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30 Flirty Things to Say to Women to Stop Freezing Up and Start Getting More Dates
11/06/2026 | 19 mins.Do you freeze up around women because you don't know what to say or text? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares 30 flirty things to say to women—helping you spark attraction, create chemistry, and get more dates. Oh! And you get to be your authentic self, not some guy using weird pickup tactics. Listen now!
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GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Book” in Subject Line)- You want to make moves, from approaching women to asking out your crush. But you’re afraid you’ll seem creepy. And that fear is costing you dates and confidence. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares the solution. He calls them the 6 ICKS. There are only six ways men give women the ick. Avoid the 6 ICKS, and you’ll be free to flirt with confidence, take more chances, and get a great girlfriend.
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connell@datingtransformation.com 29 Flirty Things to Say to Women in 29 Minutes—so You’ll Never Run out of Things to Say!
10/16/2026 | 31 mins.Chances are, you struggle with flirting. Maybe you freeze up when you want to approach a woman, run out of things to say on dates, or stare at your phone wondering what to text. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares 29 flirting tips to help you start conversations, send better texts, and spark romantic interest—without cheesy pickup lines.
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Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)- If you’re like most single men, you’d love to meet women in places like coffee shops, bars, and the gym—but you just don’t know what to say to start the conversation. And you have no idea how to make things flirty, let alone sexy. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and author Connell Barrett shares the 8 sexiest things to say when you approach in the daytime. Get ready to approach with authentic charm and zero creepiness.
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GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Book” in Subject Line) - What kind of text should you never send a woman—and what should you send instead? Dating coach Connell Barrett breaks down 9 texts that can hurt your chances with her, and shares 9 charming alternatives that can help you get more replies and land more dates.
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About How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Yes, you can get a great girlfriend! And dating coach Connell Barrett will show you how to confidently connect with women by being authentic—no creepy pickup moves needed. On the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, Connell offers the kinds of tested dating tips he shared in his bestselling book, Dating Sucks but You Don’t, and in his TV appearances (GMA, “Today.”) In his 12 years as a coach, Connell has helped thousands of men in 17 countries find love. No wonder Psychology Today named him “America’s top dating coach for men.” Connell personally faced—and fixed—every common dating problem, from not knowing how to flirt to dating-app struggles to low self-confidence. After meeting his dream girlfriend Jess, Connell now helps nice guys and gentlemen find love by dating with “Radical Authenticity.” Ready to meet your soulmate? Join Connell and his expert guests every week for game-changing advice. Carpe date ’em. Seize the date!
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