24. The Real Reason Goal Writing Sucks (and What to Do About It)
Join the FREE Rubric Reset Workshop, live on November 12: Grab your free ticket here >> REGISTER NOW In this episode, Nicole Casey discusses the challenges of writing effective goals for autistic students, emphasizing the limitations of traditional goal writing systems. She introduces rubrics as a solution to create individualized, meaningful, and measurable goals that reflect the child's needs. The conversation highlights the importance of moving away from compliance-based goals and focusing on authentic progress. Nicole also invites listeners to join her free Rubric Reset Workshop, where they can learn to implement this new approach in their practice. Takeaways: Goal writing can feel overwhelming and frustrating. It's common to feel like goal writing is a personal struggle. Traditional goal writing often doesn't reflect the child's needs. The education system's limitations impact goal writing. Compliance-based goals can hinder authentic progress. Rubrics can streamline the goal writing process. Individualization is key to effective goal setting. Progress should be measured in a meaningful way. Rubrics allow for capturing nuanced communication skills. Advocacy is essential for changing the goal writing system. Chapters 00:00 The Struggles of Goal Writing 02:47 Understanding the System's Flaws 06:05 The Compliance Trap in Goal Writing 08:46 Introducing Rubrics as a Solution 12:03 The Importance of Individualization 14:59 Measuring Progress Beyond Compliance 17:50 The Rubric Framework Explained 21:03 Capturing Authentic Progress 23:52 Implementing Rubrics in Practice 26:47 Preparing for the Rubric Reset Workshop goal writing, autistic students, rubrics, compliance, individualized education, therapy, progress measurement, child-led therapy, IEP, education system
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23. The Worst Goals for Autistic Students (As Told By Autistic Adults)
In this conversation, Nicole Casey explores the discomfort surrounding the topic of therapy goals for autistic children, emphasizing the importance of listening to autistic voices. She discusses the harmful nature of compliance-based goals, such as suppressing stimming and forcing eye contact, and advocates for a shift towards neuroaffirming, child-led therapy that prioritizes the child's needs and experiences. The conversation highlights the need for collaboration among therapy teams and the importance of empowering autistic individuals to advocate for themselves. Takeaways: Discomfort can be a sign of growth and learning for us as professionals. Listening to autistic voices is crucial in therapy. Many traditional therapy goals can be harmful. Suppressing stimming can hinder a child's regulation. Eye contact is not necessary for effective communication. Goals should focus on the child's needs, not compliance. Neurotypical expectations can be limiting for autistic individuals. Empowering children to self-advocate is essential. Therapy should honor the child's authentic self. Shifting from compliance to connection can change lives.
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22. What to do When an Autistic Child is Not Engaging With Us
In this conversation, Nicole Casey discusses the challenges therapists face when children disengage during sessions. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the reasons behind disengagement, advocating for a child-led approach, and recognizing signs of fatigue or burnout. Nicole shares strategies for managing disengagement, building trust with families, and reframing engagement. She encourages therapists to shift their mindset, prioritize connection, and be present with the child, even in quieter sessions. The conversation concludes with practical tips for therapists to enhance their practice and foster meaningful connections with their clients. Disengagement is a common experience in therapy sessions. It's important to understand the reasons behind a child's disengagement. Child-led therapy focuses on following the child's lead. Recognizing signs of fatigue can help tailor sessions effectively. Effective communication with families is crucial for understanding the child's needs. Therapists should prioritize building trust and connection with their clients. Not every session will be filled with engagement; that's okay. Therapists should reframe their understanding of engagement and disengagement. Mindset shifts can enhance a therapist's effectiveness in sessions. Practicing patience and presence can lead to meaningful connections.
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21. Toxic Positivity Protects Systems, Not Us!
In this episode, Nicole Casey discusses the concept of toxic positivity, particularly in the context of workplace environments, especially in special education. She shares personal experiences and examples of how toxic positivity manifests in professional settings, often leading to a culture that dismisses genuine concerns and prioritizes a facade of happiness over accountability and safety. The conversation emphasizes the need for authenticity, open communication, and strategies to address toxic positivity to create healthier work environments. Toxic positivity dismisses genuine feelings and experiences. It often protects the system rather than individuals. Authenticity is crucial in addressing workplace issues. Leadership plays a significant role in perpetuating toxic positivity. Ignoring safety concerns can have serious consequences. Employees need to voice their concerns without fear of dismissal. Creating a culture of honesty can improve work environments. Strategies exist to combat toxic positivity effectively. It's important to document concerns and seek accountability. Small actions can lead to significant changes in workplace culture. To learn more, visit www.childled.org or follow @thechildledslp on instagram!
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20. Trauma-Informed Care and Child-Led Therapy Are Interconnected
To learn more, follow: @thechildledslp and @ptsd.slp In this conversation, Nicole Casey discusses the importance of trauma-informed care in supporting autistic students. She emphasizes that trauma is widespread and often hidden, and that educators must approach their work with a mindset that prioritizes safety, trust, and connection. The discussion covers the four Rs of trauma-informed care, misconceptions about what it entails, the distinction between rules and boundaries, and practical strategies for implementing trauma-informed practices in educational settings. Casey shares real-life examples to illustrate the application of these principles, ultimately highlighting the interconnectedness of child-led and trauma-informed approaches in creating supportive environments for autistic children. Trauma-informed care is essential for supporting autistic students. Understanding trauma is crucial for effective education. Child-led therapy must be trauma-informed to be effective. Misconceptions about trauma-informed care can hinder progress. Rules in therapy should be flexible and reconsidered. Boundaries are about personal safety and respect. Language choices can impact students with trauma. Toxic positivity can be harmful in educational settings. Transparency with students builds trust and safety. Creating safe spaces is vital for student well-being.
Hosted by Nicole Casey, speech-language pathologist and founder of The Child-Led SLP, Let Them Lead is the go-to podcast for professionals and caregivers who want to support autistic kids with respect, trust, and connection.
Each week, we explore child-led, neuroaffirming approaches to communication, play, and therapy—centered around the belief that autistic kids deserve communication partners who honor and support them holistically. Whether you're navigating gestalt language processing, AAC, sensory differences, or just want to break free from compliance-based systems, you're in the right place.
You'll hear honest conversations, practical strategies, and plenty of real-life examples to help you unlearn old habits and confidently support the kids you love or work with. No behavior charts. No rigid protocols. Just curiosity, compassion, and the freedom to follow your autistic child's lead.
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