Life Starts at Retirement

Retirement isn’t just about leaving a job — it’s about letting go of parts of yourself you didn’t even realize you were holding onto.In this video, I share 8 things I personally needed to let go of after I retired — not all at once, and not without some resistance. Things like old identities, expectations, guilt, and the constant need to feel productive. Some of these surprised me.Some were harder than I expected.And all of them changed how I experience this chapter of life. If you’re newly retired, thinking about retirement, or quietly wondering “Is it normal to feel this way?” — this video is for you. This isn’t about what retirement should look like.It’s about what it can feel like when you finally give yourself permission to live differently.✨ In this video, we talk about:👉 Identity after retirement👉 Social life👉 Recognition👉 Stress👉 Career advancement👉 Space at home👉 Income security👉 Purpose If you’ve ever felt excited and unsettled at the same time in retirement, you’re not alone.💬 I’d love to hear from you in the comments:What is one thing you’ve had to let go of — or know you need to let go of — in retirement? If you find comfort or clarity here, please consider subscribing.We’re having honest conversations about retirement, purpose, and living well — one season at a time.DISCLAIMER: I’m not a financial adviser. These videos are for educational purposes only. No official financial advice is being given. Please always check with a professional before making any investments or financial decisions. Your investments are your sole responsibility, these videos merely share my own opinions with no guarantee of gain or losses. #retirement #retire #tfsa #ccp #oas #lifestyle #retirementlife #retirementlifestyle #retirementplanning #retired #oldagepension #canadapensionplan #taxfreesavingsplan #retirees #retired #tfsa

In today's video I talk about 7 things to make your first year of retirement....REMARKABLE!  Retirement is pictured at your "golden years," the "best time of your life" and something we can't wait to get to.  But for many people, retirement is a struggle.  We go from being busy, having a purpose and working for 30 years to nothing.  That can be difficult. And so after talking to many, many retiree's I've come up with a list of 7 things to help you through that first year.  To help you get on track and to set yourself up for success in retirement. Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction0:48 - Relax2:27 - Friendship3:30 - Let excitement guide you4:30 - Be careful of big commitments5:22 - Be honest with yourself6:42 - Dress for the person you want to be7:16 - Retirement is a processRetirement is one of the four largest stages a person goes through.  The more you understand about it and what to expect, the more REMARKABLE it can be!! Please join our Facebook group at www.facebook.com/groups/lifestartsatretirement

Retirement didn’t just change my daily routine — it changed my mindset. After years of worrying about what people thought, explaining myself, and living by expectations… I finally reached the stage of life where I can say: I don’t care anymore — and I have never felt more free.In this video, I share the unexpected emotional freedom that came with retirement — letting go of people-pleasing, releasing comparison, and finally choosing peace over pressure.If you’re nearing retirement or already there and wondering why life suddenly feels lighter (or why you're ready to stop caring what others think), you are not alone.This is especially for anyone over 50 who is navigating identity shifts, confidence changes, or that powerful moment of choosing to live authentically instead of living for approval.💬 I’d love to hear from you: What’s one thing you’ve stopped caring about since retirement? Comment below — your story may inspire someone else.Things I no longer care about in retirement...Timestamps:0:00 - Introduction2:42 - What anyone thinks of me3:26 - Being liked by others4:33 - Other people's opinions5:55 - The need to justify myself6:23 - Looking younger7:10 - Energy suckers7:48 - To compare myself to others8:25 - Regrets#retirementplanning #retirement mindset #life after retirement, #women over 60 #not caring what people think #freedom #freedominretirement

Guilt is one of the most common — and most hidden — struggles retirees face.In this episode of Life Starts at Retirement, we talk openly about the guilt that comes with finally prioritizing yourself after decades of putting everyone else first. From feelings of obligation toward family and caregiving responsibilities, to the pressure of being needed, available, or “useful” — this emotional weight can quietly steal the joy from what should be one of the most fulfilling seasons of life.If you’ve ever felt guilty for:Traveling or enjoying freedom in retirementSaying “no” to family obligationsChoosing experiences over expectationsWanting more joy, adventure, or personal growth…you are not alone — and you are not selfish.In this honest conversation, we explore:🔦 Why guilt shows up in retirement🔦 How to recognize when guilt is misplaced🔦 The emotional shift that comes with reclaiming your time🔦 Healthy boundaries for family relationships🔦 Why your joy does not take anything away from othersThis video is for anyone navigating the emotional transition into retirement, feeling torn between supporting loved ones and finally living the life they worked so hard to earn.Your time matters. Your happiness matters. And your dreams didn’t expire when your career ended.Timestamps 0:00 - Introduction8:13 - Be where your feet are9:00 - Give yourself permission9:14 - Schedule anchors10:12 - Love isn't on a timer10:31 - You matter too✨ Subscribe to Life Starts at Retirement for weekly guidance on emotional well-being, travel, purpose, and creating a joyful retirement lifestyle.

Guilt is one of the most common — and most hidden — struggles retirees face.In this episode of Life Starts at Retirement, we talk openly about the guilt that comes with finally prioritizing yourself after decades of putting everyone else first. From feelings of obligation toward family and caregiving responsibilities, to the pressure of being needed, available, or “useful” — this emotional weight can quietly steal the joy from what should be one of the most fulfilling seasons of life.We explore the importance of giving yourself permission to enjoy your retirement life. It's about embracing retirement happiness and understanding that decades of hard work have earned you this happiness.We discuss how to have a happy retirement and make your retirement remarkable.If you’ve ever felt guilty for:• Traveling or enjoying freedom in retirement• Saying “no” to family obligations• Choosing experiences over expectations• Wanting more joy, adventure, or personal growth …you are not alone — and you are not selfish.In this honest conversation, we explore:🔦 Why guilt shows up in retirement🔦 Ideas on how to live your life with joy🔦 Why your joy does not take anything away from othersThis video is for anyone navigating the emotional transition into retirement, feeling torn between supporting loved ones and finally living the life they worked so hard to earn. Your time matters. Your happiness matters. And your dreams didn’t expire when your career ended. Timestamps0:00 Introduction8:13 - Be where your feet are9:00 - Give yourself permission9:14 - Schedule anchors10:12 - Love isn't on a timer10:41 - You matter too✨ Subscribe to Life Starts at Retirement for weekly guidance on emotional well-being, travel, purpose, and creating a joyful retirement lifestyle.