Couple Things with Shawn and Andrew

Everyone tends to fall into one of two patterns: thinking or doing.

In this conversation, Pat Lencioni explores the tension between visionaries and doers and why some people generate ideas but struggle to act, while others execute but lack direction. More importantly, he breaks down why real progress requires both.

This isn’t just about business, but it’s about how we all approach work, goals, and life. Why do we get stuck even when we know what to do? And what actually helps us move forward?

We hope you enjoy this one with Pat Lencioni and make sure to check out his books!

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In our most recent series, we opened up about some of the hardest topics we've discussed:
“I’m not here to make you happy.”
“I will let you down.”
“You don’t need me.”

We couldn’t see eye to eye on what they really meant.. So for this episode, we did something different. We brought in Dr. John Delony and let him break it all down (Oh boy hahaha). What started as a conversation quickly turned into real, on-the-spot couples counseling… with all of you watching. 😂

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Love you guys!
Shawn & Andrew
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Marriage and parenting are often painted as beautiful, fulfilling journeys (and they are!). But there are also parts no one really talks about until you’re in the middle of them. In this episode, we’re getting real about the unexpected challenges that catch couples and parents off guard. From shifting identities and communication struggles to the mental load, loneliness, and loss of spontaneity, we’re unpacking the truths people don’t always share before saying “I do” or bringing home a baby.

Whether you’re preparing for marriage, navigating early parenthood, or deep in the trenches, this honest conversation will help you feel seen, understood, and a little more prepared for what’s ahead.

Love you guys!
Shawn & Andrew

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(00:00) what a spring break that was

(03:22) things no one warned us about

(04:28) the “50/50” concept

(08:00) biggest fear going into our first child

(15:21) the different types of loads we all carry

(17:58) how parenting brings out new nuances

(21:38) connection vs compatibility

(26:38) selfish vs selfless

(29:16) the roommate phase (and the phases after)

(33:39) intimacy isn’t just “sexy time”

(37:00) how quickly we adapt

(38:28) apologizing, grief, and missing the past

(45:12) speed checks and finding the right cadence

(46:43) not just having “yes men” + accepting help

(47:30) having family nearby

(48:02) protecting our time together

(48:32) the “we” pronoun

(49:10) the four-month window

(52:54) don’t assume

(53:30) life is WONDERFUL
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Marriage and parenting are often painted as beautiful, fulfilling journeys (and they are!). But there are also parts no one really talks about until you’re in the middle of them. In this episode, we’re getting real about the unexpected challenges that catch couples and parents off guard. From shifting identities and communication struggles to the mental load, loneliness, and loss of spontaneity, we’re unpacking the truths people don’t always share before saying “I do” or bringing home a baby.

Whether you’re preparing for marriage, navigating early parenthood, or deep in the trenches, this honest conversation will help you feel seen, understood, and a little more prepared for what’s ahead.

Love you guys!
Shawn & Andrew

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Four years ago, we recorded an episode built entirely around questions from our community- real questions from you, and our unfiltered advice in response! It ended up being one of our most-loved episodes, and listening back, it still feels just as relevant today.

We’re bringing it back because the core of it hasn’t changed: people are still figuring things out, still asking the same kinds of questions, and still looking for honest, thoughtful advice. There’s something special about revisiting where we were, what we said, and seeing how it all holds up now.

Whether you were there the first time or you’re hearing it for the first time now, we hope you enjoy this throwback episode and maybe even find a few answers you didn’t know you needed.

Love you guys!

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(00:00) bringing back an old favorite

(00:40) advice from us 4 years ago

(02:12) flying with babies

(08:50) asking for a break from the kids

(09:32) supporting your partner’s mental health(

13:05) first-time parent experiences

(16:59) how to tell if a friend likes you romantically

(20:05) encouraging healthy habits

(25:48) living with intention

(27:11) practicing less judgment

(29:12) transitioning from one to two kids

(30:43) sharing a family vision

(33:10) knowing when you're ready for kids

(34:34) finding purpose as a mom

(35:12) handling in-laws with grace

(38:06) postpartum body confidence

(39:10) living life to the fullest
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