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• Bridget Phetasy on Hookup Culture, Divorce, and Healing Our Culture

  I sat down with comedian, writer, and host of “Walk-Ins Welcome,” Bridget Phetasy to talk about how she recovered from divorce, hookup culture, and addiction—and how those experiences shaped her views on our current cultural crisis. Writing for Playboy in the 2010s gave her a front-row seat to a society going mad. Bridget’s previously mainstream liberal beliefs were shattered one by one, eventually leading to the realization that marriage and parenthood were right for her all along._____________________________________Follow Bridget on X (formerly Twitter): https://x.com/BridgetPhetasy?s=20Watch Bridget on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@phetasy?si=vocDzLaTe0_885NzWatch “Walk-Ins Welcome”: https://youtube.com/@morebridgetphetasy?si=xkIAzwIDvtMP3rKQFollow Bridget on Substack: https://www.phetasy.com/_____________________________________Outline:[0:00] What parenting teaches you[14:01] Start your family early[18:10] Where feminism goes too far[23:02] Hookup culture isn’t empowerment[34:53] Divorce triggers a dark spiral for kids[45:43] How pop culture shapes your beliefs[50:21] “Staying together for the kids” and real love[1:02:51] Having kids resets your ambitions[1:08:49] How broken people get lost in darkness[1:20:25] Identity is way more than your superficial traits[1:25:16] Trans surgeries and the power of sex[1:41:49] Is Islam incompatible with the West?[1:53:42] Group differences vs individual treatment[1:59:18] Can the 12 Steps heal America?[2:08:28] Institutional trust and the AI revolution[2:14:09] Psychological, ideological, and technological crises[2:28:19] Focus on creation, not destruction_____________________________________Purchase a T-shirt, hoodie, and more over on our merch store: https://shop.dadsavesamerica.com/Watch the video version on YouTube: https://youtu.be/TwdnGWyjmUcMake a tax-deductible donation to Dad Saves America: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://secure.anedot.com/emergent-order-foundation/dad-website?⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Visit our website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.dadsavesamerica.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get full access to Dad Saves America at www.dadsavesamerica.com/subscribe

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• Dr. Drew on Narcissism, Childhood Trauma, and the Sexual Revolution

  I sat down with Dr. Drew Pinsky to unpack how a culture of narcissism is warping our relationships, our politics, and the way we raise our kids. Drawing on decades of clinical experience, Dr. Drew explains how collapsing family structures create adults who are fragile on the inside but obsessed with curating a perfect image on the outside. We talk about how social media rewards performative outrage and mob “justice,” why so many young people now filter everything through a lens of victimhood, and how the sexual revolution reshaped intimacy in ways most people still don’t fully understand._____________________________________Follow Dr. Drew on X (formerly Twitter): https://x.com/drdrewSubscribe to Dr. Drew’s YouTube channel: https://youtube.com/@DrDrew?si=ep1LT1yWvqUKxrYW_____________________________________Outline:[0:00] Intro[0:53] What is narcissism?[15:17] Activist mobs, false empathy, and free speech[22:42] Narcissism vs sociopathy vs psychopathy[29:18] The impacts of social media[30:59] What is adulthood?[39:05] Family breakdown and the psychological crisis[51:38] “It Doesn’t Have To Be Awkward”[56:38] Grappling with gender identity confusion[1:05:53] The lasting effects of trauma[1:12:51] Marriage, divorce, and relationships[1:20:40] Why are gay and transgender issues lumped together?[1:23:18] Do Americans just need to toughen up?[1:25:18] Mental health impacts of COVID lockdowns[1:27:16] Social media hits girls and boys are differently[1:30:53] Homelessness, fatherlessness, and foster care_____________________________________Purchase a T-shirt, hoodie, and more over on our merch store: https://shop.dadsavesamerica.com/Watch the video version on YouTube: https://youtu.be/RV0dnLFbu-kMake a tax-deductible donation to Dad Saves America: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://secure.anedot.com/emergent-order-foundation/dad-website?⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Visit our website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.dadsavesamerica.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get full access to Dad Saves America at www.dadsavesamerica.com/subscribe

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• The Neuroscience Behind the Culture War – Delia McCabe

  I sat down with neuroscience PhD Delia McCabe to explore why our brains are struggling in the modern world and what that means for our kids, our politics, and how we handle the AI revolution. Delia has spent her career digging into the effects of nutrition on mental health—either optimizing cognitive function or sending our brains into disastrous feedback loops. We also discuss biological sex differences, the rise of gender confusion, and the cognitive biases that have deranged our public discourse._____________________________________Read Delia’s Substack: https://deliamccabe.substack.com/Learn more about Delia’s work: https://www.lighterbrighteryou.life/_____________________________________Outline:[0:00] What’s wrong with clinical psychology?[7:13] The link between food, behavior, and mental health[19:36] How neuroplasticity actually works[28:24] Thinking burns more energy than physical labor[33:15] Does neuroscience disprove free will?[39:43] Emotions can literally change what we know[45:30] You can’t separate the mind from the body[55:49] Confirmation bias vs “the feeling of knowing”[1:03:20] When is it safe to “trust your gut”?[1:12:27] Why smart people believe dumb ideas[1:18:40] What happens to your brain in your mid-20s?[1:30:14] “Social-emotional learning” and the trauma obsession[1:45:26] The black mirror, the uncanny valley, and narcissism[1:55:33] Male and female brains are objectively different[2:08:05] What’s causing the explosion of gender confusion?[2:21:38] Is feminization destroying our society?[2:38:32] Confronting your ignorance is painful but necessary[2:43:14] How can we heal the gender divide?[2:49:47] How can you change someone’s mind?[3:01:35] Why our psychology leads to big government[3:12:54] The jobs that attract smart psychopaths[3:25:56] Stress, focus, and creativity[3:36:43] Understand the brain, save America_____________________________________Purchase a T-shirt, hoodie, and more over on our merch store: https://shop.dadsavesamerica.com/Watch the video version on YouTube: https://youtu.be/caiubV_hqCgMake a tax-deductible donation to Dad Saves America: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://secure.anedot.com/emergent-order-foundation/dad-website?⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Visit our website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.dadsavesamerica.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get full access to Dad Saves America at www.dadsavesamerica.com/subscribe

