic self-sacrifice eventually disconnects us from our own needs, emotions, and body.
Jennifer also shares deeply personal reflections on her own healing journey, including how fawning shaped her relationships, her experience of people-pleasing, and her recovery after surviving a kidnapping for the purpose of sex trafficking. Together, Jennifer and Elisabeth distinguish between acute survival fawning during life-threatening events and the chronic relational fawning that quietly shapes everyday interactions, work, friendships, and intimate relationships.
The conversation also explores sexual fawning—one of the least discussed trauma adaptations—and how nervous system dysregulation can cause people to override their body's own signals in order to preserve attachment, avoid conflict, or maintain connection. They discuss why these patterns often continue inside loving relationships, how dissociation disconnects us from authentic consent, and why rebuilding trust with our own body becomes one of the most important parts of healing.
Rather than viewing fawning as weakness or codependency, Jennifer and Elisabeth invite listeners to understand it as an intelligent biological adaptation that once protected survival. Healing isn't about becoming less caring or less connected. It's about expanding nervous system capacity so connection no longer requires self-abandonment.
Key Takeaways
What the fawn response really is and why it is a biological survival adaptation rather than a personality trait.

The difference between acute survival fawning and chronic relational fawning.

Why people-pleasing, caretaking, and self-sacrifice are often nervous system responses rather than conscious choices.

How developmental trauma teaches us to choose attachment over authenticity.

Why boundaries often feel dangerous to the nervous system.

The neuroscience of attachment, co-regulation, and social survival.

Why connection is a regulated nervous system state—not simply an emotion.

How chronic fawning contributes to emotional suppression, shame, inflammation, and nervous system dysregulation.

How false connection develops through self-abandonment.

Jennifer's personal reflections on surviving kidnapping and how fawning functioned during an acute survival experience.

The hidden dynamics of sexual fawning and why it often persists inside loving relationships.

How dissociation disconnects us from our body's "yes" and "no."

Why emotional processing helps restore authentic boundaries and self-expression.

Practical ways to begin rewiring the fawn response through daily nervous system practice.

If you've ever struggled to say no, felt responsible for everyone else's emotions, or found yourself losing your voice in order to keep the peace, this episode offers a compassionate, neuroscience-informed understanding of why those patterns developed—and how they can begin to change. Healing starts by recognizing that your nervous system was protecting you. Recovery begins when your body learns that authentic connection no longer requires self-abandonment
 
Resources
🧠 Start Your Nervous System Journey — FREE for Two Weeks
https://rewiretrial.com
🌿 NeuroSomatic Intelligence (NSI) Certification
https://neurosomaticintelligence.com
 
 
Are you ready to become the woman who can carry the vision?
Discover nervous system education, preparation, integration, and resources to support your journey at illuminatedwithjennifer.com.
🎙️ Sacred Synapse with Jennifer Wallace
https://www.youtube.com/@sacredsynapse
🎧 Watch Trauma Rewired on YouTube
https://www.youtube.com/@traumarewired
📖 The Wayfinder Journal
https://stan.store/illuminated
 
Disclaimer
Trauma Rewired is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute medical, psychological, or other professional advice or services. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional about your specific circumstances before making any decisions based on what you hear in this podcast.
We share our experiences and explore trauma, nervous system health, emotional processing, physical reactions, mental health, and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue listening if these conversations are having a negative impact on your health or well-being.
If you or someone you know is experiencing a mental health crisis in the United States, contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988. If someone's life is in immediate danger, call 911.
We do our best to stay current with scientific research, but older episodes remain available and may not reflect the latest findings. We do not warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate, or up-to-date information. It is important to consult a qualified healthcare professional regarding your individual needs, as we are not responsible for any actions taken based on the information shared in this podcast.
We occasionally invite guests to share their expertise and lived experiences. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily represent the views of Trauma Rewired or our organization. We do not independently verify every statement made by our guests and do not endorse third-party content.
We discuss neuroscience, nervous system regulation, and somatic health for a broad audience, but every nervous system is unique. The information shared is educational in nature and should not replace individualized medical, psychological, or therapeutic care.
We are not physicians or licensed medical professionals. We are certified Neurosomatic practitioners, educators, and nervous system coaches. This podcast is not a substitute for working with a qualified healthcare provider who understands your individual history and needs.
Brain Based and Rewire Trial provide educational resources focused on nervous system health, stress processing, and somatic practices. They are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any medical or mental health condition and are not appropriate substitutes for emergency or crisis care.
Any examples shared throughout this podcast are for educational and illustrative purposes. When based on real events, identifying details have been changed to protect the privacy of those involved.
Discussions related to psychedelics are provided solely for educational and harm reduction purposes. Nothing shared on this podcast or through Sacred Synapse should be interpreted as medical advice, encouragement to use illegal substances, or a recommendation that psychedelic substances are appropriate for any individual. Decisions regarding psychedelic use should always be made in consultation with qualified healthcare professionals and in accordance with applicable laws.
We strive to respect the intellectual property rights of others. If you believe any content infringes upon your rights, please contact us at traumarewired@gmail.com.
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