Restored with Corie Weathers, LPC

Almost thirty years ago, a small but mighty professor at Gardner-Webb University taught a generation of students how to search their hearts, hear God's voice, and spot the difference between faith and its counterfeits. Her classes were so transformative that students warned each other: "Take a Cullinan class, but be prepared to change your major."

In this episode, Corie sits down with Dr. Alice Cullinan, now in her eighties, still writing, still teaching, to talk about what happens when the marketplace flips your apple cart. They explore what it means when the people who share your faith don't seem changed by it, how to tell the difference between God's voice and your own, and why the spiritual disciplines she taught decades ago might matter more now than ever.

Whether you grew up in the church, left the church, or are trying to figure out what to do with the church, this conversation is an invitation to linger.

In this episode:

The "apple cart" moments that reshape what we believe about the people around us.

Dr. Cullinan's origin story of a life-altering decision at her lowest moment to shaping generations of students.

Navigating ministry as a woman when institutions weren't ready.

"Time for a Checkup": the spiritual inventory practice that changed everything.

How to discern God's voice from your own in a noisy marketplace.

What Dr. Cullinan thinks about the evolution of the evangelical church

Why she says, "I do not trust myself ..."

If you'd like to watch the raw, unproduced video of this interview, you can find it here: https://youtu.be/HLCDhcSw2Qk

Dr. Cullinan's Resources: 📚 Books on Amazon: https://a.co/d/0a5wfBIy 🎥 Lamplighters Ministries Video Bible Studies: https://www.lamplighters-ministries.org/video-bible-studies/ ✍️ Her blog: https://alicecullinan.blogspot.com/

Share Your Story If this episode stirred something in you, we'd love to hear from you. Record a short voice memo and email it to restored@corieweathers.com — your story may help shape a future episode.

Connect with Corie 🔗 https://linktr.ee/corieweathers

(Watch this interview instead on Youtube: https://youtu.be/qbuAB-_cPEE?si=s16WkXuBCwv9TG-x)

Sgt. 1st Class Nicholas Kau'ilokoikaika Franklin Guard — known to those who loved him as Nick — is the 2026 TUP Virtual Memorial Mile honoree. Nick died on June 20th, 2022 after struggling with the mental and physical impacts of his military service. He was a soldier, a husband, a father, and a friend whose life continues to inspire all who knew him. In this video, Corie Weathers sits down with Nick's wife, Cydney, for a deeply personal conversation about who Nick was, the weight of loss, and the love that endures. We are #MotivatedByTheirLives 🇺🇸

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What happens when stress doesn’t just affect individuals—but entire communities?

In this episode of Restored, I sit down with sociologist Dr. Seth Abrutyn, whose research explores how collective stress, cultural trauma, and social pain shape mental health, belonging, and the survival of communities over time.

Drawing from his book Life Under Pressure and his work on collective and cultural trauma, Seth helps us understand why communities under prolonged pressure—whether schools, neighborhoods, minority groups, or institutions—can begin to fracture, lose trust, and struggle to care for their people.

Seth's article that inspired this episode: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/21568693231213088

More about Seth: https://sethabrutyn.com/

If this episode stirred something in you, you’re invited to share your story.
You can record a short voice memo and email it to:
📩 https://linktr.ee/corieweathers

Music: $50 to Breathe & I Am a Man Who Will Fight for Your Honor by Chris Zabriskie

What if the discomfort we’re trying to escape is actually trying to teach us?

In this solo episode of Restored, Corie Weathers explores cognitive dissonance—the inner tension we feel when our beliefs, values, and lived experiences no longer align. Rather than rushing to certainty or easy answers, this episode invites listeners to slow down and learn how to listen to inner conflict as a source of wisdom.

Drawing on insights from Viktor Frankl, psychology, history, and cultural observation, Corie examines why we struggle to sit with the “messy middle,” how individuals and cultures often resolve tension by avoiding responsibility, and what becomes possible when we stay present long enough for meaning to emerge.

This episode includes a guided reflective practice, helping listeners notice where inner conflict is showing up in their own lives—and how to engage it without fear, rigidity, or avoidance.

This is not an episode about having the right answers.
It’s about learning how to remain human in the questions.

If this episode stirred something in you, you’re invited to share your story.
You can record a short voice memo and email it to:
📩 https://linktr.ee/corieweathers

What does healing actually require — in a marriage, in a community, or in a culture stretched thin by conflict?

We’re living in a time when tension feels everywhere — in our homes, online, within institutions, and across the nation. The emotional strain we feel collectively often mirrors what happens inside relationships: disconnection, mistrust, stuck narratives, and the fear that things may never return to peace.

That’s why today’s conversation with Dr. Mike Sytsma is so compelling.

For more than 30 years, Mike has worked with couples facing some of the most painful relational fractures imaginable — and he’s learned something stunningly consistent: two things must be present for healing to even begin:

1. A contrite, humble heart
—a genuine willingness to acknowledge harm and soften defensiveness.

2. Grace
—creating space for change without erasing boundaries, truth, or accountability.

These two human capacities, he says, are just as essential for restoring marriages as they are for healing communities and cultures under strain.

In this episode, Mike and Corie explore:

Why deep conflict (personal or societal) emerges when pain goes unaddressed

What makes a contrite heart so transformative — and so rare

How grace functions as an active force in reconciliation, not passive acceptance

The difference between forgiveness, safety, and rebuilding trust

Why some relationships — and some communities — recover while others fracture

How humility, grit, and emotional regulation allow peace to take root again

What healing looks like when it’s slow, nonlinear, and imperfect

The inner work required of both individuals before reconciliation can occur

Corie reflects on how these insights reach far beyond intimate relationships:
To heal a divided culture, individuals must first examine the inner conflicts that shape how they show up in the world. The principles that restore a marriage — truth, humility, accountability, and compassion — are the same principles that restore communities.

Listener Invitation
Do you have a story of conflict, healing, or peace?
We’d love to hear it. Record a short voice memo on your phone and send it to:

📩 https://intimatemarriage.org/.

Past Episodes with Dr. Mike:

Secrets of Sex with Dr. Michael Sytsma: https://www.podbean.com/eas/pb-xc6gm-13cde55

Sexual Intimacy & Post-Affair:

https://www.podbean.com/ep/pb-yettc-97de7e

Restoring Trust: 

https://vimeo.com/117354250?fl=pl&fe=sh