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• Persuasion VS Manipulation: Why We Don’t Trust Slick-Talkers - Jay Heinrichs

  I sat down with Jay Heinrichs, best-selling author of Thank You for Arguing, to explore the lost art of rhetoric and why Americans should relearn these skills. Most of us have forgotten how to persuade one another, and in an algorithmically optimized social media era, we’re increasingly vulnerable to constant manipulation. We dig into how, from Gavin Newsom to Donald Trump, our politicians use rhetorical tactics to greater and lesser effect. The ancient Greeks treated argument as a civic virtue—a tool for building relationships and solving problems. In the modern era, where political tribes talk past each other and rely on logical fallacies, elevating our public discourse is long overdue._____________________________________Learn more about Jay’s work: https://www.jayheinrichs.com/Read Jay’s work on Substack: https://substack.com/@jayheinrichs?utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-pagePurchase a copy of Jay’s latest book: https://a.co/d/5BV8IEF_____________________________________Outline:[0:00] What is “rhetoric” and why did we forget it?[8:17] The collapse and rebirth of public debate[17:28] Inoculate your kids against manipulation[24:59] Disinterest vs “lived experience” in debate[34:51] Arguing about the past, present, and future[42:51] How to apply these tactics in a job interview[50:01] Why we’re skeptical of slick-talkers[59:52] Can rhetoric help rebuild institutional trust?[1:07:02] Physical closeness, emotion, and human connection[1:17:58] Empathy, sympathy, and manipulative rhetoric[1:22:54] Greta Thunberg’s vs Al Gore’s climate change rhetoric[1:32:01] How to avoid logical fallacies[1:51:59] Why bipartisanship is so elusive today[2:01:31] Empower your kids to speak better_____________________________________Purchase a T-shirt, hoodie, and more over on our merch store:https://shop.dadsavesamerica.com/Watch the video version on YouTube: https://youtu.be/LH6kG42n-T8Make a tax-deductible donation to Dad Saves America: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://secure.anedot.com/emergent-order-foundation/dad-website?⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Visit our website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.dadsavesamerica.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get full access to Dad Saves America at www.dadsavesamerica.com/subscribe

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• My Soviet Parents Saw Cancel Culture Coming Before Anyone Else - Katherine Brodsky

  I sat down with writer and free speech advocate Katherine Brodsky to explore how fear and conformity have paralyzed honest dialogue in the West. Drawing on her own experience as the target of a cancellation mob for what should have been an uncontroversial statement, she’s been grappling with how our culture can return to sanity and re-embrace free speech as a core value. We reflect on how social media algorithms have distorted public discourse, whether the right is now engaging in the same bad behavior that defined the left over the past decade, and why having hard conversations is a skill we need to practice more as a society._____________________________________Follow Katherine on X (formerly Twitter): https://x.com/mysteriouskat?s=20Read Katherine’s work on Substack: https://substack.com/@mysteriouskat_____________________________________Outline:[0:00] Why Katherine called me out[6:33] How Katherine got cancelled[22:18] Her Soviet parents saw cancel culture coming[28:23] Why can’t we have reasonable conversations anymore?[36:03] Instinct, rationality, and algorithmic manipulation[43:20] Why some people stand up to the mob and others don’t[48:09] Where are the conservatives in academia and the arts?[1:00:06] Searching for truth in the Israel debate[1:09:22] Did the anti-woke backlash go to far?[1:19:07] Does Twitter represent the public’s actual opinions?[1:27:14] We’re still haunted by the atrocities of 2020[1:37:57] How hands-off should the government be?[1:48:54] Bodily autonomy and freedom of speech are non-negotiable[1:56:45] Is Muslim immigration compatible with the West?[2:13:51] Why has the left embraced anti-Americanism?[2:28:42] Free speech is a muscle_____________________________________Purchase a T-shirt, hoodie, and more over on our merch store: https://shop.dadsavesamerica.com/Watch the video version on YouTube: https://youtu.be/bbncXIGIJaoMake a tax-deductible donation to Dad Saves America: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://secure.anedot.com/emergent-order-foundation/dad-website?⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Visit our website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.dadsavesamerica.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get full access to Dad Saves America at www.dadsavesamerica.com/subscribe

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